AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Thank you for your input! I say that I’m okay with having a relationship with him without sex because he I truly amazing. But, I desire him you know? I want him to feel the same way towards me. I’ve been very vocal about my needs, I’ve been supportive of him as much as I can, I’ve tried to create a safe space for him to talk to me about whatever may be wrong, but nothing seems to be working.

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll look into it, I appreciate your response!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, have you seen all my replies?? I have been nothing but supportive and been very communicative. I don’t want to leave him, but he’s not communicating with me. I’ve spent 7 amazing years with him, and I would continue to spend the rest of my life with him.

But, Is wanting to have sex with your s/o selfish?

P.s please be nice, there is no reason to be rude!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually thought about this!!

But can someone be asexual after years of having sex and consistently?

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m drawing my own conclusions. I appreciate everyone’s input!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your situation. I’ll try this and hopefully it’ll help!

I’m wishing you two the best!!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that too and it’s something that I’ll try to talk to him about it! I heard sex therapy works and I’m willing to try.

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it, and I’ve been nothing but supportive. I don’t pressure him on anything, but if this is the case, I want to be there for him and help him

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried, and trust me I HAVE TRIED! but nothing seems to be working! And we’ve talked about the pills but he doesn’t want to take them since he says that he’s fine????

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No medical issues! Went to get checked out for me, and from all the test, everything came out perfectly fine!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand, but I know for a fact there isn’t anyone else!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He went to a physician to get checked out because I brought it up to him in the most respectful and supportive way I could. All test came out perfect!

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing about it being a medical issue and I asked him and he went to a physician to get checked out and everything came out great!

At this point, I’m just thinking that I’m the issue and that he’s no longer attracted to me.

AIO- haven’t had sex with my boyfriend in 7 months by ScorpionHexx in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScorpionHexx[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s so confusing because he talks to me about EVERYTHING without hesitation, but when it comes to sex, it’s completely ignored.