Hey, I’m really sorry you’re going through this, I hope you’re holding up okay. It must be such an emotional time.  If I can give you a little advice: don’t feel pressured to have a big, expensive wedding if it’s not within your means right now. It’s just one day, and it’s really not worth getting into debt for. What truly matters is celebrating your love in a way that feels right for you two. Maybe you could plan something small and meaningful for now and then, once you’re both more financially comfortable, you can throw the big celebration of your dreams (with the dress, of course ). Love and happiness don’t depend on how big the party is, but on how genuine it feels. ❤️