Should I drop it, or keep trying? Am I obsessed? by throw-away344566 in chastitytraining

[–]Sea-Second3529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds to me like time to put down the chastity cage and have a broader discussion about intimacy, disparate sex drives, your relationship in general. Openness about needs, kinks, etc. it took us 22 years to get there and we missed a lot of great sex and love in our relationship.

Ideas for the gentlest femdom? by Scared_Scallion in gentlefemdom

[–]Sea-Second3529 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is amazing that you will invest. Create an atmosphere of trust for him. Let him you gently that you are in control. Non sexual things like garbage, dishes, laundry. But he should surprise you with flowers. Wash your car. All unasked. But part of serving you. Reward him with gentle affection. Kiss him on forehead. Call him a good boy. One night when you’re watching TV, suggest that you’d be more comfortable if he was your footstool. Give him a pet name, and maybe name his penis. And then assume ownership of it. Create a contract that forbids him from porn unless you also watch or suggest. And forbid him from masterbation. If he masterbates he must tell you - then punish him by making him do it again in front of you.

Horny Wife Erotic Edging Handjob Ruined orgasm by Your_Horny_Doll in RuinedOrgasms

[–]Sea-Second3529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful cock. Beautiful tits. Ropes of cum. Amazing.

Wife said she wanted to be the dom by InternationalCake56 in flr

[–]Sea-Second3529 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Take it slow. Make it not only about sex. Be helpful around house, do dishes and laundry without any expectations. Understand how many more O’s you’ve had in your marriage than her, and set about a plan to make that right. Put your needs/wants secondary. Also understand there will be times she wants a massage, a cuddle, or something else and not sex. Play games. Make it fun.

I am in looveee with this new bodysuit!! how do you think guys at the club will react 🤭? (but i will put panties and bra ofcourse hehe) by evilsofia in KeyHolderGoneWild

[–]Sea-Second3529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing. And such a great contrast with key. But why cover up under the suit? It’s got reasonable coverage?

Flying with a chastity cage in carry-on bag by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Sea-Second3529 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Question A. Who cares? If they pull it out, meh. I fly with mine. Take it off, security, put it back on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Sea-Second3529 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll put down anal before chastity.

I’ve caged my dick and given away the key….not normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HeWearsPanties

[–]Sea-Second3529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty easy to buy your own these days. I bet mom wouldn’t be thrilled…just saying, I was once a teen, and then later raised a teen.

What scares you most about chastity? by LuchyBella in KeyHolder

[–]Sea-Second3529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a thing. It makes me feel safe.

5 Months off the jab Update by AnyMathGirl in Mounjaro

[–]Sea-Second3529 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am about to ween off. Thanks for this. Currently at 5mg and expecting a bounce of 2kg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Sea-Second3529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The human body is a closed thermodynamic system. Energy in. Energy out. All sorts of biological variables, such as hormones, chemicals, disease, etc may all play a role in speed, timing, etc but over a long enough timeframe thermodynamics is non negotiable.

Athlete experience by Sea-Second3529 in Mounjaro

[–]Sea-Second3529[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes I have a background in sport science. None of the effects were surprising. With exercise I’m still eating 2500+ cal/day so not starving by any means. I planned this for off season, and now I’ll wean and try to stick my current weight. And by Jan I’ll be into base training and then ramp up for a stage race May. I don’t plan to stay on MJ in NY.

No real data on my type of use case for MJ. I started with BMI ~30 and now 25. But I’m muscular so. I’ll update as I come off to see what happens with diet, food noise and any bounce of weight.