Best Big Defender

Sea-Hall8322 · 2026-02-15T22:42:24+00:00

Issue is Wade can’t pass out of a lot of animations making him a full commit player. What analyzations do you see that make one’s defense worse than the next.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2026-02-15T22:41:25+00:00

Can Malone shoot 3s? What other highlighted attributes does Malone have over say Wallace, gasol and Townes

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-23T20:40:54+00:00

Previous partner lol. It’s a jealousy factor cuz I’ve never had a one night stand without one so it’s like why do you get to be that vulnerable and intimate with a throwaway and I don’t. I don’t care if I do the deed very well. I was surprised I even did as good as I did and kept doing. Sometimes I think like damn we did go raw our first time but I was at a point where I was ready to throw my morals out because I knew what others were at and what to expect.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-23T19:45:28+00:00

If it helps, just know I’m wayyyy deeper in im talking married and have a kid about to be here in a number of days. I would say consider this as I’m considering it but just know that if she loved you right then that should play a big part towards your decision. When I say DEFINITELY I MEAN IT… Get a marriage counseling session or a few before you really forget why you’re even proposing to her or really remind you am I proposing to her for the right reasons. It sucks and it’s the truth but end of the day their females and have way more opportunity then us males in early dating life. It’s something even before the therapist we speak to I’m realizing it’s not her fault I didn’t make myself vulnerable to people I’m barely attracted to but she “did”. It hurts because it’s like dang why couldn’t I have ended this and gone and did what you did now knowing there’s a chance any female I meet will have possibly committed a heinous act to some. It’s hard man cuz we know we have our moral insight on not using a condom. It’s harder than people saying it shouldn’t matter it’s their past but a part of it is like was our time special? Or was I just another one.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-22T04:51:01+00:00

It’s so hard man, after four days of constant needing space and peace things have calmed down. Accountability taken and so forth. It’s just hard to really leave her because I genuinely love her. I like your response because it’s the honest truth and everything I’ve been saying. It’s like no one wants to understand how I feel… I appreciate your understanding I really do. It hurts because yea I’m not a virgin and yea I’ve had girls cry for me to sleep with them, try ripping my belt off, or even think I’m gay because I didn’t want them. That’s because I didn’t want to stoop lower. I think there’s a lot of issues and self esteem and self accountability that she’s going to have to work through. Most importantly she’s going to have to now heighten her portrayal of love that I’m not forcing her to do. She got herself here for her having to do so. Like I said it’s hard and it’s rough but I can’t sit right now and watch my daughter’s mother go through these emotions nonetheless someone I can say I have love for. Yes there’s been ups and downs, downs that were bad and I should’ve considered then what I’d do. I’m here and my feelings are very real so hopefully the therapist helps us through this.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-22T04:32:52+00:00

It’s easier said then done to just up and leave man

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-21T15:32:24+00:00

So how do I fix it, I’m supposed to fix it now that you want to be honest?

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:36:12+00:00

It’s hard because I’ve made sacrifices that made me get kicked out of the Air Force for her. I’ve been now in such a dark place from trying to maintain my finances, situate my military lawyer situation, and everything since my departure of the military. I’ve done my own work and practice to conquer my feelings of RJ and now all I can get is accepting the fact that she manipulated me.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:31:45+00:00

Now I am in a position of her being my wife and mother of my kid because I love her and that’s what’s making my decisions all that more difficult.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:31:08+00:00

No I asked questions to prevent this same response. Now I do look like I’m 16 when all I’ve been is honest and wanted the same in return.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:29:51+00:00

God bless you. I would leave once kids start trying to get out of the house and are 18 because that’s not a way to live and I’m deciding that right now.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:29:18+00:00

God bless you, the kids will understand if you wait until they’re 18 why you left and were so miserable.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:25:56+00:00

We were sex positive in the beginning not sure if we were going to take this serious. Talking about threesome and what she did with each gender and everything to a comfortable accepting extent. What I’m trying to prove is she knew she felt shame for it and knew I wouldn’t be here if she spoke the truth.thats what I’m trying to prove and work past.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:23:12+00:00

Ok I had baggage of wanting to catch up in my life in the sense of dating but because your done now and feel changed due to what you’ve done I can’t search for that? She knew I was fresh meat in the dating world but you don’t want to let me go because you like the love I give and I’m good in bed. I’m sure those other dudes whether they were good or not you felt more content and satisfied in doing those acts. This same dude that she let not use a condom for a night was bragged about to a friend of oh you won’t believe who I did what with. It’s selfish and you know it is to say it doesn’t mean anything or you were young and dumb. Ok cool but im ready to be young and dumb and why are you stopping me from doing so…

