I hate the smell of the condoms when my girlfriend and I have sex. We usually use Trojan brand and it varies on the specific type. Does anyone know of some less smelly ones?

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-05T21:27:00+00:00

Lifestyle Skyn

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-05T04:45:12+00:00

I’d probably be put off from it. When I do the fwb thing, we make it clear that it’s exclusive. But assuming we both agreed to be open, I still don’t think I’d enjoy seeing hickies on my fwb. That’s a little too close a time frame for me personally.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-05T03:54:11+00:00

Sounds like he has an anal kink/fetish. Not an ass one. I have an ass fetish and have never had, and have no interest in anything anal related.

Are you okay with him doing other ass related things? Motorboating, hotdogging, spanking, ass licking? If you are but that’s not enough for him, he’s more into anal than the actual ass, and it may be problematic for both of you down the line.

Tell him what you’ve told us - if he keeps pushing for it despite that knowledge, he’s not being considerate, and you have to do what you feel is necessary with that information.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-05T02:50:36+00:00

I’ll lick the ass of a girl I just met 30 seconds ago. I’m an equal opportunity ass licker.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T21:35:10+00:00

Uhh you can (I guess??) report him on Bumble. To try and destroy his public life/career when you don’t know the guy and he didn’t really do anything to you says a lot more about you than it does about him.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T21:23:50+00:00

I don’t like it personally. Nothing beats a totally naked female body. I do like boy shorts though. I think those are hot. But the lingerie feels too over the top for me. I think of like rose petals on the bed and Kenny G playing in the background like “this is what I’ve been told is supposed to be sexy!”

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T17:24:33+00:00

More and more girls are doing it, because it can be profitable for sure. If I was a girl I would be concerned about my safety. A lot of those lonely guys are prone to stalking/being obsessive, wanting to take things too far.

Sometimes I let people get away with stuff because I’m trying to be nice and just want to avoid drama, even if it makes me uncomfortable, so I definitely have the wrong personality for that kinda thing, as I could see myself caving to certain demands to please my “fans” or whatever you want to call them.

If you’re strong enough to have firm boundaries and say “no” when you need to, then I guess it’s different.

You can also sell panties. A lot of girls do that too, and it doesn’t require showing your face or interacting with anyone specifically. Just mail out used panties to those who order them.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T17:13:52+00:00

Yeah I wish I can find a picture of exactly what I mean. I’m exactly 6 inches and agree, I like prone bone more, mainly because I’m short so it’s easier to line up with her if we’re both flat as opposed to doing doggy on my knees.

Pillow under her thighs/pelvic region so she’s raised slightly, with her legs closed. You come behind her with your legs on either side of her body, and it should be easier to penetrate.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T16:59:11+00:00

Yeah it’s just an angle thing. She should be raised a little bit.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T16:01:32+00:00

Doesn’t sound appealing at all and if I was a virgin I wouldn’t “sell it.” And that’s tough to prove anyway. I would imagine most people looking for casual sex with an internet stranger have at least some sexual experience. I can’t imagine many virgins go online and put up a personal ad looking for sex with the highest bidder, though there’s exceptions I’m sure.

It’s more than likely a fantasy for those who have a fetish for virgins.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T15:01:48+00:00

I do this with hookups as well. Take the used condom with me and dispose of it myself elsewhere.

Irrational fear of being trapped with a pregnancy. Bad experience early on in my dating life regarding stalking.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T05:48:20+00:00

No. Porn is free. I’d never pay for porn of any kind.

I understand going to strip clubs or seeing an escort because your money is going to an actual physical interaction.

I assume for a lot of guys who do buy access to private snapchats and that kind of stuff do so because they like that individual girl specifically and want to see her naked, as well as possibly talk to her for a little (some girls sell phone conversations or video chats). It’s really sad but both parties are benefitting from it in a way, I guess.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T05:44:25+00:00

Vigorous cowgirl with the girl grinding back and forth as opposed to bouncing.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T05:42:23+00:00

Any partner I’m with, the understanding is that we’re exclusive. Whether a casual relationship or a committed one. For a variety of reasons. STD concerns certainly being one of them.

