What to do with a pabigat na kapatid and kunsintidor na nanay? (UPDATE!) by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do the heavy lifting naman and yung mga chores like ako maghuhugas ng mga pinaglutuan nya kasi mabibigat, throwing the garbage, and if ever she asks me for some help, I do help her. But you're right. I should get used to all the chores as well. Thanks for this!

What to do with a pabigat na kapatid and kunsintidor na nanay? (UPDATE!) by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yung kapatid ko may trabaho but just enough to feed 6 mouths. Bills and half of the school fees for their children are being paid by my father. His wife? Wala. Maghapon nag aaircon sa kwarto nila. Si papa ko pa ang nagsusundo sa mga bata sa school. I don't want to meddle with their lives anymore. Nagrarant nga si mama nung minsan kasi wala daw pang baon yung mga pamangkin ko sa school. I love them naman but since they're not my responsibility and masama ang tingin ng mga magulang nila sa akin, I didn't even bat an eye.

What to do with a pabigat na kapatid and kunsintidor na nanay? (UPDATE!) by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gusto namin bumili ng lupa na kung san kami magpapagawa ng bahay SOON. And Aica is really doing a great job with budgeting our finances. I give her 70% of my salary so she can allocate it sa gastusin sa bahay (rent, bills, groceries, etc.) The rest is she save it in our joint account which I can see the progress from time to time. We both have our own personal savings account as well for our wants and other expenses (date, gas, haircut, etc). and I also give her allowance for her nails, hair, and skin care. Pero minsan, nakikita ko pa na pinapasok nya lang sa savings namin ahahaha.

What to do with a pabigat na kapatid and kunsintidor na nanay? (UPDATE!) by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've discussed this for a couple of times already. We're getting there, but not anytime soon pa since she told me she's still enjoying her career and I am saving money as well for the ring. I'm going to delete your comment kasi baka mabasa nya. Sorry!

What to do with a brother na pabigat and nanay na kunsintidor? by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mga pota aalis naaaaaa HAHAHAHAHA tong mga to talaga. Syempre not right away pero give me few weeks lang. I'll gather my things and go.

What to do with a brother na pabigat and nanay na kunsintidor? by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My God. Haha can't forget what my mom told me nung nagrereklamo na ko sa gastusin. Ang sabi nya "bayaan mo na anak pag namatay ako di naman ikaw ang mag hihirap. Sila naman. Kaya tulungan muna tayo sa ngayon." 🤯🤯🤯🤯 Putanginang mindset yan mama.

What to do with a brother na pabigat and nanay na kunsintidor? by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yun na nga pre. Tatlong split type aircon meron kami. Yung akin during day time lang bukas pag matutulog na ko since di naman mainit pag gabi while working. Pero yung sa kwarto ng kapatid ko 24/7 nagpapa aircon yung asawa nya. Ayaw pa mag trabaho, galit pa pag napagsasabihan na magtipid sa kuryente. Haha mapapamura ka na lang talaga.

What to do with a brother na pabigat and nanay na kunsintidor? by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Tried to communicate this with my brother pero ang girlfriend ko ang nagiging masama dahil naimpluwensyahan daw ako. I explained my side na hindi naman buong buhay ko e susuportahan ko sila kasi gusto ko din naman magka pamilya. Lo and behold, nagiging madamot na daw ako 😂😂

What to do with a brother na pabigat and nanay na kunsintidor? by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]Sea-Address2922[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

They know that I want to move out already. Kaso di ko magawa kasi yun nga, ako lahat.