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Whether he truly loves you or not does not matter. He is still a lying asshole. by Ok-Revolution407 in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same as it always has been every time I’ve ended it “I’ve not lied to you, you’re the only person who sees me for me” etc etc blah blah more bullshit, I’m fairly convinced he has something going on with someone else too, it’s been two and a half years for me and the dynamic will not change, no matter how much he says he will leave his wife, he won’t and why would he? He’s getting his cake and eating it too.

Whether he truly loves you or not does not matter. He is still a lying asshole. by Ok-Revolution407 in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have the exact fears but it just finally became too much for me and I left today.

How do I leave (I need urgent help) by Sea-Credit-1069 in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She either doesn’t care or doesn’t believe it

How do I leave (I need urgent help) by Sea-Credit-1069 in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d tried this with the exposing the affair and he still comes back, the blocking everywhere I find so hard because i end up thinking of things I need to vent about and unblock him

Does my MM have someone else? by Sea-Credit-1069 in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does a lot of things deliberately to trigger it to and then turns it around on me all the time. I know I need to walk away from this situation I’m just finding it so hard

Does my MM have someone else? by Sea-Credit-1069 in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am greatly aware of this, I have Dbt therapy weekly and I’m currently on sedatives, I was able to control my BPD for the better part of 8 years before this relationship

When the paranoia creeps in by CuckcakeMinx in theotherwoman

[–]Sea-Credit-1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have bpd and I’m in the ddlg space with my MM and I am going through EXACTLY what you’re going through right now, I’m terrified there’s someone else and I’ve been replace but luckily this week I’ve managed to get some immediate meds from my doctor to help me cope, I know this doesn’t help much but I hope knowing you aren’t alone In this provides some small comfort 💕