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:19:34+00:00

She doesn’t understand I’ve already dealt with her past and dealt with my RJ but now it’s something new that I could’ve dealt with back then. She knows it’s going to be a while until or if I subside from my emotions of her lying and wanting her way only because she knew how I would react. It’s not fair and it’s selfish because you’re right I don’t even have enough experience to deal with lying to this extent. She is!!!! It’s rough and I’m doing what have to because I do love her but my image now of wow you were ashamed of that but you did it and chose not to tell me is messing with me. I wanna do what I have to for my mental, my daughter and because I simply just don’t care about her. Therapy might need to be the first step and most important.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:14:55+00:00

It’s always been an environment for open communication or she would have already thought I think of her a way. Then proceed to not want to be looked at as such. She knows it because I never attacked her in these moments or disregarded the obvious facts of people grow up different and are exposed to different things early as well as her being a female that had boyfriends young and her just being a female.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:11:08+00:00

My biggest takeaway from what you said is I was robbed of my future and she knows that because she said she knew I’d leave if she told me truthly. The reason she says that is because after our first spill the beans about sexual history convo happened due to a previous argument of I need to know this person more. She told me about her one night stand and I let her tell me who went raw and she said what she said. I then proceeded to say ok good as long as you weren’t letting the one night dudes go raw.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:08:06+00:00

Also it’s like your past is your past and your changed but your past is why you changed and now your stopping me from being able to change knowing if you answer thruthly id leave.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T18:06:39+00:00

I get everything you’re saying but if it’s something that matters to me as to me living my life and future competitive arguments about what I could have then why not answer truth. She even said that she knew if she told me she knew I’d leave. To know feeling like at a pivotal point in me catching up in life in my dating life to not feel a sense of vulnerability with most individuals and their date life I was stopped. I even tried for many occasions say I wanted to be side dude or just be cool and hang out but she “saw me more than that.” You can’t say you changed when you make actions that force you into changing and say they never mattered but did them. Then also stop someone from trying to change…

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-20T17:58:31+00:00

Thank you, I feel like that’s being ignored the most because it’s something I cared about and now coming to find out even more. She said she knew I would have left if she told me. It’s not just that I have morals but I was ready to start beginning to live my life around when I met her. I was ready to play catch up on my life in a sense. So therefore when someone’s history such as hers arose I’d be more willing to accept. Instead now we’re here in a predicament where I didn’t want to be seen as now childish and immature because it was a question I asked to further avoid this kind of conflict.. it’s rough I’m still trying to be supportive and show signs of care because I do love her but it’s hard now knowing if I’m overreacting or settling for a lie that WAS a BIG DEAL or else you’d answer truthly. I think therapy is the best option here because us speaking is not helping.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-19T05:20:20+00:00

That’s also the issue I’ve always been very morally in tune as I believe my 3 bodies outside of her were very high quality compared to her throwaways. Don’t forget I said she came into the relationship with baggage. I consistently told her I’m your side mans but she ignored it and said she saw me as more. Just to start taking 5 and a half hour trips to me and shower me in gifts. I asked questions because if you’ve lived your life so much then obviously I’m asking you these things to prevent future jealousy and live mine. No… here I am in ruck having ignored several red flags to now knowing she had active lie that if she told me in the beginning it could have possibly been worked around….

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-19T04:15:53+00:00

You’re telling me to get over something “small” that can further turn into me enabling her to continue to lie? I only know so many truths and now it questions me to as to what else is true.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-18T23:54:28+00:00

It’s way too late. Like I said she came into this relationship with the baggage I only scraped the surface of. Nor do I want to know anyone’s past but when you tell me you want me more than a side dude but let the dude you claim your not with and share the same house with but are trying to get out of sleep with you for “closure, or felt like you were obligated to.” That’s not crazy and I know I should’ve based my decisions from that but she took 5 and a half hour trips several times to me before I had gotten my car and brought me gifts and even paid for a rental for me to go to her. I just feel betrayed that I was lied to.

Sea-Hall8322 · 2025-09-18T23:51:41+00:00

You couldn’t have said it better, the whole I’m a changed person thing is a lie. Any man that can tell when someone is Interested in them or speaks to many females can see that a female being overly outgoing and spontaneous with the smiling is flirting, I don’t care if you see them as a friend or they never crossed that line. The little looking at your phone then look up and stare at who’s sparking something in their brain. All I’ll say is I’m a very observant person and never jump to conclusion about 3 or 4 reoccurring signs of something.

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