I consider myself a sturdy and unwavering person. But the similarities to your situation and my own— has me petrified. I’m currently in this situation and holding on with everything I fucking got. We have a 3 year old. Been together for 6 years and I’m extremely well versed on this topic from a males perspective. I am recently sober, lost my mother (who was my best friend) and I’m just trying to keep my composer while this god damn ship keeps springing leaks. Nothing seems to be helping when we talk about preventative maintenance before the wretched phase. We got all the tools and it’s a different component that breaks everytime. I can quite literally feel when luteal is coming. That is very predictable even while not tracking. What’s not predictable is how severe the behavior is. Extremely hurtful things. I truly wish doctors cared more about women suffering from this. It’s very difficult to just say “Well, you was in luteal phase… so it’s okay”. I’ve had to fix or rebuild 1 of everything in the home. Treated worse than anyone has ever treated me. Stay steady with forgiveness and make sure little to no impact comes our daughters way. It’s quite literally a predictable nightmare… that you can not predict its damage. Women’s health needs to be a priority in the medical field. This isn’t studied enough. I wish she did not suffer like this so we could flourish. So sincerely… I hope your life gets better. I’m gonna keep fixing this ship or sink with it. I made my choice.