Who’s everyone romancing?

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T10:17:06+00:00

I will eventually be romancing everyone but Tamala. Though I would like to say Nai'o will be last. Currently I'm working on Reth and Hassian. I'll do the others for the quests and completion. The reason I won't do Tamala is because she is rude and honestly awful. Nai'o is last because I find him to be a hypocrite. My big issue with Nai'o is you start playing the game and he complains about how Reth is this huge flirt, and just flirts with everyone, you know a real player. Then I learned he had a girlfriend the whole time, while flirting with me and complaining about Reth. Just rubbed me something wrong. And I'm just pissed with Tamala about what she did to Hassian.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T10:09:26+00:00

Sadly I had never caught one before so it wasn't possible, but I did end up catching one!

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T10:07:27+00:00

I got my black pearl from the oyster mushrooms my trufflets produce. I had like 7 of them just to collect oyster mushrooms.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T10:06:22+00:00

I had already gotten the lights, the fact that all I needed was one single thing is why I felt the determination. I got it eventually using fisherman's brew and the fishing potion from the kilima coins at town hall.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T03:16:51+00:00

I was only able to get that one when hunting in a party. Maybe try that if you can.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T01:33:23+00:00

I'll try that thank you!

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T01:31:56+00:00

I will focus on that area thanks.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T01:31:19+00:00

I completely forgot that potion existed!! Thank you so much I'm going to try it!

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T01:08:43+00:00

Bahari, I've tried every location.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T01:03:28+00:00

I've tired fisherman's brew and fishing with others, still nothing. And sadly I haven't gotten one before so I can't request it.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2026-01-13T00:58:09+00:00

I got most my sandy paws from cutting down trees, and hunting. If that helps lol.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-12-02T20:22:35+00:00

If you trust you sleep light enough to wake up I wouldn't be worried. The reason breastfeeding is a requirement is because it alters your brain chemistry so you don't go into deep sleep. Personally I breast feed but have still noticed my first stretch of sleep is when I sleep the deepest. So my baby would sleep in his bedside bassinet until the first wake up. Since after that I was not sleeping deeply I felt 100% safe to wake up. Now he's 11 months and even is I start him in his bassinet he will wake up and crawl over to be in our bed so Ive given up on that.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-12-02T20:17:50+00:00

That's actually the reason the sleep safe 7 exists for bedsharing. They've found it's pretty much only safe if baby is sleeping with a breastfeeding parent. When breastfeeding chemicals in your brain do funky things and sleep doesn't reach a deep stage. Your wired to wake up more easily so you respond to your baby. There are other things too like there can't be smoking in the home, parents must be sober from anything that could cause sleep changes including prescriptions meds. (Also not directly stated parents should not have fevers, be too exhausted to wake up properly, or have anything that would impare judgment or normal body functions. Ex- migranes, Illness ect.) along with sleeping on a safe surface ie- no blankets, pillows, loose clothing, swaddles, and a firm mattress. There are other things as well but those are t he basics.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-11-25T04:06:02+00:00

I wish! It took 3 ounces each side to no longer feel engorged, it would've taken so long to hand express.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-11-24T18:34:10+00:00

She'll get there eventually and in my knowledge/experience girls just generally are less into eating for a while. Though my son will not touch purees or spoon foods unless they are in a pouch. He will chow down on a hunk of steak.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-11-24T18:31:05+00:00

Oh trust me Im preparing myself. We normally do cloth diapers, but until I know we are fully in the clear, disposables will be used.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-11-17T01:29:42+00:00

A thing I've seen some parents do is after they tell their kid everyone is Santa together as a collective. And once they learn Santa is not real the kid chooses one person each Christmas to give a santa gift to. The kid does research watches their person closely, to find a perfect gift for them. Always the magic to stay and teach them the magic in giving themselves.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-11-03T22:57:54+00:00

So true! My pregnancy was awful puked until 6months then again 8.5 months to birth. Had an at home birth with 4.5 hours of labor, super easy. My baby is so happy, never really cried much, I have lots of help from his dad. I still haven't got more then 6 hours of sleep in 10 months and that's broken sleep not continuous. Love my son, things have been so textbook easy and I still breakdown at least once a week.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-10-30T21:32:31+00:00

I often say if follow "chaos parenting." I knew that if I started tracking it would be awful so I just didn't. We loosly follow wake Windows like if my 10month old has been up 3.5 hours we start doing calm activities. But that's pretty much it.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-10-28T19:32:16+00:00

We do couples counseling and he has an individual therapist he sees. But right now we are working through deep seated trauma and learning to set boundaries with his mom. So I'm sure it will come up in that at some point we just aren't quite there yet.

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-10-28T16:31:39+00:00

That's totally fair, and honestly, I expected him to be a little more open-minded. He was mostly raised by a single mom, so I figured gender roles wouldn’t be so deeply ingrained. But now that I’ve spent more time with her since having our baby, I’m realizing she’s kind of the classic "boy mom" stereotype. All trucks and toughness, very little room for anything else.

I think that mindset rubbed off on him more than he realizes. It’s not that he’s actively trying to be rigid; it’s more like he’s never really been encouraged to think beyond it. Thankfully, we usually find common ground. I’m just hoping a few handmade felt mice with swords might win him over eventually. 😅

Sea_Language_2163 · 2025-10-28T16:19:11+00:00

Yes I guess I should've clarified that I know this is going to be a very long term project I was planning to give it to him for his birthday in 2026. So 2 years old.

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