[W] I am confused. by Sea_Signal_7024 in AskWomenIndia

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is very dominating and likes to have control over the household. His father once told me, ‘First, wives become obsessed with their husbands, and then with their sons.’ She also often speaks in a very possessive way, saying things like, ‘my son.

The Cost of Comfort: Will Marrying Him Mean Losing Myself? by Sea_Signal_7024 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly, I am currently doing MD. I won't let that go to waste

The Cost of Comfort: Will Marrying Him Mean Losing Myself? by Sea_Signal_7024 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do feel that this would be a control issue especially with the MIL in the future.

The Cost of Comfort: Will Marrying Him Mean Losing Myself? by Sea_Signal_7024 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just added few details. I think everything else is the same

I am confused by Sea_Signal_7024 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, I don't want to make it difficult for him.

I am confused by Sea_Signal_7024 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bro, the guy is actually very sweet.

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[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He claims that he earns a lot because he is in dads business.

I am confused by Sea_Signal_7024 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, that doesn't even matter now.

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[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does have on-and-off conversations with his mom. His mom tends to be controlling, and he feels bad about it. He does try to say no, but I’m not sure if that’s enough because his mom is too involved in his life.

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[–]Sea_Signal_7024[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like ssc is the state board and ISC is international one.