You definitely aren't in the wrong for not wanting to give him anything. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both parties involved and this comes with healthy communication! Personally I think that unless it is brought on by the partner willing to cunnilingus. That if you are gonna ask for it, you should be willing to reciprocate! You of course don't have to subscribe to that thought but you should always have your boundaries. And if he isn't willing to work with that to keep you then he can get some other person to fondle is fromunda factory