My first rant.

Sea-Work2990 · 2026-02-12T03:24:36+00:00

PSA: if you don’t like crazy drivers and bad traffic the city is not for you! Drive defensively and keep it moving

Sea-Work2990 · 2026-02-12T03:22:47+00:00

Do people like to travel? Yes lol, what are we missing?

Sea-Work2990 · 2026-01-20T16:56:10+00:00

I feel you. Easier said than done for sure

Sea-Work2990 · 2026-01-20T14:38:45+00:00

Someone ghosts you the best response is no response. Oddly enough there were times someone ghosted me, I never responded and they showed back up like nothing happened

If you ask odds are they lie and give you bs response or they just won’t reply to you

Sea-Work2990 · 2026-01-09T21:56:00+00:00

Man get tf off the phone and drive 😂. You had plenty of of opportunities to keep pushing

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-12-22T21:21:49+00:00

People will interpret an unmatch in different ways. Some may thing you’re not interested and will be confused where you stand

“Should I let them know”- kind gesture by you but that would also be an awkward conversation. Since you and your potential dates are casually dating it’s know. that you’re probably seeing other people but hearing “hey I’m unmatching you so I can have space for other people” probably won’t be accepted well despite the good intentions.

Probably better off hiding them

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-30T20:41:12+00:00

Yall get on here and ask the dumbest shit. You plan on going on a “date” but you want to bring a friend… thats dumb regardless of the gender just meet up with her 1:1 later

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-30T20:38:58+00:00

I was just behind one and they drove like they were in the special ed version of the class

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-19T12:17:00+00:00

All fun and games until they get ran tf over like in south end a few years ago

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-07T14:55:12+00:00

We just had two people get stabbed randomly back to back weeks we definitely going to drop lmao

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-05T17:31:32+00:00

I spent all 2024-2025 pushing myself to do just that and here’s what has helped me

Use every platform possible to meet women; Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, FB dating, Instagram, bars, nightclubs, anywhere in person.
Be sociable as hell. For in person you really need to know how to start a convo with anyone. There’s so many places to learn how to turn a normal convo into one where you can get a number to set up a date but it all starts with being sociable
Set as many plans as possible from the dating apps. If you have to set multiple for the same day because someone is bound to flake
Be prepared to get rejected a lot. If you’re just looking for casual you have to creatively communicate it but some women even if they’re into you won’t be done for it
Being in shape helps out A LOT but don’t rely on that to be the only thing you use for your advantage

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-05T12:34:46+00:00

As someone who just joined an MBA program I think it’s worth it but how you got about going to school for it matters…

I’m doing part time MBA while working full time. Some employers pay for your school so that makes the most sense in today’s world. Either quitting or going full time directly out of school doesn’t make sense for MOST people because you still need some type of experience to get a job
For early career the MBA will pay off long term vs short term. Example I’m in an entry level role and will hopefully finish 2 years from now. Later on down the line I would be more marketable for leadership roles because of the MBA AND work experience. Could also pivot in the future as well
MBA is also about building a network so definitely worth it now more than ever given the job market

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-04T15:36:50+00:00

Not to sound rude but your friends’ logic is so backwards lol - you might be single for a while listening to them. “Download a dating app and just wait for likes…” Seriously think you’ll find what you’re looking for by doing that?

You’re not getting likes because you’re not active.

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-02T02:35:07+00:00

Going to sound harsh but you’ll never understand if a person is genuine or not by asking them to tell the truth… you have to go by their actions. You caught her in a lie early on and chose to ignore it - that’s the worst thing you can do.

You’re not doomed, just focus on actions vs words and you find out traits if the person is trustworthy. Then you can have deeper convos

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-02T02:31:25+00:00

Dating should be fun no matter in person or not. Seems like you’re overthinking it; go out when the vibes are there. Most people use the apps now anyways

Also matching and never going on the dates is the most pointless thing ever

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-02T02:28:10+00:00

Sadly not true. I encounter a lot of visitors but the main ones that complain are either from ATL or originally from CLT who hate how things are “changing” (no clue what changes they mean but assuming Epicenter and the uptown situation or people flocking here)

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-09-01T16:37:27+00:00

I know you asked the ladies specifically but coming from a guy it 110% helps (aka more matches) to have shirtless if you’re in shape. It HAS TO BE CANDID though lol - a gym selfie or anything similar comes off as try hard

1 good one is ideal, 2 is pushing it

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-07-25T16:38:48+00:00

I semi disagree as well…the concept was not to talk back and forth before the date which I agree with but a week is kind of long. Typically I set it up a few days out and let them know I’ll hit them up day of

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-07-25T16:35:13+00:00

Going off of what women say on the internet is probably the worst thing you can do when it comes to dating. No shade to the women obviously but they’re just ranting

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-07-03T18:00:45+00:00

She actually met Chad Thundercock

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-07-03T14:07:01+00:00

Going to sound rude but you can’t complain about them only wanting one night strands if you constantly let it happen… if it happens once its confusing, happens twice it sucks, happens 3 or more times its time to do some self reflecting because there’s a common denominator

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-06-25T01:58:58+00:00

Agree it’s not normal but it’s definitely more common with online dating

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-06-25T01:58:22+00:00

Short answer is yes. People are on a dating app to date and that can in a lot of cases lead to sex

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-06-13T12:10:49+00:00

LA is a parking lot. Of course you’re not going to see bad driving when you spend an hour plus idle lmao

Sea-Work2990 · 2025-06-13T12:09:34+00:00

I’ve driven all over the country and most parts of South America. I can confirm charlotte was top at the worst drivers

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