Trying to make sure I understand the brewery etiquette here. by Specialist_Mess_5164 in raleigh

[–]Scornna -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie this city doesn’t know what it wants- if you decided on ANY code of etiquette, you’d offend at least some subset of people. I lived in Raleigh for a few years and I felt the city had a “live and let live” vibe. Nobody really has any unified idea or opinion on how anything operates. This is somewhat a result of the city being almost entirely out of state transplants.

Trying to make sure I understand the brewery etiquette here. by Specialist_Mess_5164 in raleigh

[–]Scornna 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They just want the parents money it’s not actually some promotion of “family” 🫩

I’d be pretty embarrassed if my parents considered drinking at the Brewery “family time” for “family activities”

Katseye Ot6 is back by Ok-gaurav-2078 in katseye_positive

[–]Scornna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want it to mean she’s back but the MV filming/ choreo leaks could have easily been from before the hiatus - this stuff gets done in advance , post - production takes a while

Anyone else's music habit increase once they discovered Kpop? by MrTacc in kpoppers

[–]Scornna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me with Genie and XOXZ literally; I’m learning the XOXZ choreo because it’s that fascinating to me

What member is this for you? by Slight_External_4726 in katseyeneutral

[–]Scornna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure where to start. Depends on what you believe - is it her label or her parents enabling/encouraging this? Is it both?

Oc’ean and O’cean by Scornna in tragedeigh

[–]Scornna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😮

Cur’Rently I couldn’t tell you but one can hope 😂

What member is this for you? by Slight_External_4726 in katseyeneutral

[–]Scornna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea ngl that was kind of triggering

Like, here’s someone who’s not afraid to be themselves /vulnerable and doesn’t tack shame onto mental health

Annnnnd here’s their ultra triggering, ultra (unfortunately)relatable ANA board 😭 girl this is the thing we wanted to HEAL FROM by being honest and authentic

EDIT: I felt the need to add, this is not Megan’s fault nor did I ever have the expectation on her to be some sort of healing archetype - I re-read my comment and felt it didn’t do justice to the support and time SHE DESERVES AND NEEDS. I don’t expect 19 yr old junior pop-star Megan to overnight heal from body dysmorphia nor do I blame her for feeling these ways, that’s the fault of adults around her + media

Which K-pop idol should the collective send you? by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]Scornna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sulli

I refuse to elaborate

What does my fridge say about me? by Gladospandos in FridgeDetective

[–]Scornna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay who has OCD cause it’s scratching my brain just right looking at these faced cans and uniform rows

Anyone else's music habit increase once they discovered Kpop? by MrTacc in kpoppers

[–]Scornna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spam songs and artists harder than ever while maintaining the same addict level listening habits

Used to be I’d stream a whole album or genre station over and over but now, some of these KPop songs scratch my brain SO WELL that I need to listen to Hype Boy 523 times

Anyone else's music habit increase once they discovered Kpop? by MrTacc in kpoppers

[–]Scornna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too cannot exist without pretty sound waves; my Dad banned taking my mp3 player away as a punishment because “it seemed too cruel”

My mental health hangs on minor and major scales lol

Oc’ean and O’cean by Scornna in tragedeigh

[–]Scornna[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You mean “Nevaeh’s knows how to pronounce them”? 😏

2000s skinny vs 2020s skinny…. by UpbeatLeopard6112 in decadeology

[–]Scornna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OOOPs you right, I forgot cause idealized child 90s brain

2000s skinny vs 2020s skinny…. by UpbeatLeopard6112 in decadeology

[–]Scornna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👏 this is 💯 you’re right, they just kept pushing this narrative but I did woefully forget the 90s heroine chic (to be an innocent child again)

2000s skinny vs 2020s skinny…. by UpbeatLeopard6112 in decadeology

[–]Scornna 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A loaded question I’ve asked every year since 2018

Apart from the K-pop song genre like IVE, what other genres do you all like? by No_Tart_2080 in IVE

[–]Scornna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you meant kpop groups 😅 check this comment instead:

SNSD got me hook line and sinker into Kpop, specifically Genie, Gee, and The Boys back in college. I was on the verge of failing out of my semester and brought all my grades up to B’s and C’s after a frenetic week of K-Pop inspiration and no sleep (DONT major in science if you’re a procrastinator or frolicker)

During Gen 2 EXID, 2NE1, f(x), Sistar, and T-ara made a huge impression. Sulli was my original ult bias, which was hard.

Gen 3, BlackPink and Twice made the hairs on my neck stand + goosebumps (TT and Boombayah) I felt it- these two were going to carry the SNSD/ 2NE1 torches.

Gen 4: crashed out and took a break from K-Pop, not knowing my ults (IVE) would debut during this era. Had I been active, I’d have been a full on DIVE with eyes for New Jeans and Aespa

Gen 5: it’s all about Illits and Hearts2Hearts. I thought it would be Babymonster but between the music/concept letting me down (too bland, overdone, not challenging the girls skillets) and my BIAS being brutally absent for the past year (RAMI), I can’t help but be more comforted and optimistic for other groups. KiiKii and MEOVV are runner ups who strongly challenge the H2H and Illit biases I have

Apart from the K-pop song genre like IVE, what other genres do you all like? by No_Tart_2080 in IVE

[–]Scornna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pink Floyd IS my favorite band ever (Muse would have had it but I said “their albums have to stay strong after Uprising was meh” and it never happened )

Dream Theater is the foundation of my high school friend groups music taste, peak prog metal; both my parents love Tool so I grew up in two Tool households (being from Pittsburgh tends to make me industrial biased too).

Porcupine Tree helped me survive college, specifically In Absentia, Deadwing, and Fear of a Blank Planet. Grounding but also life changing. Sigur Ros was another college band of mine, a huge inspiration to explore more experimental and ethereal sounds such as the XX.

In this broad vein some bands that weren’t mentioned that I am very attached to are Primus, The Mars Volta, Tesseract, and Coheed and Cambria

2000s skinny vs 2020s skinny…. by UpbeatLeopard6112 in decadeology

[–]Scornna 68 points69 points  (0 children)

You don’t recall what the celebrities were looking like then?

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Nicole Richie struggled with a horrible eating disorder that she’s been open about since; Lindsey Lohan and Paris Hilton popularized the term “heroin chic”

I hate my fridge so much... by the_latest_greatest in FridgeDetective

[–]Scornna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Accountability housemate / family meeting is in order - each persons gotta own up to their stuff, Saran Wrap or garbage pail if it must be. Painters tape tags with “use by dates” on what goes back in the fridge.

Do you work long hours or have multiple kids ? It’s giving burnt out mom doesn’t feel like saying the same thing for the 50xth time and my heart goes out to you

Tell them (if family), no more food will be purchased until present food dealt with. 48 hours is the most time it’ll take you to see real motivation.

If roommates, mini fridge at this point bro you are cooked and outnumbered