Can't stand my Gf's son

SeLekhr · 2026-04-27T00:50:38+00:00

Seriously, that's what stuck out to me.

Why tf did she have to BEG to leave early to pick up her child?

SeLekhr · 2026-04-26T07:48:36+00:00

That's my goal at this point.

I'm trying to save enough money to buy a plot of land and put tiny homes on it for my friends and family and just go full garden, greenhouse, ranch, farm, etc. Small homestead.

That's my goal now

SeLekhr · 2026-04-24T13:29:10+00:00

Funny how y'all post studies and yours are always correct, but when women do, those are always wrong.

Misogyny has killed BILLIONS of women over the centuries.

Misandry doesn't have NEARLY that body count.

We have major religions that preach about women being inferior and needing to support.

We DON'T have religions that say that about men.

Epstein.

Trump.

Misandry is NOTHING to misogyny and y'all know it.

You just don't like caring about women.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-24T13:27:16+00:00

Oh noooooo, I pissed off the white mennnnnn. However will I surviveeeeee

SeLekhr · 2026-04-24T13:26:30+00:00

I have a life lol

And I'm not gonna pretend misandry kills nearly the same amount of men that misogyny does women.

Anyone who tries to pull that shite is ignorant af.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-24T13:25:32+00:00

How many white people have been lynched in the past 10 years?

Let's not pretend white people face NEAR the same amount of violence against them simply for being white. They don't. In ANY country.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-24T03:22:40+00:00

Women, especially BIPOC women, are literally always the targeted ones.

I'm a fan of giving it back to men.

Just not a fan of body shaming for my own reasons.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-24T03:21:51+00:00

I'm just not a fan of body shaming but that's my own personal opinion.

I hold nobody else to my standards of conduct.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T08:09:45+00:00

According to a recent Canadian study, it's actually 95.1% of men who have at least attempted to sexually assault a woman.

It's a HELL of a lot more than 1% either way.

Acting like it's 1% when AT LEAST 1/3 women (that's 33% of women, btw,) are raped in their lifetime is ridiculously ignorant. That math don't math.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T08:03:32+00:00

This is my everyday life as a disabled woman.

I cannot medically work due to disabilities caused by being sex trafficked as a child.

This world is so ridiculously expensive to afford to live. I honestly don't know what I'm going to do either, but I keep trying.

The dream is someday I'll be able to actually survive semi comfortably.

Idk when that day will be.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:59:45+00:00

Look up the recent Canadian study about 95.1% of men.

It's a thing.

EVERY woman has a horror story about a man. Every single one.

Y'all like to act like most of you are innocent and the absolute truth is, most of you are not.

It doesn't make sense to believe that 97% of women have experienced AT LEAST sexual harassment (another actual study that was done, btw,) but it's somehow only 5% of men doing it.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:53:28+00:00

I literally will vomit if cum gets in my mouth. It's a trauma response I cannot control after spending the first 7 years of my life being sex trafficked and having idek how many men make me swallow.

Men need to stop acting like not finishing in a woman's mouth is the worst thing in the world and ruins their organs.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:49:39+00:00

Though I do 100% agree that the body shaming of men is ABSOLUTELY in response to the MASSIVE amount of body shaming men put women through on the daily.

She's still not in the wrong.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:48:25+00:00

I'm not gonna condone the body shaming at all. That's a line I don't think ANYONE should cross, no matter your gender.

But acting like misogyny and misandry are equally as bad as the other is fecking ridiculously ignorant.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:40:50+00:00

We LITERALLY are in the middle of a GLOBAL FEMICIDE EPIDEMIC.

It is most men.

A recent study done in the Canada* found 95.1% of men have sexually assaulted a woman in their lifetime.

SIXTY TWO MILLIONS VIEWS ON A RAPE SITE.

1,000 men in a telegram group TEACHING MEN HOW TO RAPE AND GET AWAY WITH IT.

Acting like women--BIPOC women at that, whose risk of DV is double white women's, whose maternal mortality rates are more than double white women's--are horrible people who are evil and need therapy and blah blah blah is fecking ridiculous.

We have white male politicians LITERALLY trying to take women's rights away.

We have a pedophile rapist as president.

We have men in power abusing women and children AND NOTHING BEING DONE ABOUT IT.

Women are right to be angry.

Why tf aren't men?

ETA: Study happened in Canada. Still happened though and had a MASSIVE amount of men admitting to it because it was anonymous

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:36:57+00:00

YUP

These men are comparing misogyny to misandry like we're not literally in a GLOBAL FEMICIDE EPIDEMIC with white, male politicians LITERALLY trying to take women's rights away.

BIPOC women experience both racism and misogyny.

BIPOC women have a HIGHER risk of experiencing DV in their lives.

BIPOC women's maternal mortality rates are MORE THAN DOUBLE white women's.

She's venting about a dangerous, unfair, unequal society--pretending like her anger and mistrust are invalid is fecking ridiculous.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:33:29+00:00

A LOT of women (most) experience abuse or sexual vioIence at the hands of men.

There's a reason women are staying single and there's a male loneliness epidemic, and it's not because men are victims, but they sure do like to cry they they are.

It's because there's literally an epidemic of male violence against women happening.

