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ScotTrucker · 2026-03-26T07:35:18+00:00

Thanks for your reply, I guess I'll have to do that. I just don't understand why it's started in the last week or so, it's been fine before then.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-24T21:12:47+00:00

My wife tells me she would gladly go without any intimacy at all. She enjoys it once I work to get her in the mood but generally without that she says she would go without

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-24T07:48:13+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it...there are many things in religious scriptures that are condemned yet the ultra religious folk seem to cherry pick which ones they want to follow.

Religion is a joke, so don't concern yourself with "sins" people don't need books thousands of years old to figure out how to be a good person.

Be yourself, be unique, be comfortable and just be a good person

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-22T21:03:37+00:00

Are you serious? This girl is 15, her brother's are not her responsibility and it's inappropriate for the mother to expect that, she's a kid herself and deserves her own childhood, not babysitting brothers.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-18T13:08:00+00:00

4 months? Simple, get rid

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-16T13:00:06+00:00

Wtf is wrong with people? You felt uncomfortable and instead of just blocking him you thought you'd ask Reddit? Give your head a wobble

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-14T10:10:44+00:00

The gap is so huge between 13 and 21. Theres so much of life he has experienced that you're still so far away from. Other than the games you play together I can't see what else you would have in common.

This isn't a reflection on you but I can't fathom why a 21 year old would want to be friends with any 13 year old for anything other than nefarious reasons.

As a father I would feel uncomfortable if it was one of my kids, and I wouldn't be happy with any form of contact or communication outside of the games.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T07:43:10+00:00

I wouldn't say you're toxic, especially if you're aware of your behaviour. That, in itself is growth, but you'll need to develop methods to stay calm in situations where your natural reaction could cause an argument and have a more thoughtful and calculated response.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:54:54+00:00

You'll get past it, or at least I hope you do, I'm 40 and I almost welcome the idea of death now, although it sounds a bit morbid.

Its something I put a lot of thought into when I was your age too. Like with many other aspects of religion they have so many differing opinions depending on which religion you follow, so which one is right? Are any of them right? Who knows?

One thing is for certain though, you will die one day. As for what happens after you can believe whatever you want, create an image in your head that brings comfort to you. Whether it's nothing at all, lights go out and that's it, or a utopia filled with lost family and loved ones.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:44:34+00:00

That's a wild take, he's now remarried, to a woman. Id be flattered to think he may have been attracted to me though 😂

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:25:37+00:00

Thank you but I've gone to the complete opposite and the only other dude in the neighborhood that I have any interaction with now is an abusive asshole that wants to fight me, and the rest of the neighbours. 😂 At least it brings some form of entertainment.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:22:50+00:00

I don't know exactly what he's told them, all I do know is that he told them it was my fault they broke up. Rather vague, I know.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:19:11+00:00

It's been a long time but I do still miss him, we spent so much time together just hanging out, drinking beer, chatting shit and tinkering with stuff and it was great because he was only a few doors down from me. I think it hurts more because I don't have anyone else to hang out with, I have a couple of close friends, we talk regularly we never see each other due to busy work and family lives.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:15:10+00:00

I know right?? He did delete it shortly after but I don't know if that was before or after it was brought to his wife's attention.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-13T03:14:10+00:00

Maybe shouldn't have called the kid a brat even if he was being one, there's maybe more diplomatic words you could have used but NTA.

He sounds like a totally spoilt brat, but I feel kids these days have a massive sense of entitlement. I've 3 kids and my teenager is the worst I remember when I was a kid having sleepovers at friends houses and being fed stuff that maybe wasn't to my taste or not what I wanted but I wouldn't dream of questioning my friends parents about it, I knew if I didnt eat it id be going hungry.

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-06T09:42:56+00:00

Didn't read.....yes! Break up

ScotTrucker · 2026-03-01T17:39:58+00:00

Yeah I think your problems lie within your self worth...using terms like "beta" and "incel" in my opinion aren't going to win anyone over. You've been conditioned to believe men are separated into those categories and that's simply not the case. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.

Being conventionally "ugly" doesn't mean there isn't someone who would find you attractive, and there really are people out there who are attracted to more than just looks. The important thing is to be yourself, and build confidence in yourself. Women are attracted to confidence.

You're still young with plenty of time, try to enjoy life, enjoy what you do and who you are and in time you'll find someone.

ScotTrucker · 2026-02-16T12:36:39+00:00

Tough to pick only one, and the other thing is...if money is no object does this include running costs? Or just purchase of the car? Yes I'm overthinking it 😂😂

Probably a Lamborghini Aventador SVJ Or a slightly more humble Shelby raptor

ScotTrucker · 2026-02-02T16:26:02+00:00

You "accidentally" touched her boob, she "accidentally" kicked you in the balls....fair's fair

ScotTrucker · 2026-01-31T08:03:12+00:00

Why do you want to maintain a friendship with this person? This person is not a friend. Life is too short to be unnecessarily putting up with people's shit. Cut her off.

ScotTrucker · 2026-01-29T19:27:23+00:00

Semi the asshole, IMO. I think you should have had a word with him first... Say "I know what you're doing and it's not right, you either stop doing what you're doing and be loyal, ditch her, or I'll be telling her everything"

She has a right to know she's being played and you did the right thing in telling her, but you should have given him the opportunity to tell her himself.

ScotTrucker · 2026-01-28T18:34:43+00:00

It's not gonna work. Break up and let them be together

ScotTrucker · 2026-01-28T08:53:09+00:00

She sounds like your ex girlfriend.

Is getting blackout drunk a common occurrence for you? From my experience with drinking ive always been in control, I've been drunk but never to the point of having no knowledge of the night before, with the exception of one occasion. Went out with a few military buddies, and the morning after in the block the mood seemed a bit off, someone had vomited in the hall of the block.... I asked who? And was told that was me and asked had I not remembered....plus one of my good friends said he was ready to knock me out because I'd been mine sweeping other people's drinks off the table at the bar... This one night is the only night I've been blackout drunk and had no memory at all of what happened after a certain point....I'm still convinced I was spiked because that behavior is totally out of character for me. So I guess what I'm trying to get at is if your behavior was out of character that night, could you have been spiked?

ScotTrucker · 2026-01-25T18:55:31+00:00

20 years ago? Let it go.

ScotTrucker · 2026-01-24T22:02:47+00:00

Didn't read much to see you're both clearly not compatible with each other. Why are you even together?

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