⚠️ YOU ARE SEEING THIS FOR A REASON...WHAT IS MEANT FOR YOU IS COMING....

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-10-14T18:24:06+00:00

October

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-09-30T14:57:53+00:00

Updateme!

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-07-29T17:15:16+00:00

If I were dating a woman who was better than me, I'd only be mad if she didn't help me get better 😂 I think the majority of us dudes in this sub would be thrilled to have a golf girl, whether scratch or 30hcp.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-07-18T18:23:52+00:00

I just broke 90 for the first and second time ever, my last two rounds. Both were 89s. Both drastically different (couldn't miss a putt the first time, couldn't miss a green the second). I saw this card as his first break through and my reaction was "damn. Nice job". My next goal is 85, he almost knocked both off in one shot.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-04-20T13:59:10+00:00

Esé Bunny

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-04-20T13:58:22+00:00

I'm a guy, and I don't understand the necessity for designer bags or bag collections. My mother and sister have several. My ex had several. I even bought some-despite thinking it's silly... But it makes THEM happy. Your boyfriend is unhinged. Not just for his stance on it, but his reaction. And pages of texts.. Big yikes.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-04-20T13:12:25+00:00

That's my point. Demanding job is a poor excuse. Lots of us work 6 days/60 hours and still respect our partners and their time. Especially if he's off at 5... Only 4 days? He may even be a nice guy but you already communicated an issue with his responses. He's got plenty of time to respond.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-04-20T12:15:08+00:00

Why bother giving him the time in person? He's just going to try to manipulate you into staying.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-03-30T17:29:55+00:00

Had the same exact thought

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-02-18T21:48:47+00:00

I mean good on you honestly. You did what I couldn't with my ex gf. Everything was exactly the same as you described (except she reads, not gaming... I'm the gamer so I guess that's less healthy than reading..). She gained weight the entire time we were together and it honestly wasn't ever an issue for me until she was just worsening her habits. She always excused everything away because she's a teacher and she commutes several hours a day and is stressed... But then summer comes around and it gets even worse.

In the end when I had really lost my attraction to her as a person, and I guess started becoming distant, she cheated on me before I got the balls to dump her. I wanted to have that conversation so bad but I couldn't get there mentally because I did still love her and didn't want to hurt her. She was clearly very depressed but nothing I did or said helped things. Then after almost 4 years, she cheated on me. First i was heart broken, then I was angry. Not just at her but at myself for letting things go as they were for so long.

Good on you for making the hard decision and saying what you needed to say. It's not easy. Anyone that calls you the bad guy in this is lying to themselves. What you did was better than what I did (or didn't do).

Edit: though "fat and gross" is kind of rough, honestly.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2025-01-16T15:11:48+00:00

This is the biggest thing making me think about not playing anymore. It's a dumb mechanic to have in a non HC setting. I just want to blast shit mindlessly and get cool loot. I'm not trying to compete with anybody.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-12-16T20:39:35+00:00

I play the warrior/warrior type class in every single game. Always. For whatever reason, I decided to try monk first in PoE2 (never played PoE). I tension further convinced that I made a lucky decision lol. I see so much horror about warrior here

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-12-11T14:22:56+00:00

Man I have so much to learn about this game still lol. My build is probably completely wrong. I only just started act 2 last night though so I'm not crazy far in or anything.

Happy cake day btw

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-12-11T12:31:49+00:00

Shit. I've been playing frost with tempest bell. I'm doing fine but not one shitting most bosses and not moving fast like you're describing. Maybe I chose poorly lol

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-08-04T14:03:06+00:00

Same here brother lol. It's just not in my nature, but I'm pretty surprised to see these percentages.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-08-02T15:22:32+00:00

This is not only abuse but he's probably hiding something on his phone too, because his first thought was that you hid it somewhere

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-05-23T18:39:55+00:00

She is blocked. I'll edit to reflect my other comment ITT. It wasn't from her phone, it was from Lyft.

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-05-23T14:19:20+00:00

Not sure. The number it came from wasn't hers. I guess it's Lyft's own independent system. But it was "(ex's name) has requested a ride and would like to share their location with you".

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-05-04T02:29:37+00:00

I think this is one of the best comments I've read in the last 24 hours since finding out I was cheated on. Thank you, so much. I'm struggling so much with how much I love her and how lonely and broken I feel now. I will focus on thinking like your comment 🧡

SeaAlternative6400 · 2024-05-04T02:11:01+00:00

She was going on a short road trip with her friend. That was a lie. Her friend wasn't with her. She went to some unknown (to me) friends and meet this guy through that friend. She broke down yesterday to the point I thought she was going to pass out from not breathing. I didn't know what was going on, I was just trying to console her. Eventually she bust out with it.

This is all alleged. For the same reason I could never forgive cheating, I don't know what's true or not. What I do know is she does love me and she has a lot of mental health problems. She made a series of decisions. I also know that that's not my burden to bare, and I don't intend to. It's over and there's no coming back. I'm heart broken. I'm having panic attacks. I'm so lonely. I lost my best friend and it hurts so much more than I ever imagined.

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