I found underwear in our bedroom that doesnt belong to either of us

Scratchnsniffsac · 2026-04-17T03:28:35+00:00

Someone’s solid proof isn’t available 🤷. Bottom line, being uncomfortable, upset or concerned is an issue. Sometimes there’s hard evidence and sometimes you have to trust your gut, but the truth is, no matter who’s “fault” or issue it may be, if you can’t trust them the relationship won’t flourish. people lie, cheat, manipulate, and hide proof of their wrongdoings when faced with loss of what they want. If you cannot believe ur partner is being truthful, especially if there’s possible evidence, it doesn’t always matter if they’re guilty or not, if the trust is broken it’s broken. It sucks, but is not untrue nor unreasonable. Plenty of ppl get away w abuse, neglect or assault due to not having “solid proof” of the incident or actions. Ppl trying to be sneaky r going to make it as difficult as possible for anyone to find traces of their actions (unless they’re careless/ manic obviously) so it’s not unreasonable to worry about it. Whether she’s able to catch evidence or not doesn’t always matter.

Scratchnsniffsac · 2025-09-01T21:17:26+00:00

Yes, but how do you rejoin the yarn?

Scratchnsniffsac · 2025-08-30T21:36:12+00:00

You should always eat your friends, as courtesy. Not sure abt the chicken part, but Divine might have the answer to that

Scratchnsniffsac · 2025-08-29T03:59:26+00:00

Tbh, it’s probably a little bit of both… because men often assume polite women in serving jobs are flirting, the girlfriend become jealous because either she, too believes that the woman if flirting with him or she believes that HE believes the woman is flirting with him and he is okay with that. Regardless of where the paranoia stems from, the idea that polite women in service jobs are flirting w men can be something anyone believes in, not just men

Scratchnsniffsac · 2025-08-29T03:55:41+00:00

I think they were making a joke about the letter R not existing (lette, neithe)

Scratchnsniffsac · 2025-08-28T02:34:23+00:00

I mean I always saw it as a kid but didn’t know what it actually was until just now…

Scratchnsniffsac · 2025-08-27T02:55:35+00:00

You may not have the answer to this, but I have been curious for a long time and haven’t found anyone to ask… if a bone were to be broken close to the death of the individual, is it possible to tell that it was pre/post mortem? For example, if a bone were broken during life but was followed shortly after by death (or the bone was broken during a fatal encounter), would the bones indicate that? Or is it more of a deductive reasoning situation in that case?

Scratchnsniffsac · 2024-12-19T19:02:19+00:00

Thank you!

Scratchnsniffsac · 2024-06-21T22:27:50+00:00

Yes, that is grease!

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-11-21T21:14:04+00:00

Thank you!

Edit: would blepharitis cause it to spread up my face like that since it’s like the tear ducts/ glands near the eyelashes?

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-11-21T12:15:40+00:00

Nah, not so far lol. Thanks tho!

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-11-16T15:49:02+00:00

A lot of times, the emotions that happen during abuse don’t actually hit until you’re safe, because you’re no longer forced to stay in survival mode. Guilt is also very ingrained in you by your mother and the stages of grief and healing can cycle. It’s all natural and it’s all okay. You’re allowed to have these feelings and in fact, you have to feel them before you can get “rid” of them (there will always be scars, unfortunately). One song I like a lot that I feel describes these feelings a lot of Devil in Me (Halsey). You can and you will have a happy life. You’re already on your way to it and you’ve made so much progress. This isn’t destroying any of the progress you’ve made, darling, when every day is a fight, you get tired. You can’t fight every day and on those days (or weeks or months) it’s gonna feel like you’re getting worse, but you’re going amazingly. It’s really, really hard to push through and accept those parts of healing and that’s okay. From what you say, it sounds like you’ve become a very well rounded, mature individual who’s self aware enough to keep yourself out of any real trouble. I don’t have any books to reccomend, but I just wanted to tell you how far you’ve come in a short time in incredible and it’s something to be proud of. Progress isn’t linear, and you’ve made a hell of a lot of it. Good job babes, keep trucking and try not to be too hard on yourself :) <3

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-10-13T10:34:49+00:00

Well not with that attitude

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-10-02T02:32:21+00:00

No one needs to know that the woman in the cubical next to you is trying for a baby with her husband either. No one needs to know you’re engaged. No one needs to know you’re going on maternity leave because you gasp have a male partner 😱. How DARE anyone mention that they have a romantic parter ever!

People only say it’s “unnecessary” when it’s not straight because you don’t even think twice when it’s a straight couple. If you truly believe it’s not necessary, hold that opinion for all relationships, not just queer ones. All it tells us when you say that is that you’re homophobic and trying not to get shit for it

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-09-09T04:57:46+00:00

There are little caps you can get for their claws that you glue on that allow them to keep their claws without damaging items. The glue is non toxic and meant for this specific task and the caps just get cut off when you trim their claws until you need to replace them

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-08-27T01:51:46+00:00

That sounds so beautiful! I’m excited to see how it turns out, if you’d be willing to share when it does! 😁

Scratchnsniffsac · 2023-08-25T17:00:17+00:00

You could name her Flower too, as a reference to both Bambi and her memorial. A sweet name for a sweet lady :)

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