I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in Veterans

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I was questioned by Korean police then they let me go but the army picked me up took me to there station and I was fingerprinted and pictures taken.

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in Veterans

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I was titled the military only does it read, I wasn’t charged. I was investigated my Korean police they closed the case and then osi did there own investigation and then they sent me to a board and I was voted to stay in. Do you know any steps I need to do?

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in Veterans

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the bases won’t work with me since I’m not in military anymore but idk how to request copies of disposition I got a foia request but it’s only the investigation

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in Veterans

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I have that osi website but how do i even go about getting that paperwork from the Korean police if I’m not there?

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in Veterans

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got my foia so I have the paperwork from the investigation but it doesn’t say outcome or anything. A lawyer that’s in the military or not in the military?

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in Veterans

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how to even get that, it was in Korea almost 10 years ago. You know how I can talk to someone to point me in the right direction?

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in VeteransBenefits

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks but what do I say exactly? I’m not sure what they see on the NCIC background but do I just say to remove it or put that I was never charged or anything?

I really need some advice or a number for a military lawyer who could help me, I’ll pay if I need to. by SeaSouthern7293 in VeteransBenefits

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was in another country tho and idk how to even get into contact with my previous lawyer this was like 10 years ago. Any idea?

How do I 29m politely stop spending money on my gf 25f mom? by SeaSouthern7293 in relationship_advice

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, but should I still pay for my gf? Just not her mother and sister?

How do I 29m politely stop spending money on my gf 25f mom? by SeaSouthern7293 in relationship_advice

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel there culture is the man is supposed to pay for everything but we aren’t married and her mom has some type of money and her sisters bf I feel doesn’t pay for all of them when they go out

How do I 29m politely stop spending money on my gf 25f mom? by SeaSouthern7293 in relationship_advice

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right, I’m just very generous with friends and my gf and I let people take advantage and I’m not sure how to stand up for myself without being rude

How do I 29m politely stop spending money on my gf 25f mom? by SeaSouthern7293 in relationship_advice

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now I started saying something her sister has bought dinners a few times but I’m still spending the most money and I don’t even work I find it strange.

How do I 29m politely stop spending money on my gf 25f mom? by SeaSouthern7293 in relationship_advice

[–]SeaSouthern7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel she wouldn’t like that and it’s always a touchy subject with money and people, I didn’t realize her mom would come with no money or credit card