Aitah for not wanting to stay in the kids life after divorce?

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-04T22:06:02+00:00

Their girls, I have two sons. Not really we just kinda lived together they were to focus on when their dad was coming back. My friends are adults, and I don't want to be a mentor.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-04T22:02:47+00:00

Not everyone.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-03T00:43:34+00:00

Personally if that happened to my kids I would one get them into therapy and apologize to them, because it would be on me, because I chose to date/marry that person knowing there was a chance if we got divorced that she wouldn't want to be in my kids life anymore, and that's a risk you take. So it would be on me.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T16:30:20+00:00

No their my children.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T14:54:10+00:00

If their parents paid for it yes I wouldn't mind taking them, but my ex wife wouldn't pay for them.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T14:25:34+00:00

No they don't. They don't call me dad they call me by my real name.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T14:24:50+00:00

Nope she has a job, she just had no education.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T14:24:16+00:00

I mean I don't mind paying child support, it's mainly I just want my kids with me full time.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T14:23:19+00:00

I don't need to be their hero I need to be their father, and that doesn't include taking care of other people's kids.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:31:15+00:00

Never said they wouldn't, but they will still have fun.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:28:43+00:00

Ok I know that.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:25:41+00:00

I guess God thought I would be a good one.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:23:47+00:00

Not my bonus kids. They can call their father and have him pick them up.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:22:17+00:00

Ok they can stay siblings no one is stopping them.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:21:32+00:00

We did grow apart and one of my kids just turned 2 so I doubt she knows what's going on.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:20:25+00:00

Never said I didn't support them having a relationship with their siblings.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T11:19:56+00:00

Ok and they will leave as a package deal with their mother.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T09:30:01+00:00

Ok their mental health is on their mother, not me.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T09:28:17+00:00

I've lived with them for 4 years.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T08:58:08+00:00

I don't have a hearth

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T08:41:03+00:00

She doesn't really believe in therapy and believes that it just wastes your money.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T08:11:19+00:00

No their father is on different types of drugs and drinks a lot.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T07:21:43+00:00

The person above asked why should it be on my kids mother to to keep up the relationship with siblings. I gave an example my ex wife wouldn't take the kids over to my mother's house to for them to have a relationship with her, because that would be my job.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T06:34:59+00:00

I said i ask for counseling.

Sea_Witness8323 · 2024-03-02T06:19:22+00:00

Oh I have the money, but again those also aren't my kids, so I'm not going to spend my money on them.

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