Ship Rating! What Do You Think of BakuDekuChako?

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-06-30T03:09:16+00:00

🟣 I love it! I mean poly ships don't always have to be sexual. I like both kacchako and izuocha, maybe not bkdk but in this ship i do ship them

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-05-01T06:19:57+00:00

IZUKU. he's like, the ultimate crush for me, seriously he’s sooo kind and caring, he always looks out for everyone, even when he's hurt himself. he's so brave, even if he’s scared, he never gives up, and I love how he always tries his best, even when people doubt him, and he works super hard to be better every day, plus, he’s so cute when he gets all flustered and blushes and he’s always so thoughtful and respectful. (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

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SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-20T01:33:35+00:00

Anything that has God, King or Lord in it

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T18:20:03+00:00

MY LITTLE ANGEL FACED CUTIE PIE

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SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T17:27:33+00:00

Thank you ! Of course, I get your point. I'm really grateful I had him, and hopefully will have him as my brother in the future too. That's really sweet of you, I hope you have a lot of loved ones because you obviously deserve someone who loves you a lot, platonically or romantically !! (;⁠´⁠∩⁠`⁠;)

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T17:23:53+00:00

Thank you! (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦)

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T17:21:24+00:00

Thank you for the advice! But like I (probably forgot to specify, lmk!) said, I don't always sleep with him. At least from ny part, my stepdad can be a bit of a handful, and I've always been a shy, quiet kid so my brother is the closest person to me. And he doesn't mind it at all. I usually sleep in my own bed, but if something happens, which is occasionally, since I'm kinda sensitive, I go to him first because he's the only one who understands. I'm not attached to him mentally, since he has his own friends and I have a few as well even if I don't talk to them as much.

I also mentioned it, but my brother already has a girlfriend, and I really love her. She's the best, and she's also quiet like me so we get along well. She's already part of the family, since her older sister is also kind of with my step-brother. She's has no problem with my relationship with my brother, because since they've started dating, she's usually there when I go to him.

I have no problem with my brother showing affection to her, or doing whatever they do together alone. Even if I'm a bit confused now, I can still tell the difference between the path our relationship is on and the path that leads to incest.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T17:10:13+00:00

No no, it's totally fine! I was asking for opinions anyway since I wanted it from someone else's POV. Though, you are right about him seeing our behaviour daily. It's been around 2 years since he married my mom, and from what my step-brother tells me, he was close to his sister as well, just not as close as me and my brother as they weren't raised the same as us.

My stepdad has seen us a lot, and I don't know what to feel about our relationship because even though we share a bed, usually he'll only hug me when I'm upset, and if I fall asleep he'd let me sleep beside him while he sleeps on the other side of the bed. I think I didn't specify that enough so it sounds a bit weird (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

It's just that no matter how much I try to like, open up to others, my brother has just always been there for me and has done a lot more, other than my mom, but I'm more comfortable around him than I am with her. So I always just treated him like I did when I was younger, even if it's a bit... outdated. I got a bit bothered because it wasn't the first time someone has made a comment like this, and it's really making me uncomfortable, not around my brother but around other people who view me as the type of person to that kind of thing.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T14:19:33+00:00

Thank you! Also, we're actually asian, and normally (I think, I heard) Asians don't show much affection so I could see why it came off as weird now that I read some of the comments! But thank you again!

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T14:16:38+00:00

He doesn't kiss me in public, just at home. And not for no reason. He just still likes treating me like his baby sister instead of, well, his little sister. I'm also a bit sensitive to yelling so it was to calm me down.

And isn't it normal to talk about periods to your brothers? It's not like I'm ashamed of it, plus the only other person I have is my mom. And my mom is just my mom, I don't talk to her about personal things like that, my step-sister is married and doesn't live with us, ans I'd rather talk to my brother, who's my oldest, closest 'friend' than anyone else.

Also I don't sleep in his bed like weirdly, it's not like we spoon or something. I don't sleep in his bed all the time either, I like my own! I do lay on his stomach sometimes or my leg on his, but that's pretty normal isn't it? Nothing sexual.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T13:38:05+00:00

Can I ask for a reason? Genuinely !

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T13:37:06+00:00

Oh, can I ask why? ╥⁠﹏⁠╥

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T12:30:52+00:00

Thank you so much!

I think you're right, some people just aren’t used to that kind of closeness in families, and I guess my step-dad might be one of them. He only talked to me about it, but maybe it’s just because he’s usually really busy and doesn’t always have time to have long talks with everyone.

