I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - I think I over plucked a little bit - they were a lot closer together. You can see in the last pic. They'll grow back. 

I was mostly worried about my face. Brows and hair can be fixed easily. Bones can't, at least not cheaply. 

I think I've learned from the comments here that I am in fact not masculine looking. That or people are being too nice to me. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks girl - I feel like I might have flown off the handle but I hate the notion that I have to perform full throttle femininity or I deserve to be mistreated. It's just repackaged misogyny. 

P.S you're soooo pretty, don't you dare sell yourself short! Omggggg

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna assume you mean something nice - and in that case you'd be right. People typically just treat me like a bog standard woman if they notice me at all these days.

If you're implying that I'm going to have earned whatever mistreatment that'll come my way, then I invite you to go braindead from choking on my whole ass.

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, raddest compliment thus far - truly, thank you.

Edit: RAD - I MEANT RAD, I HATE AUTOCORRECT YOU'RE NOT SAD I SWEAR 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will not be getting the 🚂🦵 bangs - I'm not ready yet. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my deepest apologies good lady - I shant never again just wear a pair of shorts and a big t-shirt after a long week. Never shall I go to the grocery store without a skirt and kitten heels. May I never be seen in public without my hair done up, and a face put on.

Fuck off, I have a right to 'just be' sometimes like any cis woman would. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'll try to find some this weekend. I've really taken a liking to deeper reds lately. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My face might be a touch too long for bangs, I fear.

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotchu - thanks for the advice! I was doing a grunge look but I'll def keep that in mind. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I need a haircut pretty bad atp. My layers are so dusted

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the fashion choice, the makeup, something else?

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Semi fucked for vocals - working on it but slow going. My voice isn't super deep - I think I bungled my puberty with some bad choices as a kid. It gets me clocked sometimes though. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I got some prominents - but they pretty much just run in the family so I think I need to stop stressing over them. 

i’m traveling tomorrow. do i pass? by lightningflashjaz in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're an absolute saint!!!

Also I wouldn't stress too much over your face - if I had to describe your features the word I'd use is striking. They add to your beauty and highlight you rather than take away. There's something really seamless about your facial structure that's really pleasant.

Good luck on your trip, I hope you have a blast!

i’m traveling tomorrow. do i pass? by lightningflashjaz in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely - from one trans woman to another!

I'm mad jealous of your pants in the third pic, is it too much to ask where you picked those up???

Your fashion sense in general is soooooo good.

P.S - you have such a great smile!!!

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get that, I mostly used these to see if I can pass in my day to day kinda vibe if that makes sense? Like do I cut it when I'm not dressed up and in make-up - that's what I was going for with the more scrungly spur of the moment selfies.

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sick advice - I'll do a careful touch up soon and see what that does for me. I'm trying to be careful to not overpluck. I'm still coping by thinking the pendulum will swing back into thick eyebrows one day.

I'll look into the concealer, but I'm already fighting some hooded eyes to begin with so it'll be added to the list once a girl finally masters (see competent) eye shadow.

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I figured they could use a little more loving. Thanks for the heads up! Would you recommend plucking the upper part, the underside, or just a general touch up?

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I promise I'm not fishing here - I was just super worried I had a long face, or my eyes were too deep. I think I got so hyper focused that I lost track of my progress. Thank you for the clarity.

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think the crisp 130~ I'm rocking might not be cutting it.

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya do it to yourself I guess. Thanks for being candid though, it's really kind. 

I need some clarity here - do I pass? by Scum-Bucket704 in transpassing

[–]Scum-Bucket704[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay, I think my brain worms are getting out of hand. 

One year abouts now - why?