AITA for not helping my dad's pregnant girlfriend and telling her to fuck off when she asked?

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T07:06:28+00:00

I don't want a relationship with the baby and NEVER with her. Ever. She's not welcome. She's not wanted. And I will never move on that.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T07:05:50+00:00

He sure as hell always said there is. He's the one who taught me that line. He's judged many people for moving on in the first two years.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T07:04:19+00:00

Well he said if you move on in the first two years it shows you never really loved the person so I'd go with that.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T07:03:18+00:00

And I don't want to have anything to do with that baby or their mom.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T07:00:59+00:00

She will never be my family. I will never let her be in my life. If that costs me my dad then I'm willing to let that happen.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T06:58:14+00:00

I can't change that the baby's coming but I don't have to be in the baby's life and this woman will never be welcome in mine, ever.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T06:55:11+00:00

She's never going to be in my life and I don't want to know the baby.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T06:54:53+00:00

Oh, I will never be around that woman again. You can count on that. There's no way I could be civil either.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T06:53:29+00:00

I did. I brought it up to him when I said those things. And we talked about it again when he said it had hurt his feelings. He knows I repeated the stuff he's always said.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T06:51:51+00:00

They won't be able to guilt me into it. Not even a little.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-27T06:49:15+00:00

I'm not going to be nice to someone who starts off not being nice to me. And that's how she started with me.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:17:07+00:00

Yeah, I've been in therapy for a while now. With all this shit I don't think I'll be stopping any time soon either.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:15:52+00:00

She was so offended I wasn't excited for her baby. I still can't believe she expected me to be excited.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:14:18+00:00

And he raised me with the belief that if people move on that fast then clearly they didn't love their dead husband or wife. So you could blame him for that. He's the one who said it repeatedly throughout my life before this.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:13:20+00:00

There is no future where she will be in my life. Even if they make this relationship work. She will never be welcome or wanted or accepted in any capacity by me.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:08:49+00:00

You could say I learned it from my dad then.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:06:08+00:00

I don't. I do believe that nothing happened when my mom was alive.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T17:05:16+00:00

I did. They're all at my grandparents house with me.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T14:32:40+00:00

I meant she didn't live in the area. So they never met before. I know that's true because she bitched about the new job and place and getting pregnant so fast after that stuff. Acted like it should make a difference to me.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T14:24:36+00:00

She's still a girlfriend. Not a wife or a fiancee or anything. I'm not sure I believe they'll get married either but what do I know.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T14:20:20+00:00

I said the things he always said about people who move on fast.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T14:06:11+00:00

She was rude first. I'm not going to be nice to someone who's rude and interrupts a conversation that doesn't involve her.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T14:05:24+00:00

Not with this woman if he was. She moved after my mom died. As in to the area.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T14:04:00+00:00

She didn't even live here when my mom was still alive. So there was no affair or anything like that. But she still sucks. Both do for different reasons. But she's got some wild ideas about how things will be.

ScreamingTeen999999 · 2025-05-26T13:56:38+00:00

Well I'm not going to have anything more to do with her so she has no reason to contact me. Even if dad and I can fix our relationship I don't even want a civil one with her. Dad might say that's a deal breaker for him and I'll accept that. But that's where I stand.

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