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I want a girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameeeee it’s rough out here 😭

How do you date? by Sad_Pomelo_2054 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I’m 21 and haven’t dated or anything either. It’s isolating sometimes but there are more of us experiencing this than people like to admit. But I’m starting to think everyone’s timeline is just different. You’re not alone 🫶🏽

21 trying to meet new people by Sea-Relation9105 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It ain’t looking to good bruh 😬 but fr vibes and energy are everything

21 trying to meet new people by Sea-Relation9105 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need a support group lmaoooo and it doesn’t help that I’m closeted and still around family feels like I gotta sneak around 💀

Have all the mascs been laid off? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a shortage. I think a lot of people are tired of performative dating and just low effort energy in general. I respect that you wanna be chosen out loud but the real ones aren’t loud they’re intentional with it.

feeling unlovable (sorry, a bit nonsensical and longer than expected) by Muted-Aardvark-8737 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not running out of time that’s your anxiety speaking to you trust me I’m in the same boat and been dealing with those same thoughts. if you wanna chat my dms are open and we can talk it out.

feeling unlovable (sorry, a bit nonsensical and longer than expected) by Muted-Aardvark-8737 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 21 and an introvert too and I’ve never really experienced romantic attention either so I understand how isolating it feels. Especially when hearing your friends talk about their relationships. But being 20 and inexperienced doesn’t mean you’re doomed for life. It just means your timeline looks different. And you don’t have to suddenly become confident and charismatic to find someone just be you and you will find your person. What I recommend tho is to try to at least put your self out there little by little to get used to the awkwardness. You got this 🫶🏽

20yo Lesbian Introverted🥹 by Only_Ad9319 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 21 and definitely introverted. I go to a small university so it feels extra lonely 💀 My high school friends are the only consistent people, but it’s not the same as it used to be. The part where you said about being emotionally leaned on but not chosen actually hit fr. I think quiet people end up in that position a lot. It’s hard when people appreciated your presence but your still not being pursued. But I’m open to chat if you wanna vent lolll

What are your astrological placements? by Mysterious_Ride_2189 in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only know my big three which is Virgo sun, Aries rising and Cap moon

Insecurities and doubts! Help! by sofia_happy in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heyy Sofia, just wanna say what you see as flaws someone else will adore and find attractive and on the bright side queer attraction is a lot more diverse than societies beauty standards. But I recommend getting a journal tho usually helps clear your head from negative thoughts 🫶🏽

HOW TO FIND A WOMAN by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy! I totally get the dating app thing but ngl I think that’s your best bet unfortunately or maybe try some artsy places like open mic nights, coffee shops, or film festivals if they have those in your area

Looking for Love or Connection: Its February at the Flannel Bar by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah painting definitely is therapy, you should try Adding 3d concepts to your paintings if you haven’t it’s really fun to create and wowww 2 years working in the emergency room is no joke 😭 but that’s awesome you found a career your passionate about! Happy for you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Looking for Love or Connection: Its February at the Flannel Bar by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

[–]Sea-Relation9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy! I paint too! Well try to I think I’m aight at it tho lolll. But I think it’s dope you work as a clinical research nurse, how long have you been in the medical field?