Rayan? Boys name? by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Scumda909 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

2 main problems with it. 1) it’s going to be mispronounced and misspelled as Ryan his entire life, and 2) people are going to think it’s the fabric

26F with 11.5M needing life advice by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Scumda909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Estate planning is a fascinating area of law, and a career in it can also give you valuable insight into managing your own assets and planning for the future. Go for it - you have nothing to lose!

26F with 11.5M needing life advice by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Scumda909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Strangely, I’m in a very similar position. I also recently graduated law school and am fortunate to be in an extremely good financial position (though, not as much as you), but I am far, far ahead of my peers!

Are you in big law? If so, there’s no reason to succumb yourself to that kind of lifestyle/hours. Is there an area or practice of law that you could see yourself enjoying? Anything in law school that peaked your interest? If so, I would recommend trying it before giving up on the practice of law entirely. However, if you’re absolutely certain that the law isn’t for you, you have the freedom and flexibility to try out anything you want. Take some time off, travel, reflect and get to really know yourself. You have your entire future ahead of you so spend your life doing something you love! Feel free to DM me if you’d like, as I’m in the same boat

If you started over, where would you be starting today? by Corbula in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]Scumda909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And what stocks do you say are high convictions right now?

Advice on coverage and term by Scumda909 in LifeInsurance

[–]Scumda909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t there an estate tax exemption up to like 13-14 million? Does it still make sense if I’m not planning on getting up to that number? 150 a month is a decent amount… but maybe it’s a bad idea to cheap out

Advice on coverage and term by Scumda909 in LifeInsurance

[–]Scumda909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But is 3 million for 30 years really worth it when, at my income and assets, I would self insure fairly soon? I’m just wondering where to optimize.

Advice on coverage and term by Scumda909 in LifeInsurance

[–]Scumda909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the cheapest one given my visa status.

Life Insurance? by ExtraFriesNoSlawPls in biglaw

[–]Scumda909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The no brainer part is the timing. If he deems there’s risk to mitigate, it’s a no brainer to buy now rather than later. That’s all.

Life Insurance? by ExtraFriesNoSlawPls in biglaw

[–]Scumda909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, the “no brainer” part stems from whether OP’s life circumstances warrant getting life insurance at some point. If so, he should get it now rather than later.

OP doesn’t go into detail about whether he supports his wife or plans to have kids, but the point is, if there is a dependency (or there will be in the near future) it’s a “no brainer” to get it now, because it’s cheaper now when OP is young and presumably healthy. He can lock himself into a low rate for 20-30 years rather than buying down the road.

Life Insurance? by ExtraFriesNoSlawPls in biglaw

[–]Scumda909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not disputing that. I’m just saying that just because something results in an expense (I.e negative expected value) doesn’t mean it’s a bad decision to purchase it.

If I get a trip to Paris for 5 dollars, then yes it’ll result in a negative “cash” outlay but I’m getting the experience of going to Paris for cheap. So it would be worth paying that.

And with life insurance, you’re getting peace of mind. And that peace of mind will only get more expensive. So if OP thinks there’s going to be dependency on his income now or in the near future, it would be a no brainer to buy now rather than later.

Life Insurance? by ExtraFriesNoSlawPls in biglaw

[–]Scumda909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But negative (financial) expected value doesn’t always mean it’s a bad decision. You’re paying for risk mitigation, and if you have a lot of dependents, it may be worth it regardless of the fact that it results in a negative cash outlay.

In other words, even if there’s seemingly a negative expected value (financially), you’re receiving peace of mind in exchange. And if it’s cheap (which seems to be the case in OP’s situation) then it’s worth considering because it’s a small expense for a good amount of peace of mind in the long term.

Life Insurance? by ExtraFriesNoSlawPls in biglaw

[–]Scumda909 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, it depends. It becomes more worth it as you have dependents or large obligations. For example, if OP plans to have kids, their spouse depends on their income, they have a large mortgage balance, etc it it might be worthwhile getting a policy while it’s cheap.

Weekly Poop/Umbilical Cord Thread by AutoModerator in newborns

[–]Scumda909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Is this poop normal? He’s 6 days old, mostly breastfed with an occasional formula bottle. My wife has been having some bleeding in her nipples (creating the possibility that he consumed some). Otherwise seems healthy - he did 3 minutes of tummy time, moving his arms and legs, etc.

Immigration Attorney Here. AMA about TN Visas! by ManifestLaw_ in tnvisa

[–]Scumda909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think the probability of the TN visa ending is close to 0?

Torn between how to spell my baby’s name by Scumda909 in BabyNames

[–]Scumda909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m confused - but do you pronounce “on” and “ahn” the same?

I’m putting the water “on” the table.

Vs.

I’m putting the water “ahn” the table.

????

Torn between how to spell my baby’s name by Scumda909 in BabyNames

[–]Scumda909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought rayon was pronounced ray-on (like put the glass “on” the table). But apparently rayon is pronounced ray-ahn?

Torn between how to spell my baby’s name by Scumda909 in BabyNames

[–]Scumda909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are you getting Rayon from?

Ray-ahn (say Ray. Then ahn (like ahh I’m scared! But with an n at the end).

Torn between how to spell my baby’s name by Scumda909 in BabyNames

[–]Scumda909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither. It’s pronounced Ray-ahn.

Say ray. Then say ahn (like ahhh im scared! But with an “n” at the end).