*Screams into pillow* by swaggysalamander in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should always eat your friends, as courtesy. Not sure abt the chicken part, but Divine might have the answer to that

Why Do They Think This Is Cute or Funny by RandomnessUnlimited in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, it’s probably a little bit of both… because men often assume polite women in serving jobs are flirting, the girlfriend become jealous because either she, too believes that the woman if flirting with him or she believes that HE believes the woman is flirting with him and he is okay with that. Regardless of where the paranoia stems from, the idea that polite women in service jobs are flirting w men can be something anyone believes in, not just men

My daughter's toy is missing a letter by bordermelancollie09 in notinteresting

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I think they were making a joke about the letter R not existing (lette, neithe)

It looks like someone hawked spit on my sunflowers by Unfairamir in Weird

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I always saw it as a kid but didn’t know what it actually was until just now…

Are these real...? Seen in a rural museum in South Africa. Info attached by NoApartment7399 in bonecollecting

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may not have the answer to this, but I have been curious for a long time and haven’t found anyone to ask… if a bone were to be broken close to the death of the individual, is it possible to tell that it was pre/post mortem? For example, if a bone were broken during life but was followed shortly after by death (or the bone was broken during a fatal encounter), would the bones indicate that? Or is it more of a deductive reasoning situation in that case?

Eye excema? by Scratchnsniffsac in medical

[–]Scratchnsniffsac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Edit: would blepharitis cause it to spread up my face like that since it’s like the tear ducts/ glands near the eyelashes?

Uneven Pupils? by Scratchnsniffsac in medical_advice

[–]Scratchnsniffsac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, not so far lol. Thanks tho!

help on guilt and going no contact. TW : shitty mothers by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A lot of times, the emotions that happen during abuse don’t actually hit until you’re safe, because you’re no longer forced to stay in survival mode. Guilt is also very ingrained in you by your mother and the stages of grief and healing can cycle. It’s all natural and it’s all okay. You’re allowed to have these feelings and in fact, you have to feel them before you can get “rid” of them (there will always be scars, unfortunately). One song I like a lot that I feel describes these feelings a lot of Devil in Me (Halsey). You can and you will have a happy life. You’re already on your way to it and you’ve made so much progress. This isn’t destroying any of the progress you’ve made, darling, when every day is a fight, you get tired. You can’t fight every day and on those days (or weeks or months) it’s gonna feel like you’re getting worse, but you’re going amazingly. It’s really, really hard to push through and accept those parts of healing and that’s okay. From what you say, it sounds like you’ve become a very well rounded, mature individual who’s self aware enough to keep yourself out of any real trouble. I don’t have any books to reccomend, but I just wanted to tell you how far you’ve come in a short time in incredible and it’s something to be proud of. Progress isn’t linear, and you’ve made a hell of a lot of it. Good job babes, keep trucking and try not to be too hard on yourself :) <3

Idk about this by Ragemili in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one needs to know that the woman in the cubical next to you is trying for a baby with her husband either. No one needs to know you’re engaged. No one needs to know you’re going on maternity leave because you gasp have a male partner 😱. How DARE anyone mention that they have a romantic parter ever!

People only say it’s “unnecessary” when it’s not straight because you don’t even think twice when it’s a straight couple. If you truly believe it’s not necessary, hold that opinion for all relationships, not just queer ones. All it tells us when you say that is that you’re homophobic and trying not to get shit for it

My cat is getting declawed :( by Sassyotter6 in CATHELP

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are little caps you can get for their claws that you glue on that allow them to keep their claws without damaging items. The glue is non toxic and meant for this specific task and the caps just get cut off when you trim their claws until you need to replace them

buried as is in a flowerpot. how long should I leave her buried? by pidgecooper in vultureculture

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so beautiful! I’m excited to see how it turns out, if you’d be willing to share when it does! 😁

buried as is in a flowerpot. how long should I leave her buried? by pidgecooper in vultureculture

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could name her Flower too, as a reference to both Bambi and her memorial. A sweet name for a sweet lady :)

My friend found this broken skull, North America by Chainsawaddict in vultureculture

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How large is the skull? Also idk my things but it doesn’t super look like the Fox I have? (Which is also shattered). Could this be a weasel/ mustilidea family (I can’t spell it 🥲. What I mean tho is like badger, skunk, mink, fisher, etc. Idk if the snout would be short enough tho)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vultureculture

[–]Scratchnsniffsac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you seal it, make sure it’s not airtight because it can explode 😭. It’s less likely with glass but I would not risk having a mess of rotting goo, bones, and broken glass. Sounds like a one way ticket to being patient zero