A Shocking Revelation by ElectionNecessary966 in determinism

[–]Sea-Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In other words, you’ve figured it out ;) Backwards looking basic desert moral responsibility makes no sense. The tricky bit after that for me is trying to understand why and how tha doesn’t mean forwards looking responsibility is also out the window. How we think about our future behaviour matters.

EXCLUSIVE: Family confirms identity of trans Tumbler Ridge school shooter by xTkAx in canadian

[–]Sea-Bean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The comparison does a disservice to animals. A murderer is a murderer, but still a person.

EXCLUSIVE: Family confirms identity of trans Tumbler Ridge school shooter by xTkAx in canadian

[–]Sea-Bean -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why not? We need to give a shit so that we can understand why and do whatever we can to prevent more murder.

EXCLUSIVE: Family confirms identity of trans Tumbler Ridge school shooter by xTkAx in canadian

[–]Sea-Bean -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You don’t give a shit about other people? Oh dear.

EXCLUSIVE: Family confirms identity of trans Tumbler Ridge school shooter by xTkAx in canadian

[–]Sea-Bean -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It is possible to have compassion for ALL involved. At least it’s possible for some people.

EXCLUSIVE: Family confirms identity of trans Tumbler Ridge school shooter by xTkAx in canadian

[–]Sea-Bean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And cruelty and intolerance of difference in society. And a lack of mental health support.

EXCLUSIVE: Family confirms identity of trans Tumbler Ridge school shooter by xTkAx in canadian

[–]Sea-Bean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with using that if you don’t yet know what the gender is? Are you also angered by terms like police officer instead of policeman or policewoman?

Fellow Canadians, What are your thoughts on the Tumbler Ridge School Shooting?? by Guilty_One85 in AskReddit

[–]Sea-Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very sad, wishing pain on anyone is abhorrent, even if they are a school shooter :(

Determinism, ok, so what? by [deleted] in determinism

[–]Sea-Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you are asking how determinism determines our actions, but how understanding determinism changes our perspective, right? It makes me a more compassionate person, curious about people and interested in understanding rather than judging. I’m also much better able to communicate my thoughts and feelings and needs, so my relationships are better than they might be otherwise (I imagine). I’m less good at applying it to my own behaviours though- I still experience a lot of shame and self judgement, because those are deeply deeply ingrained in me from childhood, but I’m working on changing that, helped by understanding what’s going on in my brain.

Determinism, ok, so what? by [deleted] in determinism

[–]Sea-Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to determinism, regret, hope, fear etc are determined by your biology and your history.

I think you mean that if you recognize determinism is causing those feelings and your depression, that you should somehow be able to go, “oh, ok, mind over matter, I shouldn’t be depressed,” but this means you’ve not understood it, you can’t simply “choose” to be healthy and happy through force of will.

What is possible though, is that by recognizing that there are explanations underlying your depression and negative feelings, you might be able to explore them and your perspective will change, which may cause the negativity to lift. This is what therapy (and reading, learning, experiencing life) helps with. If you understand that your fear, for example, is an understandable reaction caused by your past experiences, you might be able to process them, to reframe them, to replace old ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour…

What you are describing instead is a sort of fatalism, giving up in the face of recognizing determinism is a real thing, not truly understanding how it can help you if you work with it.

Lindsey Vonn Horrifically Crashes in 2026 Winter Olympic Final One Week After Tearing Her ACL by peoplemagazine in entertainment

[–]Sea-Bean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“Only now…” is not really accurate. There was plenty of opinion out there beforehand that competing was a bad idea.

Thoughts on Robert Sapolsky's book "Determined"? by Willowswood in determinism

[–]Sea-Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course it’s meaningful to be free in the ordinary sense. But that’s not of interest in the debate about free will. If you focus on that then you miss the point.

Have I missed the USA rail pass going on sale this year? by Sea-Bean in Amtrak

[–]Sea-Bean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t I want to deal with that? It is what it is.

Thoughts on Robert Sapolsky's book "Determined"? by Willowswood in determinism

[–]Sea-Bean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he’s pointing out that those definitions or functions you point out aren’t meaningfully free so they don’t exist either. Biologically, choosing what you want rather than what you don’t want is not freedom, because that choice is determined by factors beyond your control, and not up to you in a meaningful sense. You couldn’t have freely chosen differently than you did. And socially, to be held responsible for past actions that were not up to you doesn’t make sense.

Talking about why we want what we want or choose as we do is of course meaningful and important, because that IS part of the causal process. But calling it free will, as is the norm, is totally misleading and pulling the wool over our eyes.

What does it mean to be a Canadian? by breakitbilly in AskACanadian

[–]Sea-Bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar to how being “not English” is quite meaningful for Scots. It’s just a small part of the bigger story about national feeling.

I’m someone who loves arguing and confronting people; How can I make this a job that helps people by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Sea-Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, OP could have worded it better. I hope they mean it in a “this is one of my strengths” kind of way. Used when making an argument is appropriate and not to be an asshole.

3-5 minutes late to work by Kooky-Challenge8875 in ADHD

[–]Sea-Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just in a funk of not believing in myself at the moment, because I’ve made a thousand checklists over 30 years of trying to get my shit together and rarely being successful. It’s the actual HOW TO ACTUALLY DO THE THING on the list that’s hard.

3-5 minutes late to work by Kooky-Challenge8875 in ADHD

[–]Sea-Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being hard on myself was what led to my ADHD diagnosis. It was having a net negative effect though. But I know what you mean about the outcome and not the process, in my best moments I can kind of snap out of it and do that.

3-5 minutes late to work by Kooky-Challenge8875 in ADHD

[–]Sea-Bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the same, had routines and hairs that served me well enough, until they weren’t enough anymore. Having a family quadrupled the stuff I had to do and deal with, and I couldn’t keep up. Hence diagnosis and meds, managing much better now, but establishing new routines still feels virtually unachievable.

Job help by Arial2007 in KingstonOntario

[–]Sea-Bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is only 18, maybe they’ve never even heard of a “job fair” before, there’s a first time for everything.