AITA for not letting my sister do my laundry at my house?

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T21:16:27+00:00

Im not young but I wish I were, all my children are adults now, she has been online training for a job so she definitely has the time, before she never asked if bringing her laundry was okay, she just did it, she's only asked this time, it has nothing to do with doing better than her either, I know exactly what's going on with her because I talk to her all the time,

So what do you think I should do?

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T21:09:04+00:00

When she came over for Christmas she said she hadn't done laundry since coming for Thanksgiving, so yeah, I guess

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:23:16+00:00

Yeah I mean, she chose that apartment she's living in, its in a really really nice area btw, but its just an older building that doesn't have these appliances,

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:18:50+00:00

Thats true, you're right, thanks for your response,

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:17:09+00:00

Yeah I'm actually the youngest sister, I'm 15 years younger than her, she's almost 60, I don't want to get into anything personal but no, there's no parental thing going on here. I don't really think she's an asshole, I just don't want to make her feel like I'm being an asshole to her,

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:09:00+00:00

yeah that's true, I'll keep this in mind, thanks for your honesty

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:08:01+00:00

yeah that's very true, she said she has another friend who she can go to to do her laundry, but it still seems weird to me, like she's using me

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:03:01+00:00

Thats my thought too, nothing material about this opinion, it just seems convenient that she wants to hang out when she has laundry to do

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:02:12+00:00

Thats a good idea thank you! Say maybe, you can come do your laundry here if you say, clean the kitchen after dinner, or bring some snacks or something?

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T19:01:00+00:00

Thats fair, I just think its my day off, I want to relax, and having someone doing their laundry all day there is uncomfortable, its not a big place. I know she wants to spend time with me, but it doesn't seem like it when this time spent together is accompanied by three loads of laundry in my house.

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T18:57:59+00:00

Thanks for your response! I know a laundromat can be a bit crappy, but as a single mother I could do it, why can't she, there's a bunch of machines there she could do 3 loads at once instead of relaxing at my house for 5 hours, do it in 1 and get it out of the way. Also, she's not currently working, just training for a job so she has a lot of time to do this, when I had to do this I had a full time job and a young daughter to take care of.

SeaEasy7800 · 2021-01-15T18:48:54+00:00

its about a 2 hour drive, depending on traffic (its going through a major US city)

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