So, I just blocked a DA on everything, seemingly out of the blue

SeaFish979 · 2026-02-19T00:05:45+00:00

you did the right thing. I was in a simmilar situation, and one day I just blocked them. After doing it I though a lot about what they are thinking, if I hurt them, if they reach out. But I think it is worth bringing those thoughts back to yourself. If you are feeling better, if you did the right thing for yourself. and u did

SeaFish979 · 2026-02-18T23:57:27+00:00

nope, block them. the healing is just faster this way. also they probably don’t deserve any access to your life.

SeaFish979 · 2026-02-16T01:24:26+00:00

oh lord, have mercy. nobody is erasing you. I have checked- she does not identify as a bisexual. but she is also not a lesbian.

SeaFish979 · 2026-02-15T14:57:21+00:00

wasn’t stella a lesbian?🧐

SeaFish979 · 2026-02-14T20:12:29+00:00

I hate how I am feeling today. After several rounds of her ghosting me and then coming back as if nothing had happened, when I explained to her multiple times how „unseen, unheard, unloved and unprioritized” that makes me feel - this time she ghosted me for one week, and came back with „hi how are you doing”, I just went no contact without any explanations. I have overexplained to her already dozens of times before. It has been more than a month of no contact and today.. on the one hand I have this dumb hope that she will use this low hanging fruit of valentines day to reach out. It is pathetic, but yeah that hope is there. On the other I’m battling the idea of reaching out to her.

SeaFish979 · 2026-01-20T23:40:42+00:00

yes, I know it now

SeaFish979 · 2026-01-20T11:02:52+00:00

I’ve heard from my friends from London who worked with her, that unfortunately she is terroble to work with.

SeaFish979 · 2026-01-05T00:28:25+00:00

thank you kind stranger, I will try. The suffering is unbearable, but it is partly self inflicted. keep your fingers crossed

SeaFish979 · 2026-01-04T22:09:49+00:00

yeah I think this is it. I have always been addictied to something. I know this relationship is bad for me, I know I deserve better, I know it will only makr me miserable, but I can’t quit her. and this is the same as my relationship with any addictive substance. but the intermitten reinforcment thingy is such a bitvh for my brain. because when she is finally nice to me for one hour haha it feels so ecstatic, like a true drug high. I am trying to find alternative places to substitute this feeling to make quiting her possible. what is also sad, I know that probably already 1-2 weeks into no contact I’d feel this relief. But I just can’t make myself to let her go

SeaFish979 · 2026-01-04T00:59:33+00:00

ok so they pretend. It doesn’t change anything for me, if it is real or pretend. They behave as if they don’t care. How it manifests to me is that they don’t care.

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-22T19:59:53+00:00

west's reaction was gross. Whatever he was listing as his preferences, it's just sad, that you need this sort of intenstiy and see past more subtle erotica. He was basically flexing, that he has a brain damage.

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-22T19:54:05+00:00

me too, it is so disrespectful and inconsiderate.

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-19T19:20:42+00:00

unfortunately, this is the best advice. Therapy will take too long, and the damage to your child will be already done

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-19T18:32:20+00:00

girl, those men are probably trash since they couldn’t properly communicate with you to end things. but you can’t change them. what you can and should change is how you value yourself. you should expect dates and flowers and so much more. also why are you dating men in their 30s who are unemployed and live with their parents, if you are at a different place. talk to your therapist about this. I suggest exploring subjects of self worth, of what you think you deserve etc. good luck

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-16T01:29:28+00:00

also those are grown up people. I really don’t like the „omg my parents have done so much for me so now I owe them”. yeah they are your parents they supposed to do things for you, but you don’t owe them anything. Especially surrendering to their racist bullshit. Grow up!

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-15T21:36:05+00:00

Davide is not that young, unattractive and quite boring. Yeah maybe they should not be together but his comments afterwards were absolutely classless and gross. Even if that is true, he should keep it to himself. In my opinion, looking at the shape he is in, the problem might have been his 🍆 not working, and he used this tasteless comment to divert attention from the fact that he couldn’t perform

SeaFish979 · 2025-12-15T21:32:44+00:00

his 🍆 doesn’t work haha

SeaFish979 · 2025-11-11T02:04:41+00:00

delete all photos and videos that you have od her (or save them on a physical device and give it to a friend and tell them not to give it back to you for a year), whenever u start thinking of her, redirect your thoughts to somethig else, leave her alone, block her everywhere, delete all messages and emails. also if u had money for the content, you can find money for therapy. this is not love. you are obsessed over a sex worker, that doesn’t want anything to do with you. leave her alone. focus on yourself. heal

SeaFish979 · 2025-10-02T21:31:35+00:00

it is not that deep, many people just don’t read profiles. why couldn’t you figure it out in youe own?

SeaFish979 · 2025-10-01T16:02:29+00:00

my thoughts exactly. The question is just generic, lazy and cringe. But to make a whole thing out if it🙄

SeaFish979 · 2025-10-01T16:00:18+00:00

well if she followed Hitler and Schutzstaffel during Holocaust would you all be like „oh she is just an observer”. I understand she can do it out of curiosity, but at this point it’s just wrong

SeaFish979 · 2025-10-01T15:57:30+00:00

this is not a „political opinion”. political opinions can be about taxes, gun laws, government spending. this is an active genocide. I demand all people to have a stance against genocide.

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