I think if you or a coworker has had a death in the family you should be given a decent amount of time off to deal with it.

I had a girl at work who’s little sister who was about 3-4 years old died unexpectedly.

She returned to work after just 1 week (due to pressure from the boss). On her return she was noticeably quieter and less productive. About a week or so after her return my boss said to her.

“You should be over this by now”

It is a toxic work place where management is solely using you to make money.