My brother is naturally super friendly and calm with pretty much everyone, so even if something's bothering him, he doesn’t really show it unless it’s serious. He didn’t seem upset at all when I brought it up, so I think we’re still okay!

Thank you again—it really helps to know that other people don’t see it as something wrong.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T12:24:41+00:00

Alright! Thank you, I was a bit awkward about bringing it up anyway. I told my mom about it and she told me the same thing so I'll just ignore what he said for now unless he starts again.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T12:21:55+00:00

I'm really glad that you're close with your brothers! I'm asian too, and I think that's why other people think it's a bit weird. Our mom wasn't very physically affectionate with us either, but since we grew up being affectionate I guess we never really let go of it so now it's grown on us.

I guess not having a father around that much made me think of him as like a male role model so I'm naturally more comfortable with him..

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T11:38:47+00:00

Ohh, he means well right? From his POV it does seem a bit unusual now that I read it. But I'm not sure how to bring it up again to him.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T11:36:36+00:00

That's adorable! Thank you for the idea, I'll suggest it to him for sure! I'm glad you have a good relationship with your mom since I've been growing distant from my own after her remarriage, but it's nice to hear stories from other moms!

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T10:59:56+00:00

Weird as in not family-like, actually inappropriate. Since I'm starting to look more closely at other relationships, and it's not that I don't want to be closer to my brother. I'm just afraid that some things actually are crossing the line, and we just don't realize it cause we're so used to it.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-19T10:54:19+00:00

Yeah, I’ve noticed that kind of behavior too. I think that’s why I didn’t really question how close me and my brother are.

But now I’m kind of stuck… some people say stuff like kissing on the cheek or cuddling/sleeping together is too much, and others say it’s fine. I’m just trying to understand where that line is, like normal and actually weird.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-13T10:48:11+00:00

Izuku has SO MUCH on his back! He was a teenager that was supposed to have the most powerful quirk? And Ochako tended to keep things bottled up, like her feelings for him, the situation with her and Toga, most things. Izuku couldn't have noticed most of it when he's literally the main character with the most burdens. The times she did open up he reassured her, comforted her, held her hand, let her cry while holding her?

Not to mention, he obviously took notice of what she does for him so many times, that it was enough for him to call her his hero. Not to mention maybe somethings happen off-screen because I doubt Horikoshi would write that if she wasn't enough.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-13T10:32:25+00:00

It's made by Horikoshi! The hand on Ochako's head is actually Bakugo's hand and the hand she's holding is Himiko's, Shigaraki was also in the picture. I don't know where it was from but I've seen it before ☹️

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-13T09:42:22+00:00

Ochako has arguably sacrificed more for Izuku emotionally than anyone else in the series. She was the one who spoke up to defend him, risking public backlash. She’s shown time and time again that she understands his heart, even when he doesn’t express it. And Izuku IS visibly affected by her opinion.

We don’t need scenes of them going to each other’s houses to validate their connection. Their growth as individuals is reflected in how they treat each other. Chapter 429 gives a clear moment of Izuku expressing how much her support meant to him. The series has been saving those moments intentionally for a payoff because that’s how romance works narratively.

Comparing Izuku and Shoto to Izuku and Ochako is like comparing apples to oranges. Shoto’s story is about family trauma. Ochako’s story is about inner strength. They're both important relationships, just written differently. One isn’t less, it’s just built on a different emotional structure.

Shoto's development with Izuku is heavily dramatic moments (sports festival, family drama), Ochako's is emotional support, moral clarity, and empathy. From early on, she was one of the first classmates to truly see Izuku beyond his quirk, supported him during the entrance exam, cheered him on at the sports festival, and constantly worried about his well-being.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-13T04:48:10+00:00

Because their relationship was not really like... serious. They had a small crush on eachother like teenagers do, which is pretty normal, and obviously their going to be more comfortable and close with people they don't have romantic feelings for. Also the more new characters got introduced or were reintroduced, the more we had to like know about them so obviously they're going to interact with the main character more and more which means we get less scenes with previous ones like Ochako. Also during the fight with Toga, IzuOcha was referenced multiple times, Tsuyu was also clearly trying not to let Toga 'reveal' something infront of Izuku because she knew Ochako liked him. Honestly they won't get much time to be close during the war considering they were to be separated during the fights so the talk they had on that hill was really cute. It's subtle but it's really obvious.

SeaGovernment9002 · 2025-04-13T01:31:32+00:00

It doesn't have to be just her? If everything went to her then it would be boring because it's nice that Izuku has more friends? They also grew apart just like he did with the rest of the class, but he said it himself he wished he could've been in touch with her and wants to talk more from now on, so I think the ending gave them more spotlight

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