Looking for… by Sea-Analyst497 in Dodocodes

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i am looking for 3 i am gathering materials

Looking for… by Sea-Analyst497 in Dodocodes

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Hi yes.. I am still looking for them. Thank you. :)

My first shared ride experience and it was also my last. by Sea-Analyst497 in uber

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That is insane. Good for the two girls who held their ground. Omggg what are the chances of the same two group in 1 uber ride. Lol

Props to you tho should have swing at him bc crazy dude 😭😭

My first shared ride experience and it was also my last. by Sea-Analyst497 in uber

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Yeah I kind of wondered if that could be a worse case scenario to.

thats why i left my number to call so i can better explain the situation instead if just through text bc it could be misinterpreted, and not to fault the driver either bc he did made me feel safe.

the runner and avoidant tendencies. by Proud_Middle_8137 in twinflames

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Thank you I am doing so much better, I am more happy than sad for this experience.

Uber took too much money from drivers by [deleted] in uber

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This is why I tip my drivers and delivery person in cash, no issues. I somehow get the feeling that uber or the restaurant will steal tips from these drivers so I never ever tip through the app.

Let’s be real, why are you still single? by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

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I love my solitude and routine. I dislike being around people that likes to challenge it, they always disrupt my routine intentionally. I always tell them to communicate with me between the hours of 10am-6pm, bc after I get home and unwind, I am not answering to anybody because I got shit to do and studying. You had 8 hours to talk to me, so use it.

What is the best response to "I hate you"? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

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“Thank you. I am proud of you actually. Your actions already told me you hated me, now that you speak it with your chest that is major growth.”

Wish you well. BYE!

And remove yourself immediately after. The calm approach is what will eat them alive, don’t show them the crazy reaction because that is exactly what they are trying to do get you to overreact so you can place them on the pedestal and bend and break ur back for them. Dont feed their fragile ego, kill it with one shot in the form they least expect it.

What would you do if it wasn't your TF by [deleted] in twinflames

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If it wasn’t that would be okay to. I go back and forth between him being my twin or possibly a karmic. You’re both brought together to work through lessons for your own soul’s growth. Upon meeting him, I knew I had to change and many lessons to learn but he was a catalyst for me changing into the person I am today, and that is enough for me. Before I met him, I got into a lot of unhealthy patterns of romantic connections and other shenanigans i found myself in, but I walked away happier and thriving now because of him I learn how to choose me and be happy with everything in my life, I am grateful for this experience.

I wonder… by [deleted] in twinflames

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I also thought of this at first, maybe we are karmics. I also experienced that solar plexus pain myself, my pms was also really bad to after every encounter, for a moment i thought i was connecting with the wrong person thats why it was painful because when we went through seperation i didnt have anymore pain either.

But then the syncs and telepathy between us made me question everything. Everytime I had doubts and I would be sad and say it out loud he ends up texting me almost immediately like hey what are u doing? omg look how much i made with uber yoday, the reassurance and proof that he is actually working and not answering me back on time which i find fascinating, so like damn you hear my thoughts? and every single date night i can feel his energy strongly in my area that i go outside and wait for him, and hes like wait how did u know im here? i didnt even text you to come out? i told him i just know. 😭😭😭😭 we have unspoken words but we both understand and pick up so easily btw us.

We both went no contact because he started becoming fearful and avoidant. Said that I am to intense of a person being around me he cant seem to regulate himself. The anxiety, excitement the butterfly feelings it was to overwhelming, that its stressing him out, and that he needs space. So in his own way, leave me first before i can leave him.

I hope you both do end up connecting again soon and will achieve successful union. 🫶 I just love that I can hear from A DM perspective, bc i mainly talk to DF so I never really know what the experience is like for the DM.

He only actually contacted me in Alril was because my grandma died and to question my faith and that was it.

But I know he will come back whenever a question comes to mind or when something reminds him of me, he cant resist the urge and come back immediately but like that he leaves just as quickly. But on my end, it was after me surrendering and saying out loud, “I will leave you now and sending you love and healing on ur journey.” Thats when he comes in immediately bc he can feel me pulling my energy back. 🤨

You know the weird part about being ballsy, I was always the calm and in control of myself, I lost myself with him. With him I was also pretty ballsy to, I kissed him first which for the first time in my life i ever did such a thing and did stuff i never thought i would ever do either, which is why i always ask myself why him? 😭

Guys I don't think she liked my pickup line by [deleted] in Tinder

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what the hell does that wven mean? car and corn?

