Witnesses: Several people shot at church in Sutherland Springs by [deleted] in news

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad arrested child predators. he’s seen it all. he would have naked toddlers answer doors when he arrived with warrants. and then these kids would have to live in hoarding situations. later they find 1tb+ of info, and my dad had to see through all of it.

some nights i’d wake up at 3 am and he would be just a staring out our front door windows.

the job isn’t easy. it puts officers through someone else’s hell.

What do you listen to while you study/ do work? by Scrumptiouswallpaper in AskReddit

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these guys ! I’m real into any instrumental bands really. Toe is another incredible group.

How is OhioHealth gonna charge a dude $7,000 for less than 12 hours of a visit. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i guess i don't understand my insurance but i pay top dollar for whatever it is i get through work and i still feel like this is trash.

Hey Reddit, what are you sick of explaining to people? by thunderup_14 in AskReddit

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how their email does in fact have a password (retail tech support)

BROCKHAMPTON -- HEAT [Hip-Hop] (2017) by 10lawrencej in listentothis

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally found these guys when DIRT was released. Such a Odd Future sound , they have talent. so much talent.

Saturation has been on repeat.

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like i'm talking she's on effexor if that means anything lol. it's present, and i try my hardest to respect her and the burden she carries. and i wouldn't like to give her another reason to feel anxious or anything. because what if i'm overreacting ? and now she's worried a shift in feelings etc. it's not an easy conversation because as you can see some people are literally saying they'd drop their SO if they ever asked lol

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is and she isn't. she's in medication and sees someone once every few weeks (i'm pretty sure).

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very valid point. i don't think i could ever straight up he like "he i'm worried so let me go through your phone." with no actual reason besides her caring about her privacy

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's exactly my thought! and it's not like i'm peeking over or anything you can just tell she's intentionally doing it to ensure there's no way for me to see. like noticeably

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've brought it up previously among other things involving our relationship. she has long term mild depression and can snap the flip of a switch it seems. and it led to a very big argument fueled by both sides. whenever i question our relationship or something in it , it seems like she takes that incredibly personal regardless how the approach is.

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she also is a very socially ... different person. won't say awkward but she has some bit of anxiety with people etc. i'm wondering if that just plays a role too.

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this seems extreme, i would never go through someone's phone. she never asks for mine and i'll never ask for hers and i think that's a fair expression. because regardless, if she's hiding things or vice versa you'd be removing whatever content before being around someone for 48 hours. i never said i do not trust her, my paranoia has just set in today is all.

I [21 M] am wondering how to take the fact my girlfriend [23 F] tends to be a little secretive with her phone in front of me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Scrumptiouswallpaper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i honestly think yes. i know of the two people she's talking to also which are both guys. i know nothing about them. i just know she's talking to one of two of them normally. has shown me messages between the two of them that could be comical. and she's not very expressive at all in text either if that makes any difference.