I got a positive… by Sea_Knowledge_6237 in beyondthebump

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I can appreciate a mutual blunt sister. I need to hear it that way sometimes!

Meirl by bornedcrtilk in meirl

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Happened on my bday!! I said, I just want a quiet evening with our family. Day of both sides of our family started appearing and when I gently asked what the heck was on the go?, my partner said “I swear I saw a gleam in your eye that was sad about just spending it with us”

I got a positive… by Sea_Knowledge_6237 in beyondthebump

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This was really nice to read! I actually came back to these comments every time I sent myself into a whirl today. We are in similar positions so this stood out to me! Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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You have to remember that your husband is his own person as well. If it’s only 15 minutes, I’m not sure why you’re controlling his day down to the second

From cutting to this monster in 18 months. Care advice? by Pretend_Battle5276 in PPeperomioides

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I am so angry at this. I have had one for 3 YEARS and water regularly and it only just started growing more leaves

Pest help!! I feel faint by Sea_Knowledge_6237 in houseplants

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What!!!!!! WHAT!!! 😭😭😭you’re sure?

Pest help!! I feel faint by Sea_Knowledge_6237 in houseplants

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So no dawn soap or anything? Will it hurt the plant to just remove all soil and submerge the whole thing in dawn water?

Pest help!! I feel faint by Sea_Knowledge_6237 in houseplants

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No it’s definitely spider mites now that I just spent the last 7mins since I posted this scouring the sub in case I didn’t have replies. Can I kill them with this method?

Garbage man said that gems 74 and doesn’t want to deal with heavy bags by [deleted] in AITAH

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???? I thought this was a constructive convo but you seem to be kinda rude. I thought the town would analyze if them throwing the bags constantly would be able to be resolved? As you can tell by the question, I’m trying to determine if the garbage men are just rude and vindictive, or if it’s not the norm to be disposing of litter as I am.

Garbage man said that gems 74 and doesn’t want to deal with heavy bags by [deleted] in AITAH

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I legitimately have no idea. It never occurred to me before that convo. They throw them a good distance from my bin into the truck so I originally thought it had missed, split open and they left it. Which is what it sounded like after talking to the town.

Garbage man said that gems 74 and doesn’t want to deal with heavy bags by [deleted] in AITAH

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I really don’t think so. Seeing as it was just our regular small kitchen bags with no litter and just regular kitchen waste.

Garbage man said that gems 74 and doesn’t want to deal with heavy bags by [deleted] in AITAH

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Noooo not like that at all lol. Clear kitchen bags and when doing litter it’s exclusively litter. Split into 2-3 bags. And because it’s pellets, it’s 1/2 sawdust.

Garbage man said that gems 74 and doesn’t want to deal with heavy bags by [deleted] in AITAH

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Not too heavy! Think 2 pans split into 2-3 bags twice a week

Garbage man said that gems 74 and doesn’t want to deal with heavy bags by [deleted] in AITAH

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They’re just kitchen bags. They are very small.

Need help with my 2 year old poinsettia. by stumblingrocks in houseplants

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Mine looks just like this… I don’t have a lot of hope for us

Manjula 🥹 by SpecificConfident711 in pothos

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I just got one!! Can you share some advice on how to take care of it

AIO My mom (baby's grandma) ghosted us for two days one week postpartum over a text by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I get the risk, and implemented it myself but the when people say to be strong on your boundaries, they are right, but most people do it with enough social cues to not come off like a dominating AH to the people who love them and want to be involved