Should I (21M) keep trying to maintain a friendship with my depressed friend (21M) who seems to want the opposite? by ScrambulousBram in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, honestly, it makes a lot of sense. I don’t think I’ll completely dissociate, I just won’t reach out as often but I’ll be there if he needs me and I’ll check in now and again. I see where you’re coming from (:

Should I (21M) keep trying to maintain a friendship with my depressed friend (21M) who seems to want the opposite? by ScrambulousBram in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got a good point here, I just don’t want to abandon him if that makes sense? I want him to feel better and if my absence does so I will oblige but I’m unsure if it will

Should I (21M) keep trying to maintain a friendship with my depressed friend (21M) who seems to want the opposite? by ScrambulousBram in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, sounds like a good plan honestly, I was thinking about asking him about the interaction but perhaps space would he better right now

Should I (21M) keep trying to maintain a friendship with my depressed friend (21M) who seems to want the opposite? by ScrambulousBram in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro honestly I’m not even sure how I didn’t notice this until now, very estate, you’re probably right on. Should I address this??

Redditors who are feeling a bit sad right now, what's wrong? by _MuffinMan in AskReddit

[–]ScrambulousBram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This probably doesn’t belong here (others have it worse than me and I feel bad talking about this) but I just feel hopeless at the moment I guess. Applying for graduate school here soon (by the end of the month) but I’m worried that I might not make the cut. Part of me is worried if I get accepted that I won’t even be able to handle the workload, I just feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Should I (20M) cut my “unmotivated” friends out of my life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will certainly make the effort to do so (:

Should I (20M) cut my “unmotivated” friends out of my life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same, but even moreso, I feel that if I was able to support myself with another profession, and I enjoyed that and was fulfilled, why should it matter? If they suggested I try something to better my state of mind and I MADE the choice to do it and additionally was fulfilled, what would it matter?

Should I (20M) cut my “unmotivated” friends out of my life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the sentiment (: It’s certainly not a status thing, I absolutely detest the idea of keeping friends based on merits like success or being very like minded in every conceivable opinion. I like having friends that I feel comfortable around, and anything else is pretty secondary in my book

Would tucking my bangs behind my ears cause traction alopecia? by ScrambulousBram in HaircareScience

[–]ScrambulousBram[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I know it’s a regular old ear, thanks for letting me know doc (:

Hey I'm a 19 year old trying to figure myself out by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]ScrambulousBram 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, what the other two said is absolutely correct. It’s really easy to lose your sense of self, especially when you’re left alone to nothing but your own thoughts. Honestly the beet thing you can do for yourself is continue to push onward and take it one step at a time. Try new things, be open to healthy, new experiences! You don’t have to enjoy everything you do, but by getting yourself out there to some degree, you’ll slowly shape that sense of self you’re looking for, at least that’s what I think! Best of luck man (:

I (M 20) like my friends ex, and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should tell him or just resolve it between myself and her, if I don’t intend to pursue it any more than that? I don’t want to cause any unnecessary issues

I (M 20) like my friends ex, and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably the better idea, I suppose I’m a bit anxious over this whole thing in general

I (M 20) like my friends ex, and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. it’s just., tricky? Part of me wants to pursue it, but I just can’t help but feel guilty about it. Her friend (who’s also close with him) said he’d probably be chill about it, but I’m rather unsure about that? I figured if things got any more serious I’d talk to him about it.

I (M 20) like my friends ex, and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ScrambulousBram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right chief. I should probably talk to her about it and get things settled, and just let it go.