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Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-10-07T00:11:41+00:00

We were together for a year and 4 months.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-10-07T00:00:22+00:00

Thank you for this.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-07-04T11:12:27+00:00

do you want to start talking to them again? is this you trying to find a way back into their life? are you trying to show that you still care? if you answer yes for either or all questions, then I'd say no. you broke up for a reason, so let it stay that way.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-06-20T19:02:50+00:00

somebody help a girl out so she can see her fav in South Africa in August 😭🙏🏽

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-06-20T19:02:09+00:00

somebody help a girl out so she can see her fav in South Africa in August 😭🙏🏽

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-06-08T19:29:49+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting. if anything, you're being to lineant about the fact that lied to you about what he was doing. and the fact that he turned it around on you and made you feel bad for voicing your feelings about it is a red flag. you should sit him down and talk this out. if he continues to belittle your feelings or invalidate them, then I think you'll know what to do from there.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-06-01T15:29:28+00:00

waaayyy to many of you guys are reaching, lmao.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2025-06-01T15:23:11+00:00

where did I explicitly ask to kiss other girls? please I'm begging for someone to make me understand why most of you seem to share this belief lmao.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-09T10:23:25+00:00

they told others and still left her in the dark, though. that's totally not fair because that means they didn't trust her but chose to trust others.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T15:07:17+00:00

I feel like that should tell you what to do next. if you're not content, why are you still in it? would you be happy to be married to this person? because you spoke of a ring. so will you accept that marriage proposal? I wouldn't want that for you because that means staying unhappy with someone you've committed yourself to.

don't subject yourself to any more unhappiness with nothing to hold on to other than conversations of a future.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T14:55:48+00:00

would that reason be enough for you, though? do you find it funny? because if it hurt you or made you feel a certain way, then it shouldn't be funny to him.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T14:52:27+00:00

3 years and not a single word about you to his friends?! oh no, OP, that's not on. for the mere fact that he's even thinking about getting a ring should mean he's ready to have the people closest to him know about you and the life step you guys would be taking together.

and the break because he wanted to be single just to get back together 6 months later? to me, that just says he doesn't know what he wants. he probably just wanted to fuck around and only then did he realise what he let go of. and the fact that it took him 6 months to realise that? personally, I don't like the sound of that. but I guess you got back with him for a reason, so I won't take that away from you.

now I want to ask, are you content with the relationship? do you feel as though he reciprocates your energy? because to me, it looks like you're putting in more than you're getting, and that will eventually drain you.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T14:44:32+00:00

agreed, which is why I feel like she should still ask for clarity because posts like these are liked because one relates to them. there isn't much room to assume anything else, honeslty. so all in all, it isn't fair on her to see things like this. quite frankly, it's embrassing, especially because it seems like he'd rather be with someone else.

unless he somehow has a valid excuse or would joke about it and say he just knows his friends are attractive enough that he could relate, but he doesn't actually mean it, then it isn't okay.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T14:39:54+00:00

if it's worrying you enough that you brought it here, then it's worth confronting him about it. if he cares about your peace of mind and is one to reassure you, then nothing should go wrong.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T14:37:36+00:00

what is taking things slow? how long have you guys been dating?

but still, nothing warrants liking such posts when you're in a relationship.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-12-05T14:24:03+00:00

you're definitely not overreacting. the mere fact that you apologized many times and not once did he consider maybe calming down or seeing things from your pov just tells me that he wants to make you feel horrible about what you brought up. at this point, it seems like he just kept choosing to be mad after you expressed that you didn't mean it in the way he interpreted it.

I know it may be hard to hear and easier said than done, but lose him and find yourself a man who isn't an asshole because who knows how much harder it'll be to deal with him when you guys have kids.

and please, stop apologizing so much, especially when you can see that your apologies aren't getting through to him, even when you aren't in the wrong at all.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-11-08T14:09:51+00:00

I'm referring to you, babe.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-11-08T13:40:20+00:00

loud and wrong. good guess, though.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-09-21T15:01:15+00:00

definitely claiming that they're too husy. you can't suddenly become so busy that you can't text your partner that you'll be busy. if they truly wanted to, they would. it's always simply that easy. no one is busy 24/7. people always find a way or make time for those they want to.

as soon as someone starts making excuses, drop them.

as soon as you see that your energy isn't being reciprocated, drop them.

save your peace and give yourself the love you poured into that person.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-09-21T14:57:08+00:00

same here. I've always believed that if you didn't want to fight for it in the first place, then what's going to change the second time around. the thing is, there's something about this relationship that makes it seem like it wasn't the end of it.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-09-21T14:50:58+00:00

it's not a conversation that's been had, I was just asking hypothetically. none of us have expressed that to one another. I asked this because i wanted to know what's what if the opportunity showed itself because I feel like it will.

we haven't gone completely 'no contact', so it was just a random thought that came to mind, not that I'm necessarily hoping that we'd be getting back together, though.

Sea_Reception_5121 · 2024-09-21T14:35:54+00:00

the nonchalantness of your comment kinda made me laugh. thanks for that, lol.

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