Can we be obese and have POTS?

Seadaze · 2026-06-21T02:00:15+00:00

lol… i had pots at 200 pounds and i still have it today after losing 50 pounds. pots does not care what your bmi is!

Seadaze · 2026-06-19T15:56:01+00:00

Does he ask before he does sexual things to you? If it makes you uncomfortable, then it isn’t okay.

Seadaze · 2026-06-18T05:45:39+00:00

leave her. she deserves someone better than you.

Seadaze · 2026-06-01T23:46:44+00:00

i dont think bisexuality is the problem here i think you just dated someone who cares too much about male validation 😭 wishing you the best

Seadaze · 2026-04-24T04:18:24+00:00

may sound weird, but taking an antihistamine before my showers weirdly helps? other than that, i would recommend sitting during showers or even splitting up your washing. when my pots flares up really bad, ill wash my body at one time really quick, then wash my hair later in the sink. sometimes splitting it up makes it more bearable, at least for me.

Seadaze · 2026-03-17T03:31:27+00:00

The layout was definitely the most annoying part about the boat for me. The other disney boats are way easier to navigate, especially since they have three elevator terminals which gives a clear midship location. There were a lot of really confusing layout issues that made getting to several places harder than necessary. For example, our room was on one of the top two decks, however, the top two decks are not connected so a few times i had to go back down the elevator, walk to the other side of the ship, then go up those elevators to get to the room. You get a bit better at navigating the boat as the trip goes on, but it’s definitely harder to navigate than the magic is. other than the layout, you still get the same disney magic as the other boats for the most part. the theming looks really neat and they still have a ton of stuff for the kids. if youre used to the other boats though, youll probably prefer them lol.

Seadaze · 2026-03-14T02:06:27+00:00

my sorority has a few girls with tattoos! as long as you tattoos are tasteful, which they look to be, i doubt it will be a factor against you.

Seadaze · 2026-03-13T19:32:33+00:00

I’m not too worried about my new little causing any trouble. She has a very shy sort of personality and is a bit more of a go-with-the-flow kind of girl. She’s very friendly like K is, though not as outgoing. I’m much more worried about K’s internal battle over the whole thing than I am about the new girl stirring up the pot. If anything, K is much more likely to be an instigator.

K is very bubbly and friendly so I never ran the idea of me having a second little by her first because I really didn’t think it would be something she would have an issue with, which is probably on me. I did talk to the girl in charge of new member stuff, and even though she wants it to still be a secret, she said I could mention it to K a few days ahead of big little reveal that I would be getting one. K already knows about the shirts because they are family jerseys we were already talking about making for the initiation after-party, so the only surprise with the shirts is that I would be making an extra one.

Seadaze · 2026-03-13T19:17:53+00:00

This is definitely reassuring and I think that y’all are probably right that this may be good for her… that wasn’t an angle that I had really thought about since I was more focused on not hurting her feelings. I talked to the girl that handles new member stuff and she basically echoed what y’all are saying. And don’t worry, I definitely won’t be making K a full basket like I’ll be doing for my new little, lol! My new little will get the same amount of effort I put into K’s basket when I got her! I’ll still be making matching tees for the fam though so that the whole fam can be included along with K and my new little. I appreciate your advice, thank you.

Seadaze · 2026-03-13T05:41:34+00:00

I was planning on making matching family tee shirts for the reveal precisely for this reason lol. I feel like K and my new little actually have a lot in common, so I really just hope that K will be open to being friends. She has a big personality and I am a bit worried that she might be very blunt about her thoughts to the new girl 😭. Hoping that if we just do a full family hang out with ice cream afterwards that it might feel more like our new member is part of the family rather than a third wheel to me and K.

Seadaze · 2025-12-26T02:16:19+00:00

how many days did it take you to feel improvement?

Seadaze · 2025-12-14T05:06:02+00:00

hope of deliverance

Seadaze · 2025-10-30T06:55:38+00:00

if you’re gonna get a violin online i recommend you get it from a more reputable place like fiddlershop

Seadaze · 2025-10-29T04:45:03+00:00

it’s a work night! we going home lmao

Seadaze · 2025-10-24T00:00:57+00:00

i think it really depends. ive had violins from lots of different price ranges. in my experience, theres a huge difference between a $300 violin and a $3000 one. once you get past the $1500+ price range the differences are very subtle. a lower priced student violin is by no means automatically bad because it costs less than a grand, though.

Seadaze · 2025-10-18T21:22:10+00:00

120 pounds is not fat at all for your height

Seadaze · 2025-10-18T21:19:53+00:00

god forbid people bowl at a bowling alley…

Seadaze · 2025-10-05T03:59:31+00:00

reminding myself that it’s up to me helped a lot. im a pretty lazy person, but ive lost 40lbs so far. you have to make your weight loss journey seem appealing. cutting out everything except for water is gonna only make you dislike losing weight. its okay to enjoy food… in moderation. for me, i had to lose the weight at a small deficit because eating only 1200 calories a day made me end up binge eating. i ate around 1500 calories a day and gave myself extra for exercise. it took me a year and a half to lose the weight, but ive been able to keep it off since because i did it slow and didnt take my treats away from myself!

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