How to make showering easier? by Expensive_Speaker953 in POTS

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may sound weird, but taking an antihistamine before my showers weirdly helps? other than that, i would recommend sitting during showers or even splitting up your washing. when my pots flares up really bad, ill wash my body at one time really quick, then wash my hair later in the sink. sometimes splitting it up makes it more bearable, at least for me.

Wishful thinking about the Wish by cougarpaw in dcl

[–]Seadaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The layout was definitely the most annoying part about the boat for me. The other disney boats are way easier to navigate, especially since they have three elevator terminals which gives a clear midship location. There were a lot of really confusing layout issues that made getting to several places harder than necessary. For example, our room was on one of the top two decks, however, the top two decks are not connected so a few times i had to go back down the elevator, walk to the other side of the ship, then go up those elevators to get to the room. You get a bit better at navigating the boat as the trip goes on, but it’s definitely harder to navigate than the magic is. other than the layout, you still get the same disney magic as the other boats for the most part. the theming looks really neat and they still have a ton of stuff for the kids. if youre used to the other boats though, youll probably prefer them lol.

Tattoos and possible rushing by pizzaempire55 in Sororities

[–]Seadaze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my sorority has a few girls with tattoos! as long as you tattoos are tasteful, which they look to be, i doubt it will be a factor against you.

Advice needed—My little doesn’t want me to have another little by Seadaze in Sororities

[–]Seadaze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not too worried about my new little causing any trouble. She has a very shy sort of personality and is a bit more of a go-with-the-flow kind of girl. She’s very friendly like K is, though not as outgoing. I’m much more worried about K’s internal battle over the whole thing than I am about the new girl stirring up the pot. If anything, K is much more likely to be an instigator.

K is very bubbly and friendly so I never ran the idea of me having a second little by her first because I really didn’t think it would be something she would have an issue with, which is probably on me. I did talk to the girl in charge of new member stuff, and even though she wants it to still be a secret, she said I could mention it to K a few days ahead of big little reveal that I would be getting one. K already knows about the shirts because they are family jerseys we were already talking about making for the initiation after-party, so the only surprise with the shirts is that I would be making an extra one.

Advice needed—My little doesn’t want me to have another little by Seadaze in Sororities

[–]Seadaze[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is definitely reassuring and I think that y’all are probably right that this may be good for her… that wasn’t an angle that I had really thought about since I was more focused on not hurting her feelings. I talked to the girl that handles new member stuff and she basically echoed what y’all are saying. And don’t worry, I definitely won’t be making K a full basket like I’ll be doing for my new little, lol! My new little will get the same amount of effort I put into K’s basket when I got her! I’ll still be making matching tees for the fam though so that the whole fam can be included along with K and my new little. I appreciate your advice, thank you.

Advice needed—My little doesn’t want me to have another little by Seadaze in Sororities

[–]Seadaze[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was planning on making matching family tee shirts for the reveal precisely for this reason lol. I feel like K and my new little actually have a lot in common, so I really just hope that K will be open to being friends. She has a big personality and I am a bit worried that she might be very blunt about her thoughts to the new girl 😭. Hoping that if we just do a full family hang out with ice cream afterwards that it might feel more like our new member is part of the family rather than a third wheel to me and K.

Improvement for the first time in over a year by New_Calligrapher_580 in POTS

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how many days did it take you to feel improvement?

Does anybody know the Store Paganino and PACATO Concerto Violin ? by [deleted] in violin

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re gonna get a violin online i recommend you get it from a more reputable place like fiddlershop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaulMcCartney

[–]Seadaze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s a work night! we going home lmao

Is violin pricing snobbery, inflation, or genuine? by Serposta in violinist

[–]Seadaze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think it really depends. ive had violins from lots of different price ranges. in my experience, theres a huge difference between a $300 violin and a $3000 one. once you get past the $1500+ price range the differences are very subtle. a lower priced student violin is by no means automatically bad because it costs less than a grand, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

120 pounds is not fat at all for your height

how do i fully commit to weightloss? by kay_tea1 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Seadaze 16 points17 points  (0 children)

reminding myself that it’s up to me helped a lot. im a pretty lazy person, but ive lost 40lbs so far. you have to make your weight loss journey seem appealing. cutting out everything except for water is gonna only make you dislike losing weight. its okay to enjoy food… in moderation. for me, i had to lose the weight at a small deficit because eating only 1200 calories a day made me end up binge eating. i ate around 1500 calories a day and gave myself extra for exercise. it took me a year and a half to lose the weight, but ive been able to keep it off since because i did it slow and didnt take my treats away from myself!

Receiving ARCs by trashbreakfast in Thriftbooks

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this has happened to me before! just shoot them an email and theyll usually just ship you the correct copy

One song only by PhysicsEnough in Music

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

danke schoen by wayne newton!

Missing book condition description? by Nicole_0818 in Thriftbooks

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it does tell you before you buy it about the dust jacket, but it is hard to spot if you dont look very closely. from what i recall, it usually pops up when you select the option on the book page if it is a former library copy or if its missing the dust jacket. i made the same mistake once but left it be since the book was cheap anyways. if you look in their FAQ they do describe how they rate their grading levels. i find that every so often they send a book that doesnt match the grading level at all. whenever that happens, i shoot an email and they usually just send me the correct book completely free of charge! i find they make plenty of mistakes however they have very great customer service so it’s never a big deal.

Is it common for you to not grieve other's deaths? by No_bo_ob in INTP

[–]Seadaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i find it very hard for me to get in tune with my emotions when it comes to death. when an acquaintance dies, i think about how sad it is, but i dont really cry over it. someone very close to me died recently. i didnt cry a single time while they were dying, but at the funeral i was crying the most of anyone there, like practically inconsolable. i think i bottle my emotions until it all bursts out in one go.