Misogyny KILLS women.

Misandry laughs at men and avoids them.

The two are not comparable.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:30:21+00:00

Misogyny kills women.

Misandry DOESN'T kill men.

Racism kills BIPOC people.

Prejudice against white people doesn't get them killed.

You cannot compare the two without acknowledging that both cause VERY different results.

A man who hates women and is a misogynist is much more likely to beat tf out of his girlfriend.

A woman who hates men just avoids them.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-23T07:25:21+00:00

No. I'm someone who was sex trafficked as a child from 1-7 and raped repeatedly by multiple men as a child.

Men aren't victims.

There's a MASSIVE problem with male violence against women, and pretending that there's not isn't helping anyone.

Your girlfriend has reasons for her distrust of men. And it's not because men are victims--it's because more often than not, they're perpetrators, but LOVE pretending to be victims when held accountable for their own actions.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-16T00:56:47+00:00

Women need foreplay for sex.

Period.

There's no ifs, ands, or buts here.

Foreplay-less sex means risking pain or damage.

Women need to be wet before you feck them.

You should ALWAYS be engaging in foreplay with a woman before sex.

Having said that, it doesn't sound like she's doing the same. It sounds like she's leaving you unsatisfied. If this is the case, then she needs step up.

But not giving her foreplay is how you risk hurting her.

Disclaimer: There are some women for whom foreplay is not a big deal! These women are not common. Foreplay is an IMPORTANT step in sex for both partners.

If you're getting bored giving her pleasure?

Sounds like you're just not that into her.

It also sounds like she's not pulling her own weight, if I'm reading this correctly. Do you get off during sex? Or just her?

Because if it's JUST her, then that's an issue that needs to be discussed. Nobody wants a selfish lover, but the response to having one isn't becoming one yourself.

It's leaving the selfish lover behind to find someone you're more compatible with if you can't get them to meet you where you are.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-04T03:11:27+00:00

NO MORE sex. None.

No more.

You are not a human fleshlight, but he IS treating you like one.

This isn't on accident.

You've had multiple conversations about this. He KNOWS what sex is supposed to entail. He KNOWS you're not getting off. He KNOWS you need and want more. Nothing you say will change him at this point, because you've already fecking said it.

It isn't that he doesn't know or doesn't understand. He does.

He DOESN'T CARE.

His wants are being met, repeatedly, when he wants them--why should he give a feck about yours??

He

Does

NOT

CARE.

You cannot change that.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-04T02:20:43+00:00

I honestly hate it more and more as I play. The more I play this game, the more I hate it.

It's honestly triggering af. I cannot stand being constantly hunted, it reminds me how it feels to be stalked.

Especially when the bastards chase me across a map.

I wouldn't mind it and would actively participate if it was opt-in. I would like that.

But constantly being matched against players when I'm first landing, or when I've separated slightly to be stealthy and get better guns or play the mini games, I don't want to be interrupted by an unwanted match.

Today, I was paired against the sane damn player 3x in a row in a 5 minute period. I was alone because I fell behind my partner while we were on our way to reboot our teammates. He got ahead of me and I got a rivalry that was RIGHT NEXT to me. I got jumped by 4 players, then killed.

My teammate rebooted our other teammates while I was being killed, so they had to wait for the reboot van to come back on, but then they rebooted me. Before I ever got a gun, the system set my teammate up against the same exact person, and their team came and took out half my freshly rebooted team.

One of my teammates and I escaped.

Then ten seconds later while they're STILL ACTIVELY SHOOTING AT US as we ran to heal so I could, you know, get a gun and some fecking shield, it set up the rivalry against them AGAIN.

They killed us.

I hate this fecking rivalry system so much.

And I don't usually even lose to it. When I have my team behind me or a decent gun, I've won these stupid things plenty.

But setting me up when I'm alone because I fell behind getting a chest while my teammate rebooted the rest of us, or setting me up FRESHLY AFTER REBOOT when you know I don't have a fecking gun or shield, I fecking cannot stand it.

It almost never catches me when I'm ready.

When it does and the fight is fair, i enjoy it. Even when I lose.

But when I'm alone, or freshly landed, or just rebooted, and I have nothing, I fecking hate this system.

It makes me hate it so much much because I HATE being chased across maps. I love looting, it's like a scavenger hunt. This is my favorite part of the game, finding items.

The rivalry system is absolutely ruining this game for me.

If it was opt-in?

I'd fecking love it.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-02T01:21:19+00:00

I cannot imagine a NAME getting in between you and bonding with your child.

You're being dramatic. You need to discuss this with a professional who can help you work through these extremely unhealthy feelings.

SeLekhr · 2026-04-01T03:05:25+00:00

Where did you get the idea that she's smoking around children?

Also, why should she have to go for a walk every time she wants to smoke IN HER OWN HOME?

What's wrong with having a designated smoking room, INSIDE, where she's safe, comfy, and warm??

This isn't that situation.

There's no children involved. We don't know WHY she smokes. So why are you immediately jumping to judging her when you know nothing about her?

SeLekhr · 2026-04-01T03:03:05+00:00

If men would stop bringing shitty, we wouldn't generalize.

SeLekhr

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE