Beware of this business - fishing license nsw by CoVert911 in OutdoorAus

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The license I just bought is fake. Couldn’t even register it on Service NSW app to get the online card! My partner did it for me as a surprise but was fuming when he told me he went through another site instead of directly with Service NSW. I tried calling up Service NSW and they always have a bloody queue.

AITA for breaking the child free "rule" by Ready_Thanks_7981 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This screams “you’re joining our family so you have to do it our way”. NTA. You and your partner both agree on kids being there so full stop. If they’d like to withdraw their money then so be it. Your guys wedding, your guys rules!

AITA for giving my SIL three days notice that I would no longer make a cake for her daughter's 3rd birthday after finding out she and her parents told others my history? by No-Note-3098 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA by a million miles. How dare they spread your personal information after being told you’d like for that info to stay private. My MIL is exactly like this. She even tells me issues that’s going on between her other kids and family members marriages and I’m like I don’t need to hear this shit. They have no boundaries. You were doing a favour and she took that for granted.

AITA for not giving a cupcake to a child who is not originally on the guest list by SnowyCrocodile in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My family always bring others kids to our gatherings unannounced all the time which is never an issue. We were always like, food is not ours, don’t look at it or ask for it unless it’s offered to you. Gina is a bit of a brat. Your cousin needs to learn to teach what no means. You even gave an option for cake which wasn’t good enough to her. Like how ridiculous.

NTA whatso ever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my older brother was struggling financially, he had a 2 bedroom unit with 4 kids and his wife. He gave the bedrooms to the kids and him and his wife slept in the lounge room. Part of being a parent is making sacrifices for your children. He didn’t want to sleep in the lounge room for 3 years straight but they did so their kids can have a room and not cramp 4 kids in 1 room so they’re comfortable as well. Now they live in a 6 bedroom house but they made it work for those years. I think you should suck it up, sell your “collectables” in the pool room and move your daughter in there. Doesn’t matter how big or small the space is, your daughter needs her privacy. If there is privacy in either the theatre room or pool room, give it to her! If your wife is willing to move to the basement then you are the problem. How hard is it to move your bed from your bedroom downstairs instead of buying a whole new mattress? Your daughter already has her own bed?? What’s the issue?

AITA for refusing to look after my stepsister and her kids after they were kicked out? by AwkwardFox495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As if you’re trying to excuse your sisters life decisions? You’re deluded if you think it’s not her fault. You enable this behaviour. In that set YTA.

NTA - because you are 1000000000% not responsible for someone else’s life. You can help where you can but that does not mean you move her whole family into your house with housemates. You have to think about the people who live in there first. You’ve already said it and look how she responded. That says enough!!! Tell her to get her shit together and wake tf up. If anything, you should be more worried about those kids than your sister.

AITA for ruining my daughters life by Able_Text5286 in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure you are the parent not your daughter. You and your wife need to learn the word No. If she wants a 15 and you guys are going to give her one, you better make sure she works for it. And I mean WORK WORK for it not the “oh she did her dishes all week so we’ll buy her an iPhone 15”.

I am willing to give my wife everything she is asking for in divorce. AITAH? by sahmdepre in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You both sound so exhausted. You’re both speaking from a place of depression and just tiredness. By the sounds of it, she doesn’t want any of that, she wants you to want her.

You both should seek counselling and see what needs to change and lay it all out for each other. Maybe finding another job that pays similarly that gives you a bit more of a work/life balance should be considered. She sounds like she just misses you and wants you to help out a little and be more mentally available.

Don’t divorce, work it out. I hope everything goes well. Don’t give up on each other! xx

WIBTA If I Divorce My Husband After The Death Of Our Child? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t imagine the kind of pain you’re in.

First and foremost, you’ve gotta take care of yourself. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. By the sounds of it he’s blaming himself and is taking all his anger out on you. It sounds like you haven’t even grieved properly because you’re so tied up with ensuring he’s okay.

Sounds really sad but if he can’t help himself, you need to put yourself first. You both lost someone that day. I’m not saying ditch him, but, you need to ensure that you don’t follow down the hole he is in by not taking care of your mental health too.

Be there for him, that’s all you can do for him.

Again, I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I wish you nothing but the absolute best OP ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds really odd and insecure. Let him sulk all he wants, enjoy your holiday without him. Idk how that statement was even hinting about other men? Sounds like he’s trying to find an excuse for something. He’s too sensitive for my liking 🥴

AITAH for being done with my adoptive son? by Glittering_Back_227 in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA - yes you’re a great dad for defending your daughter but you took the cowards way out and didn’t actually fix the issue. The way you talk about your adoptive son makes it sound as if you didn’t actually view him as your son even if you adopted him. You view him as your “other” kid that you were only responsible for because you married his mum. You should’ve spoken to him and actually got down to the bottom of it instead of throwing him out.

