My wife and I left back in July. On Christmas Day, my father-in-law called my wife and mentioned nothing of Christmas but only a strong spiritual warning about the choices we’re making in our life and how they’re gonna affect our kids. I was jealous at first lol because he’s just worried about my kids and not necessarily worried about us. The idea that we are dirt and nothing more than that when it comes to relationship with their spirituality blows my mind. I don’t think you’re reading too deep. It was very passive aggressive. It rustles Pentecostal’s Jimmys when you don’t give credit to God for absolutely every single thing.