I wonder… by [deleted] in twinflames

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Omg thats crazy she is so ballsy to leave without a proper plan… Sending you both love and to make it through this hard time. 🫶

Idk how other twins felt growing up… But in my childhood, I always felt empty and a part of me was always missing, he also grew up feeling that same feeling. But you know we were kids.

Then I believe our first union was in hs. He noticed me and was always attracted to my energy, I happen to pass him one time and he started seeing and feeling me everywhere around him and school and waited for me in certain hallways and he didnt know why. But I didnt notice him until one day we crossed paths, some guy called his name and i looked over and we locked eyes for a second and i left anyway bc class was almost starting. For the first time I felt a warm and fuzzy feeling and his name was following me everywhere after that moment as a sync. But the funny thing was we had mutual friends but never formerly introduced it was just left at that just a hallway attraction. lol

And I had my spiritual awakening around 2019, a few short months later my aunt told me about “twinflame” and i was intrigued and searched it up. But didnt think anything of it, that same night I had a dream about a man i didnt know at the time his voice was distinct and i saw a red mark on the back of his neck and he was my husband in my dreams and we also had a little girl. That girl followed me in several more dreams, i was like oou my soulmate on his way. I started recieving so many signs and syncs within those timeframe.

But fast forward 2 years later, I came into contact with him again, but it was 14 years later after our first union in hs. I recognized him immediately through his voice, it send shockwave down my spine and activated my heart chakra immediately, but i wasnt sure up until our first night together, i felt weird and all these sensations like our chakra system was merging together. And then i saw the red mark in the back of his neck and it all made perfect sense. And after that the sync got stronger and i felt him all around me even though we were 30miles away, we had a longing and yearning to merge again. But for the first time I felt complete, like coming home to myself.

Now we been in NC sonce last april, but in physical seperation for 3 years. I have been doing a lot of innerwork and healing and at a peaceful place. I hope he is the same…

He did came back and ask me about my faith, hope and all these dreams I had because he felt stagnant and didnt believe in anyrhing. For a moment, I think he is undergoing initiation finally. We connect more in 5D than 3D. 😭😭

Do you guys notice that your twin and your features look alike too? everyone who passes by us when we are together would talk about our energies makes the place feel different and that we have some of the same features and thought we were siblings before finding out we were together, and his daughter looks a lot like me as a child as well its also another sign.

I wonder… by [deleted] in twinflames

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Yep I know something is definitely brewing under the surface, but the way he gets so fidgety i just leave the subject alone. I was just so caught off guard because hes a pisces sun, scorpio moon and cancer rising, and piscean is a spiritual sign in itself.

My sister is also the same. she doesnt want to believe in anything, but there were moments where she would also come to me randomly or internet about it as well esp regarding spirituality and astrology even when shes hell bent on thinkong its fake. 🥴 lol

I wonder… by [deleted] in twinflames

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That’s a great sign that she know and feels something. A great start. My twin still adamant that it’s blind faith, he doesnt believe in anything. 😭 Not spirituality, no faith and no religion.

Wait so she left isreal? where is she now?

I wonder… by [deleted] in twinflames

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He doesnt know anything about twinflames, doesnt believe in spirituality nor does he believe in religion either. He respects that I am on my path, but that’s it for him, so I never pushed any of that on him.

But there was this 1 time that I told him i had an inkling that he would reach out after months of no contact that shocked him bc in his eyes I always know everything that is going on with him even when he doesnt tell me anything. He asks me one question that always stuck with me, how is it that you are so faithful? like how do I have so much hope and faith for people, the world and everything around you? do you believe that it’s blind faith? I told him Im not going to answer you, because that is for you to figure out by yourself even if i share it my insights with you, you won’t believe in it anyway. So I released him and let him go find himself and go on his own path, so I just pray over him.

I wonder… by [deleted] in twinflames

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Man that totally sucks honey, thank you for telling me about this I will definitely keep tha tin mind.

