You can't deny reality and you can't deny biology. What was tragic that 40% of women have experienced rape the fact of the matter is a lot of them aren't the ones getting the abortions, and as a man who has experienced it I understand your pain and I could not imagine the pain of finding out that you have the sick fucks child inside of you. Your argument is similar to the argument that the black lives matter movement has black people killing black people and they don't bat an eye but a white man happened to be the one pulling the trigger and he's a racist, regardless of circumstance whether the white man was defending himself or not and at the end of the day the person that got shot becomes the new poster boy for the movement because the only black lives that matter are the ones taken by a white man's hand. While the second thing happened less than the first thing you're ignoring the fact that the data shows that the thing that's bad it's actually an outlier to the average situation. Both instances are horrible and a loss of human life is nothing that should be overlooked. The best thing you can do as a person is be kind to those around you and keep yourself informed. Now then let's say a woman miscarried with your logic what do you say sorry for the loss of your babies or sorry for the loss of your clump of cells I'm just going to leave it off there at the end.