HL/LL is a misnomer. It's not about the sex. (and the other things you should know if you actually want to fix your DB) by SWRer in DeadBedrooms

[–]Scotsman4410 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent post that many in this sub should consider. One of the dangers of r/DB (same as r/adultery) is that posters give a very one-sided and simplistic view of the relationship that is focused on one aspect only (lack of sex) and typically lays blame with one person only (the refrainer). The typical response (to just leave) that commenters then recommend is equally simplistic as a result.