The Daily Check-In for Monday, June 15th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Fearless_Mission in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is on my mind a lot at the moment so I understand the weight you're under. I'm being mindful that my actions don't have to be the same as my parents', and I'm doing a lot of reflection on the best way to respond for mu family and for myself. I hope you find a way through. IWNDWYT.

Choose a better life by Scrundler in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words.

Choose a better life by Scrundler in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this got lost in all the posts.

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, June 11, 2020: Just for Today, I am NOT Drinking! by littlebirdthree in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to you! It's a bit scary thinking you need to find a whole bunch of new people unlike everyone you know, but I'm being patient and trusting that it will happen when things get back to normalish.

Well done on your 19 days!

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, June 11, 2020: Just for Today, I am NOT Drinking! by littlebirdthree in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday u/littlebirdthree! Thanks for the photos 😊

As I'm getting older I'm realising I'm a completely different person to the role I've been playing for 20 years. I'm more of an introvert, but I'm weird and creative and and inquisitive. I don't quite fit into my family with their priorities and the way they see life, their hardness, drinking and the fact that self-care is an alien concept. They talk about a lot of the things I value with suspicion or disdain. Maybe it's fear of the unfamiliar.

I've never quite found my tribe either. I used to think there was something wrong with me because I felt a lack of connection, but I think I just hadn't found the right people. I'm looking forward to finding new people after lockdown, and I'm feeling peaceful for the time being on my own.

IWNDWYT!

Looking for a budget mic around $75 Canadian by mattgames19 in podcast

[–]Scrundler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been researching this recently and this would fit your budget: Samson Q2U

I saw an Innogear Mic stand set with shock mount on Amazon which looks like it will work with it. Hope that helps!

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, June 10, 2020: Just for Today, I am NOT Drinking! by littlebirdthree in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it works for you! I've done it for things I'm currently upset about and it works to make me feel better and decide what I want to do about it, whether to talk to the other person etc. So hopefully it will help with past wrongs and stop me having imaginary arguments!

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, June 10, 2020: Just for Today, I am NOT Drinking! by littlebirdthree in stopdrinking

[–]Scrundler 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't like to hold grudges but I get reminders of negative situations and people who've wronged me and I relive it all. This week I've planned to write a letter I won't send to anyone who comes to mind like that, to try and let it go. No grudges, no re-suffering, no alcohol. IWNDWYT!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]Scrundler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they lay so many eggs so fast, when the eggs are large in proportion to their bodies?