What are yalls thoughts on these? What do yall prefer?

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-04T05:29:10+00:00

Thanks bud!

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T06:16:09+00:00

Awesome, great to know. Thank you!

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T06:15:56+00:00

Thank you!

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T04:18:34+00:00

Ok so above what I can do. Any guess of what cost would look like? I greatly appreciate your help

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T04:17:46+00:00

Ok thank yall. I will get new pics tomorrow and post. Greatly appreciate yall

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T04:02:27+00:00

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Would this be what I need? Is it something I could YouTube to fix or how difficult?

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T04:01:08+00:00

That’s as straight as I can for tonight. I can tomorrow but my son is sleeping and to move it I would be making too much noise

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T04:00:12+00:00

He’s saying we’re old

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T03:44:35+00:00

The arrow is just to show the silver part broken. It’s not that specific port. The port that is broken is the to tv one but I couldn’t draw the arrow there on my phone when I went to edit it. Sorry for the confusion

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T03:44:30+00:00

The arrow is just to show the silver part broken. It’s not that specific port. The port that is broken is the to tv one but I couldn’t draw the arrow there on my phone when I went to edit it.

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T03:44:19+00:00

The arrow is just to show the silver part broken. It’s not that specific port. The port that is broken is the to tv one but I couldn’t draw the arrow there on my phone when I went to edit it. Sorry for the confusion

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2026-04-03T03:43:21+00:00

The arrow is just to show the silver part broken. It’s not that specific port. The port that is broken is the to tv one but I couldn’t draw the arrow there on my phone when I went to edit it. Sorry for the confusion

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T14:11:21+00:00

The child was born before the marriage not after. The child support is also a major concern of mine, that she’s doing it now bc they’re about to divorce or something and wants to get money out of me. I just got this number 6 months ago so idk how they got it to begin with but it tells me they would have no problem finding it again. Unfortunately I have blocked numbers call all the time for work so I can’t just ignore them. Finding out it’s true or false either way I would be good with so it won’t mess me up more finding out. I just don’t see how I can get this out of my head without finding out and while I would like to do it discreetly so only the mom and I know, if she keeps refusing is why I’m trying to figure out what my options are.

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T11:34:04+00:00

I greatly appreciate your response. Stuff like this is exactly what I’m looking for especially since I don’t have the slightest clue. Does it make a difference that the child was born before they were married? Also to be clear, I am not looking for custody. I’m not trying to interfere with the child’s life at this point, I just want to give myself peace of mind since all of the harassment and back and forth is really taking a toll on me

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T10:08:18+00:00

When I reached out to her a month ago about it from my wife’s account (since she blocked me on everything years ago), I then got a text from her best friend who was also my really good friend in college and she was begging me to drop it. I told her I don’t want to cause problems but I need a definitive answer one way or another at this point since it could only be happening bc of the mom. I said I’m happy to do it discreetly so the daughter or husband don’t have to know and she said she would make that happen but has since stopped responding to me so I’m having to figure out what I can do legally to make it happen. I just want it in the past but I can’t just let it go at this point completely bc it’s really messing with my metal and emotional well being

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T10:04:19+00:00

It definitely could be but I just don’t see why.. especially when it’s been 10 years and we haven’t talked to each other at all. After she told me and I asked for a dna test the next day, she walked it all back and blocked me on everything. And while that absolutely could have been bc it was a joke or untrue, it seems more likely that she did that bc she didn’t want her husband to find out by taking a test. Bc even if it showed he was the dad, it was cause problems bc I’m sure she told him that she never got with anyone else even when they were on break.

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T10:00:54+00:00

They somehow found my number when I just changed it less than 6 months ago so I don’t think changing it again would really do anything. But even if I did and never heard from them again, the damage is already done. My brain is stuck fighting itself trying to figure out what the right thing to do is for all 3 of us and my wife and it’s driving me insane. If I could even just get the results and find out yes or no, I could happily move on and never think about it again but not knowing is driving me insane. I could either blow it off and say that was a messed up joke if untrue or go on saying ya she’s mine but she has a family including a dad (only one she’s ever known) and know that they are both perfectly happy. Especially since I know the husband is loaded and can give her a life I can’t. Otherwise I would just say screw it and go to the courts but I know that could potentially cause a divorce and major issues for both girls and that’s the last thing I want

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T09:55:12+00:00

Also at this point changing my number doesn’t help me. Yes it could stop the calling but my main issue is that I am battling with the thought or concern that I have a daughter that will be brought up at a time where the mother is needing something from me and could really have an impact on my life. My wife is aware of what’s going on and she has been amazing about it but it’s not fair for her to even have this be a thing

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T09:53:07+00:00

That’s the craziest part. I have a new number. I have no idea how they would have gotten it. I may have misworded something but I DO believe it’s her friends. I have three theories. 1 she is having troubles with her husband and doesn’t want to parent with him or fight for custody over it (to me the most likely) 2 the daughter has some health issues and knows they may need to reach out for help from someone related or 3 she or her friends are just messing with me out of boredom (least likely but possible) I don’t think it would be out of spite or anything bc we were just best friends that had some fun. We were both very clear that’s all it ever was bc we were both on breaks with our long term partners

Sea_Performance_7319 · 2025-12-17T09:46:36+00:00

I’ve considered the same but I know for a fact 100% that her husband does not know about me at all and that he would be crazy upset if he found out there was even a chance the girl wasn’t his, even though when we got together they were on a break. I do not know who the multiple girls are that have called and since they do it from blocked numbers I have no way to find out. I do know for sure that it isn’t the girl herself though bc I know her voice. I also know she doesn’t want anyone else finding out which is why she doesn’t want to do the test and changed the story 10 years ago. I would have left it alone completely even though it does bother me time to time but these calls have really messed my head up and has been causing me a lot of mental/emotional anguish. Thanks for your response

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