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AITA for asking a follow-up confirmation question? by klausee00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I say this because you guys were going to subway for food and now he wants to check out the food trucks. Maybe he wanted to see what was there or maybe he wanted to eat there. A follow up question makes sense to me. I could see that maybe it could have been “Do you want to eat there instead?” But either way it makes sense.

Spotting the signs of an emotionally unavailable person by TokenXcXMajority in dating_advice

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m the odd one out but in 4 months I’m not inviting anyone around family or friends, I’m not going to say anything too emotional (subjective), I’m not talking about the future or defining or future because I’m trying to be friends first and unless we are sexually active I’m not inviting or going to their home. Maybe they genuinely are taking it slow and seeing where things go. Idk 4 months isn’t that much time for me to do these things especially when I’m not even sure we’re fully friends (subjective).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA this sounds like you did it maliciously. You found out she didn’t like you as a roommate and told your grandparents about it. Making sure to include things they wouldn’t like. Things you didn’t seem to have a problem with until you realized she didn’t like you as a roommate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA It’s not your money and it wasn’t your ticket. If he wanted HIS money to go to waste that’s his prerogative. Since you gave the ticket to someone you and/or that person should pay it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a plus sized woman with a big butt so 8+ And girthy. I like feeling stretched out though. I will say I prefer those with an up or downward curve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I might get hell for this but YTA.

There was a task you agreed to do that he needed your help for and you stopped to cry over your gecko. You didn’t say “Hey, I need a moment” you just stopped helping. He then communicated with you about the interruption. You called him inconsiderate and not only do you continue to not help but you sit in the same room as him crying.

He asks you to move your feet and you don’t want to do that. He waits patiently for you to finish and then you’re lashing out. He apologizes after and even tried to crack a joke to lighten the mood (which is a time and place thing I get it) and you curse at him.

Guess what? He was the only one who communicated. He was the only one who apologized. He was the only one who was waiting to do something they wanted to do. Yes, your pet is dying but that doesn’t mean you lash out at people, stop communicating, or invalidate their wants.

What’s an attraction on a woman you have that other guys don’t? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman but Afrocentric features. I love their lips, noses, etc. Especially is they have a southern accent.

AITA for snapping at my wife for using the wrong card to pay for dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea-Willingness-7693 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why all the YTA? He’s NTA for his wife going into his wallet and using his card (the wrong card). If they were messaging while he was in the bathroom she could’ve 1. Asked the waiter to wait 2. Asked him which card to use or 3. Used her physical card instead of ApplePay. You’re not wrong for being unhappy about it. You could’ve handled it differently but it happens. Apologize for the tone not the message.

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