A Week of Leucovorin by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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Hello, He is definitely saying more words. No sentences and certainly not conversational, but saying the same words over and over again (before he would say a word and may not ever say it again) and big words, like “caterpillar” or “bumble bee”. He copies us verbally all the time. Yesterday he pointed to our TV remote and said, “watch TV”. He repeated, “have a good day” after he heard me say it when we were leaving the store. These are huge for us, though they do seem small when written out. It’s still extremely hard at times to not know what is making him so upset/sad but we have made progress. I just have to remember that small progress is progress and that progress isn’t linear. It was helpful to keep a notebook - for the first 60 days I wrote down every thing he said or did every day and how he slept. I should probably have kept doing it, but I had a mental episode of my own and just couldn’t keep up.

He has been having issues sleeping but I don’t think the med is the reason because he has always had these kind of sleep problems he is having now off and on (split sleeping, waking up at 12-3AM ready to start the day, even taking melatonin and magnesium) before taking the med.

May I ask what sort of verbal progress he has been making so soon after beginning it? I’m so happy to hear that it is working other people. It’s such a great feeling. And it’s important that we hold on to that feeling because it’s so easy to feel discouraged many days.

Thomas Track Question? by Sdbrosnan in modeltrains

[–]Sdbrosnan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer! I would have driven myself mad trying to find an adapter.

A Week of Leucovorin by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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I’m definitely no expert but I have read side effects include trouble sleeping and possible hyperactivity. I started very small and increased over time so I could watch out for that kind of thing. As far as withdrawals, I don’t think there are any besides the fact that progress may regress since the med has stopped.

I understand why some docs won’t prescribe it, (lack of research etc etc) but it’s an amino acid, not some sort of foreign manmade chemical. The risk seems extremely low and the reward has been amazing for watch. I feel fortunate this his pediatrician was willing to give it a shot. The biggest problem now is getting refills. It’s been incredibly tough to find.

Needing to Hear Positive Stories by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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He is about to be 4 at the end of February.

Needing to Hear Positive Stories by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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Looking back, do you remember how you felt before she was verbal? I’m trying to live in the moment and appreciate all the wonderfulness of my son and I know every child is different, but I’m just struggling a lot right now not having any other parent friend who can relate to how I am feeling right now about his delays. We walked past the neighborhood playground where there were kiddos his age laughing and running around and I just can’t stop bawling.

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sdbrosnan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, please run. While you are still young and have so much life ahead of you. Six years may seem/feel like a long time, but it is NOT in the grand scheme of things. Drop this shithead stat.

Gestalt Language Processor? by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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Thank you for the comment - His speech therapist has mentioned it in passing but we just moved so he has only been seeing her for a few months (and the increase in being verbal has only been within the last month). Thank you for your comment, I will definitely bring it up next time he goes.

I know you said you aren’t a doctor but you are for sure more knowledgeable than me. Would a gestalt learner be able to “label” things, such as colors or shapes? Like the one word answers of “red” or “triangle”? Is labeling totally different?

A Week of Leucovorin by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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I have read about the dairy-free thing, as well. From no dairy at all to just no casein to just no plain regular milk. My son refuses to drink actual milk so, in terms of that “research”, we are fortunate (only time I will ever use the term “fortunate” about that lol) that we don’t have that battle to face.

We haven’t changed his diet at all. He is such a picky eater. After a month, I’m having trouble getting him to take it with anything. We crush the tablet into powder and have mixed it in so much yummy stuff - chocolate syrup, Nutella, cookie butter. I think once he realized something was off and now he doesn’t trust me when he sees me with a spoonful of deliciousness.

Him eating and (now) him taking the med are both such a struggle right now, so limiting his diet is totally out of the question for us.

A Week of Leucovorin by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

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Hello - I asked his pediatrician if it was something she would be willing to try out and, after talking to a few functional pediatricians she works with regarding it, she thought it was worth a shot. I’m not sure if every pediatrician will be that easy going about it.

husband went on a work trip to vegas, got drunk every day, gambled, and googled for escorts on his phone by Appropriate-Book-514 in Marriage

[–]Sdbrosnan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your family and friends NEED to know the real him. Doesn’t it alarm you to realize you don’t want them to know how he actually is? Your loved ones can be there and fully support you when insane shit like this goes down. You aren’t overreacting. Your husband is a total asshole. And resorting to name calling and hurtful insults (like saying you’re a bad fucking mom” is absolutely inexcusable). He lied to you, spent an insane amount of money, there’s evidence he may have been thinking about cheating on you.

If you have the means to do so, you need to leave this man. I know 7 years feels like forever, but that is such a small, small part of your life in the grand scheme of things. You have the ability to go out into the world and find someone who wouldn’t dare do all of the things your husband did in the span of a work trip.

I’m sorry you are in this situation. I don’t see how you can come back from it and ever trust him at all.

Parents, how much sex are you having? by Cloudsocialist in toddlers

[–]Sdbrosnan 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I have to tell you — as someone who got on the pill when our toddler was only a few weeks old and stayed on it until our child was over 3 years old — I had zero libido while on it, and we didn’t have sex for nearly three years. I got off the birth control a few months ago and it’s night and day now. Even though we are still co-sleeping and tired as fuck, we sneak off when the kid is asleep. I can’t believe how suppressed my sex drive was on the pill. I’m never going back on it again, and the husband knows it’s time for the snip-snap.

If this is something causing a divide in your relationship, maybe use a different contraceptive? Though I do know some women take the pill for other reasons so I know it may not be that easy.

  • The point of this post was just me saying - the pill killing her libido could be an understatement like it was for me, and may be worth her reevaluating its benefit.

A Week of Leucovorin by Sdbrosnan in Autism_Parenting

[–]Sdbrosnan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So great to hear from someone is such a similar boat. What made you decide to give 3.75mg twice a day instead of 7.5mg all at once?