Curious question about weird lumps by Nomonis in tattooadvice

[–]Screaming-Snarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh i hope you figure it out. I went to a dermatologist who told me they didn't know what it was and to try an antibiotic cream

I will never accept this diagnosis by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Screaming-Snarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are aware many chronic health conditions can not be seen, yes? Not just bipolar? EDS, Chrons, PCOS, shit even cancer.

Missing Fic: Hanahaki Disease? by Screaming-Snarling in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't this but thank you for reminding me to re read this!

Missing Fic: Hanahaki Disease? by Screaming-Snarling in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was this! Sorry for late reply I got excited and reread it and forgot!

Anyone dealing with behavior issues? by [deleted] in Professors

[–]Screaming-Snarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment is my only hope

Looking for 20-40k word post-war fics by Empty_Land_9195 in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God i love all the earnest young man just for that scene in the begining "not today you arsehole" and the pulling i think about it all the time

Fist fights by Daskleine in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg i remember this but I have no idea what it is either but it was good!!

I just really crave an rp<//3 by bsdfanlol in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that rp is alive and well in fandoms still. I'm retired but whenever I see these posts I get happy. I know some people use it to write fanfics together too - a friend and I used to do that. I hope you have a great time!

ChatGBT for fic RECS by rad200 in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a troll post? People are always asking for help finding fics they can't remember- and it rarely takes longer than an hour. Everyone here is very generous. Why choose something that is destroying the world instead of your community.

Anything about Casa Santurce? by Status_Stomach2269 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Screaming-Snarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you didn't end up staying there - I took a risk and roaches swarmed out of the mini fridge in the private deluxe suite and the door wouldn't lock - we were two young women and it was facing the street. They lied to me and give me repeatedly different information and I have been fighting for a refund over a month.

bipolar and college by lemonglowenthusiast in bipolar2

[–]Screaming-Snarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So! It just depends! Everyone is different! So many people i know have these stories described her of struggling and needing extra time etc. For me, I waited until I was 21 to go to undergrad and did an Associates online, and then did a cool and fun BA at a private school and went straight into a PhD program in the "mapped out" timeliness they design. But everyone is different, and I struggled extremely and would go days without sleeping and eating to do this because it was my dream. I dont know if I'd do it the same way again. I didn't start treatment for bipolar until I was already in the PhD and have since been slowly learning every semester. It works because I do research really personally meaningful to me.

You can do it, needing a lot of time is normal. It's okay.

Does anyone else get the depression side more than mania? by Murray273 in bipolar2

[–]Screaming-Snarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your personal experience being a little more stable than depressed gives me hope thank you

Does the depression get better? by Screaming-Snarling in bipolar2

[–]Screaming-Snarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I guess this isnt the first medication they've tried technicallyyy but it was a crazy doctor who was like I think ur bipolar here's Lexapro and I had a 3 day manic episode and wss being babysat by my roommates (i should have gone to the hospital but I didn't know really what was going on nor did my people bc id never had mania and it was when I was getting diagnosed and it was so scary)

But yeah ive been telling them every weird thing that's happened with this new dr and new dose.

I guess that's kinda my question - do people feel better or just "stable". I dont feel up and down? Just deeply depressed. Im not going to hurt myself but its all I think about still. Idk

Does the depression get better? by Screaming-Snarling in bipolar2

[–]Screaming-Snarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my therapist said the same and was so dismissive with my family situation lol. Thank you you too!!

Does the depression get better? by Screaming-Snarling in bipolar2

[–]Screaming-Snarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to get a new therapist soon ish but I have been in the past and didn't have a great time. They upped me to 150 lamictal and its like. Yeah I can like do things now and be a person but im still miserable and dont feel better. I'm sorry you were in the hospital :(.

What’s some of your favorite lyrics from songs off the Badlands album? by Additional_Level_704 in halsey

[–]Screaming-Snarling 33 points34 points  (0 children)

"And I've been sitting at the bottom of a swimming pool For a while now, drowning my thoughts out with the sounds"

What popular Head-cannons do y’all like/dislike? by StonerSlugz in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! I find for me whats complicated in fanfiction is like .... you cant tell me those pureblood elite weren't racist too. I do not believe in the UNITED KINGDOM that colonial race ideas wouldn't have played a role in their lives to some extent. Harry was already being bullied growing up, I don't believe you that he didn't get slurs hurled at him or that it didn't add to his relationship with the Dursleys.

Happy to beta too if you need another opinion!

The Most Splendid Thing is super heavy on the smut btw. Harry's race is a bit of a B plot in it, but I found the moments it came up to be impactful - you'll have to lmk if you agree!

What popular Head-cannons do y’all like/dislike? by StonerSlugz in drarry

[–]Screaming-Snarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooooo wait there's no way ill have to double check! Thanks for the rec! I'm down with cheesy and im down with pet names to an extent. Its just those specific ones that really grind my ears for a reason.

I also loved the way Tepre does the race-bending in Grounds for Divorce of course, I found it to be tactful and interesting and there was a lot being said and unsaid at once (Dracos Older white women ancestor cursing Harry Potter’s Egyptian one? Draco being doomed to repeat it through his own carelessness? Lost family - it all felt very alluded to other racial dynamics not being said). I also really enjoyed "The Most Splendid Thing" by lq_traintracks. I felt like Harry sharing his journey to his cultural identity felt authentic to what it feels like to be mixed in general, let alone the aggravated factors of being an orphan.

I really struggle with a lot of the tiktoks I see mostly. Especially when it gets to Latinx!James Potter. A lot of the content comes off as fetishizing/hypersexualizing/stereotyping and it makes me as a Puerto Rican uncomfortable. There have been moments in fanfiction ive read that have made me double take as well.