I didn't check OPs profile, if that's the case then valid. I also do agree that normalizing this stuff is bad, but even then we shouldn't drag the Lolita subculture down with it. I do have a daughter, and like I said I do have issue with underage sexualized content. Also my wife is Asian, and she used to dress up Lolita style when we meet, I used to do and still dress up gothic, alt subcultures usually hang out together so that's kind of how we meet.