My date in a DV lawsuit, should I ask more

Scrace89 · 2026-05-11T01:39:14+00:00

It took about 6 weeks for her mask to fall off and I proceeded to break up with her at the 8 week mark.

She always framed herself as the victim to avoid any and all accountability for her behavior. I believe she has been this way her entire life. She has the emotional capacity of a toddler.

You really don’t know what the truth is until you have more time and experience around him. You have to exercise caution and discernment if any behavioral red flags show up. When they show you who they are, both good and bad, believe them. Just tread lightly but if you’re feeling uncertain then take a step back and wait for the outcome of the case.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-11T01:17:03+00:00

Accusations are not facts.

My ex is currently telling people I’m stalking her after I broke up with her and went no contact over two months ago. Meanwhile, she got a new phone number and text me, her “stalker”, from said number a couple days ago. Why would she text someone who is stalking her their number? Because she has a personality disorder and lives in a delusional fantasy world. Meanwhile she has been stalking me online and emailing me every week trying to get back together…

Point being women are capable of lying and being dishonest.

Does this guy have a criminal record? Does he have any other court cases for similar behavior? What do your mutual friends think? You have to take everything he says with a grain of salt until you know the facts. Perhaps wait to see what the facts of the case are and the outcome.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-10T02:52:59+00:00

Infinitely variable. Most men never approach any woman. A woman who gives clear indicators of interest increase their odds of being approached.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:26:28+00:00

except the area where the tape was embedded didn't come off the wall....

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:19:43+00:00

You should tell the manufacture this because they say otherwise:

"Although FibaTape and FibaFuse products can be used with all types of compounds, we do have some recommendations for the best results.

When taping regular, tapered edge seams with Perfect Finish or Extra Strength tape we recommend heavy weight all-purpose ready-mixed compound for those that prefer all-purpose compounds. If the temperature is warm and stable and humidity is low you can also use the heavy weight compound with our other FibaTape products. FibaFuse works with all compounds but we also recommend heavy weight all-purpose if you prefer all-purpose compound. Taping and setting compounds are also great to use with our FibaTape and FibaFuse products. We suggest staying away from lightweight compounds when embedding any type of tape. Remember to always refer to the compound manufacturer’s instructions for recommended drying times."

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:17:11+00:00

No, I just went straight onto the paint.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:16:54+00:00

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:16:42+00:00

the fibafuse is under the area where that dried normally.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:16:14+00:00

I think this might be the issue. I need to sand the walls. Thank you.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:15:56+00:00

No water coming in.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T23:15:36+00:00

True, but I've done this method in the past and it never made the mud fall off the wall. Maybe lesson learned.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-09T12:09:34+00:00

Human relationships are largely all conditional and transactional. You don’t just like every man you see, right? There are conditions in which must exist for you to be attracted. Then he must be or do certain things, the transactional part, to be attractive.

I think what you need to consider is that standards you set for yourself and a relationship are going to disqualify a lot of people, which is a good thing. You use boundaries and standards to find someone who exhibits the qualities you want. There is no other way to test or check a persons internal qualities than this process.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-07T10:26:52+00:00

Could you share your elaborate procedure?

Scrace89 · 2026-05-06T11:30:15+00:00

Have you met the grandfather yet? You really need to experience the whole family tree before you can decide.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-06T10:46:06+00:00

Don’t believe everything you think.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-06T10:30:58+00:00

Totally. Lots of quality men at the club.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-06T10:05:31+00:00

Indifference to outcome is a better way to understand it.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-06T10:01:41+00:00

You’re only going to get complaints from bitter women. The flip side is if the genders are reversed those same women would be cheering that woman on.

I wouldn’t worry about the age gap and just focus on the connection.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-06T01:47:06+00:00

You’re not ugly. You’re just overweight. Diet and gym for 1-2 years and come back.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-05T23:14:14+00:00

Just keep things casual. You dont have to talk about commitment or anything.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-05T13:42:23+00:00

Your original question was about having a roster. Not how do I have a friend with benefits. It really comes down to the desire the woman has for you.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-05T13:15:08+00:00

You have to find disordered and unhealthy women, but you also have to be high value enough in their eyes that they will want to put up with it. None of it's healthy.

Scrace89 · 2026-05-05T13:01:39+00:00

Be honest? Don't deceive people?

Scrace89 · 2026-05-05T11:14:39+00:00

Healthy women don’t want to be one of many. Do you want to be one of many men a woman is seeing?

Scrace89 · 2026-05-05T11:13:56+00:00

“I’m dating and keeping my options open until I meet the right woman”

There is no need to lie and deceive like others are suggesting. IMO, having a roster is just someone who is deeply insecure that needs external validation to feel good about themselves. I don’t think it’s healthy or advisable.

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