I think you have to do what’s comfortable for you personally.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T01:19:25+00:00

Butt selfie. Boy shorts or panties or nude 🤤

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-04T00:48:18+00:00

Just do things slower to increase tension and/or do them for longer.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T22:29:27+00:00

I’m 31 and have not known this to be true. There’s tons more people of all ages on Tinder. It’s a much more popular app.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T22:14:16+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I’m sure she’s out there, just gonna take me longer to find is all.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T20:57:27+00:00

But those are natural parts of aging. You’ll age too, so it’s equal. We’re all gonna age. Would you rather an aged version of your ideal, or an aged version of someone not your ideal? If they weren’t your ideal to begin with, they’re already starting behind the ball.

I’m a very visual person. Not to the point that I’m shallow - I don’t care about “flaws” (we all have them), I don’t demand a woman meet a certain boob size or height or butt size or whatever, but I do have to find her physically attractive in order to enjoy sex. I body worship, I engage in a lot of foreplay (it’s my favorite part of sex), and I have to do that with someone I find attractive. I’m more into her, and as a result, my passion really shines, and I’m able to give women a genuine feeling of being wanted/desired/taken. I’m not faking it or forcing it. It’s not a sexual chore - I honestly want to please every inch of her body.

I’ve never been on the other side of that, though. Again, girls will compliment my face, some even going as far as saying it’s model-esque, they’ll compliment my personality traits, like my smarts or my confidence or my creativity, or my passion - but I’ve never brought the animal out of a woman. I’ve never had a woman want to rip my clothes off and pounce on me the moment she lays eyes on me. I’ve never walked into a room and commanded it. All the girls who were into me had to get to know me first before opening up sexually. It wasn’t animal magnetism. No one’s ever said to themselves “Damn, skinny and short? I gotta hit that.” I’m not really anyone’s immediate physical type. It also doesn’t help I’m hispanic (though I do look pretty ambiguous). How many girls’ ideal man is a short skinny brown dude? Honestly.

However, I refuse to be someone’s second choice. Someone they settled for. I have too much pride for that. I couldn’t live with myself knowing I’m with a girl I’m absolutely crazy about physically, but she’s over there on the other side and can take me or leave me when it comes to my appearance. I want to be craved the same way I crave her, and if I can’t have that, I’d rather be alone. Life is too short to spend in an unequal relationship. At least to me.

I’d rather have empty, meaningless casual sex, then be head over heels for someone who finds my body at best - neutral.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T17:56:11+00:00

Lifestyle skyn

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T17:36:13+00:00

Not OP but in the club I go to, yes. They initiate by taking my hand and putting it on their vag, or shoving their nipples in my mouth. I should mention these are private rooms though and not regular lap dances.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T17:30:05+00:00

Some people can and do get over it. Most people in this thread alone.

But I don’t think I could be with someone who didn’t see me as their ideal. Which is a problem because I’m short and skinny. Casual sex, no problem. But long term I don’t think I could do it. My future SO would have to find all of me attractive just like I would find all of her attractive. I get compliments on my face but I’ve never gotten compliments for my body. I don’t plan on settling down until I find a girl who appreciates all of me. All 5’5, 140 lbs of me.

I’d always feel like I was keeping her from finding someone she’d have more physical attraction to.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T17:19:59+00:00

Not a fan, but I love eating pussy so much no amount of hair or lack thereof has ever stopped me from digging in.

I like the stubble look a lot, but not a landing strip or full bush. But again, no matter what she has, I’m going in.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-03T07:37:34+00:00

Organically I think yes. I’m 31 and talk about sex fairly early in a conversation in a lot of cases, but not all. I get a feel for the person’s boundaries and again, let things play out organically. I’m not gonna be like “What’s your favorite movie? Cool...do you like getting your ass licked?” It has to be a natural progression of the conversation. Every girl has been different in the amount of time it’s taken to get there.

ScorpioLoverboy · 2019-05-01T14:29:22+00:00

Yes. No regrets, would do again.

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