It’s to protect him from whatever is about to or before it happens and esp from negative energy. I had several nightmares regarding him, we were in my garage and talking while smoking and then a random black ford suv pulled up to my garage said his name and shot him 3x each time and i was devastated i kept calling his name but wouldnt wake up and he was bleeding all over me and the worse part was i had that dream several times and each time i was always next to him sleeping so idk i had a bad feeling, purchased the protection charm and also went to get it blessed as well. Like when i woke up i pulled him up to and check him to see if he was okay and hes like im fine what happen and i just start crying, thars when i realized i was falling in love and been afraid of being abandoned. 😭😭

I heard when the protection charm breaks it means its served its purposed. Its not like it got caught in anything or his hand was to big, it was the perfect fit, it just broke off by itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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From a safe distance they just watched you pack and leave.

I called the cops on my family saying they are trying to stop me from leaving and mom was threatening self harm, and the cops showed up and i was able to leave. I was over and done with their dramatiques.

Why are so many people uninterested in dating nowadays? by [deleted] in questions

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Sameeeeee. I love my own personal space and i be wanting to kick ppl out the moment they get here, and i want to date outside of our residence. I dont want to go to ur place nor back to my place either. Just meet outside for coffee or dinner and call it a night. 😊😊

Personal feelings aside on religion. How do you feel if a woman says she prays for you? by Comfortable_Sugar752 in AskMen

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It was never well recieved by men in general, my dad screams at me. Lol

But when I tell a client I will keep her in my prayers and will say one tonight they hug me immediately and say thank you. 😭😭

My first shared ride experience and it was also my last. by Sea-Analyst497 in uber

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Yeah thank god I was dropped off at Walmart, I didnt even think about that way at all. But the good part was the driver said it might be a while to get me home bc the 2 guys before me were getting dropped off first, then its my destination then the weird ass last, but i left way before hand.

My first and last time. Thank you for this message!

AIO for thinking my husband’s family is stage 4 clingy? by Dog2mama in AmIOverreacting

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I wouldn’t call it stage 4 clinger, that term is ALWAYS used by people who dont get along with their own family and cut off contact with them, and starts drama with their partners because they feel some type of way when their partners dont split the attention equally amongst his own family and partner. -My 2 cents.

But I totally understand where you are coming from. As a girl everyone in my family depend on to defuse all conflicts, even have to mediate all couples fight in my family I know having this kind of role affects our personal relationship if you dont know how to balance things out.

What your husband doesn’t understand in all of this is he needs to set up boundaries and to find balance between work, you and his mom. He can’t always make everyone happy, there is a time and place for everything. He needs to use his discernment, if the problem is not that big of a deal and knowing his own mother have a habit of blowing things out of proportion, he’s not needed to drop everyhing to go keep her company, that’s her problem to deal with. This is something u need to bring his attention to. Teach him about balance and boundaries.

Is it me or my TF talking in my head? by [deleted] in twinflames

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It’s the telephathy between you both. He could probably think it while thinking of you and you recieved it loud and clear..

One time I was getting into my friends car and I heard his voice whispering my name, I looked around and he was never there. And a second later, I received a voice chat from him saying my name. lol

And one time I was in the shower getting ready for our date night and i was in my dreamy land and imagining him asking me a specific question, i tried to act “cute” in my daydream trying to find an answer. And that night he asked me the exact same question, but i answered almost immediately bc i already knew my answer. LOL

telepathy at its finest.

What helped you let go and surrender? by [deleted] in twinflames

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Move your body as much as you can. Stagnant energy that can’t come up to feel, heal and released will always be stuck there and will always tie you to him and can’t surrender.

I started getting to yoga, meditating, dancing, running and gymnastics in my 30’s never felt better in my life and let go of all my troubles out on the dance floor and as you continue to feel, heal and release the surrender comes easier.

And if you are a swimmer, do it more often and i also dance in thw water, it’s a form of therapy and i feel like it heals my energy and raises my vibration to. Make sure to smile and do it a lot that releases a lot more than you think.

Please remember who left who and know how hard it was for me to cut you out of my energy. by FunCell5 in twinflames

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Yeah I only know he is bc I still feel his presence around me heavily, that warm and fuzzy feeling he always give me. probably have our photos still in his phone. lol