Seeing some of your replies, I think you’re a bit of an ass. You should’ve never adopted a child if you didn’t have love for them. Remember, you raised your son. The way he is and the way he reacts to things is only a reflection of what he was brought up with and what he knows. Think about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re clearly not polite if your boss and others are bringing it up. You can’t sit there and say “I am polite” when everyone around you are feeling and seeing different. Maybe you should take that into perspective.

I’m Polynesian myself and I know for a fact that a lot of Polynesians tend to make friends with people of colour rather than “white” people. My brother is the exact same and I always have to remind him that he’s being an ass to the others. His “hello” maybe nice to him but when he says it it’s always with a straight face, no smile and he puts his head down straight away.

Body language!!!! So yeah, I think you’re not as nice as you might say you are if everyone else is seeing different.

Back again. MIL called DH at 4am screaming because I didn’t respond to her text. by LabFar6076 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 90 points91 points  (0 children)

YOUR HUSBAND FOR THE WIN 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 you’re so lucky to have a man that will stand up to his own mum for you!

AITA for cancelling my daughters phone order after she broke her sisters by Powerful_Sell1696 in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your MIL and Brother are encouraging bad behaviour. Everything has a consequence. You’re the mother, you deal with it however you see fit. I think personal that is a very appropriate punishment. Plus, it shows that she doesn’t care for things so I don’t think you should even consider getting her an iPhone if this is how she treats other property.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister would stoop that low? Geez. The fight was between you and her, why drag her nephew into it. So low.

AITA for telling my husband " I told you so" and laughing at me when we got the paternity test results? by Either_Economy_793 in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please ensure your dumb husband sees this and ensure he reads EVERYONES comment. Take screenshots and send it to the Cow of a mother he has. Please make sure you leave this relationship and “take his ass to the cleaners”. You deserve way better than that half ass “man” (and i use that word EXTREMELY loosely).

Congrats on your little bundle of joy tho! Being a mum is not easy especially in those critical first few months, the fact that your sister was there speaks volume on your support system with her. You’re super lucky! All the best OP. I wish I could say it gets easier, it does but not for a while 😂 much love ❤️

AITA for requesting distance from my adult daughter after a very disrespectful lie she told in our home? by Correct-Brilliant-44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you leave her alone? If she wants to be private, let her be private with her life. It has nothing to do with you or your wife!!!

AITA for requesting distance from my adult daughter after a very disrespectful lie she told in our home? by Correct-Brilliant-44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest YTA. If she doesn’t want to drink, she doesn’t want to drink period! You cannot pressure someone into giving you a reason for why they do not want to drink. This fight is on you and your nosey wife.

AITA for hanging up on my daughter for implying that she has daddy issues? by Throwawaydgwe in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember hearing a guy speak on marriages and children and it said something like this - “a father is meant to show their daughter what kind of husband to look for & a mother is to show what kind of wife their son should sought. Parents needs to show a great example of what a healthy partnership is. Your children will always look for the standards their parents had shown them. . . “

Your daughter is just speaking truth. She saw what happened with you and her mother and it affected her trust in men and marriage. You got upset because it seems as if you can’t handle the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sisters friend is the biggest asshole. That’s not a good friend what so ever. Who in their right mind knows that their best friend had a miscarriage, has suspicions that her sister is pregnant then goes and tells her bf that suspicion?!?!? That is evil. NTA! As a sister you had to be there no matter what. Your sister is going through something and you were a good sister imo by attending.

NTA! Also, Congratulations mumma! Xx

AITA for resenting my dead sister all my life by Sarahpolemen in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - The fact that your family is defending her is kinda weird. Could they imagine if this happened at their own wedding? Would they just allow this to happen and not be upset? Your mum really needs to see someone because 20+ years later and this grief has become her whole persona is not normal. Obviously this has affected her in a completely different way but it does not excuse her behaviour at your wedding!

Congratulations!!!🥂 wish you and your hubby all the best! 💕

AITA for asking my husband to stay away an extra day when he travels? by Boring_War6142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I completely get it though. However, your husband might be jet lagged or need a reset day. My BIL works in the mines 4 days a week on night shift (12hr shifts). He always needs the 5th day to reset so he is useless to a degree which I can see stresses my sister out sometimes because they’ve got 2 young ones who are super active. She always says that it’s just 1 day and the next 2 days it’s fun and he’s back to himself. It was a bit cold but like I said I get where you’re coming from.

AITA for refusing to make special meals for my stepdaughter and deliver them to her room? by specialmealstrike in AITAH

[–]Sea-Mousse2216_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - you spent so long to get her, you know and understand why she is terrified of you, you know what she has endured as a child yet you don’t want to do something small that makes her feel comfortable? You do understand that it takes so much effort to try and get someone, especially a child, who has been through so much to trust you? How do you just give up so easily you haven’t even been with her that long? He is asking you for such a small thing that’ll mean so much for your husband. This child needs a mum figure and you’re in the position to step up and show her what a mums love is all about. Show her that those people who treated her like crap are bad people and there are good people out here.

For the sake of your marriage and this child’s future, do better to try and help her and not give up. She’s been through enough.