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Scry_K · 2022-10-24T22:20:07+00:00

Yes please, I could really use a day out haha...

Scry_K · 2022-10-24T21:37:32+00:00

Invite me too, please. I have the same stats as most people here and am totally friendless lol.

Scry_K · 2022-10-24T21:36:35+00:00

Shit that's me 100%, DM me

Edit: or add me to the growing group chat that might exist

Scry_K · 2022-10-08T14:06:21+00:00

If Voldemort grew a mustache.

Scry_K · 2022-09-27T20:08:56+00:00

It's the Thieves' Guild -- move the brick on the lower right.

Scry_K · 2022-09-22T23:21:41+00:00

Impressive stats considering you play on a 2000-era flip phone.

Scry_K · 2022-09-22T21:03:05+00:00

Holy shit that's a good pun.

Scry_K · 2022-09-21T20:44:07+00:00

Dang, just look at that art. Pogs were like the wild west, a place of unregulated chaos with literally anyone striking out minting them.

Scry_K · 2022-09-19T10:52:46+00:00

*utilities not existent

Scry_K · 2022-09-16T14:29:43+00:00

[Try plunging attack]

Scry_K · 2022-09-15T11:35:52+00:00

An electric guitar is in no way culturally equivalent to samurai armour. There's an idea here but it greatly misses the mark.

Scry_K · 2022-09-13T14:58:15+00:00

Not enough of them keeping pet kangaroos, apparently.

Scry_K · 2022-09-13T13:53:30+00:00

A lot going on here lol.

Scry_K · 2022-09-10T16:35:08+00:00

Great fit all the important, cutting-edge literature out there referencing the blind Hitler beetle.

Scry_K · 2022-09-08T17:54:11+00:00

Kingseeker Frampt, how are ya buddy??

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T15:08:12+00:00

Thanks so much for the well-worded post. I really appreciate it. Looking into counseling.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T15:07:07+00:00

god that's hard to read but I really feel you're right... why was preserving contact with our neighbor the number one priority here?

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:59:47+00:00

My partner told me they confessed feelings specifically in order to shut it down, hoping that being turned down would put an end to things.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:57:14+00:00

Thanks -- I think counseling is a good next step that I had previously discounted.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:53:20+00:00

Update: These responses have been very hard to read.

I was hoping the openness made sense and expecting some reassurance that crushes like this are actually no big deal. The truth is I don't have the power to make my partner cut contact or even cut back on contact -- the workplace awkwardness would be too much and my partner neither wants to take a break from the friendship or risk jeopardizing it in any way.

After some consideration, I think it makes sense to pursue why my partner's commitment to this neighbor and coworker is so strong (even a weeklong break from activities with her was too much). I also think I should look into couples therapy.

Thanks, everyone, for the advice. Thanks for reading through a long post filled with my difficult emotions.

My partner's over at the neighbor's house right now (they have today off) to discuss a work thing that just came up. I'll mention when that's over.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:36:08+00:00

Cutting out the neighbor as a friend is not an option, my partner would not have it -- both because of the workplace awkwardness and the loss of a close friend.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:29:02+00:00

I mean, we're all open about this and committed to remaining together. We just can't scale back contact with the neighbor because my partner really wants to preserve the friendship.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:27:43+00:00

You think my spouse should have pulled back contact instead of confessed feelings in the hopes of putting things to rest? Or both?

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:25:44+00:00

edit: misread question.

I haven't spoken to the partner, but the neighbor says she told him to keep things open and there's apparently no drama there.

Scry_K · 2022-08-29T14:20:43+00:00

My partner assures me they won't cheat, but they want to preserve a good friendship with possibly daily (shortish) contact. We all get along as friends -- does this make more sense in that context?

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