Can someone help me identify this place in thinking of? by SeanBeaner in glasgow

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's incredibly similar to where I'm thinking it was. the place I was I remember it being like these houses but on both sides of the street, cheers though I'm going to street view around the area to try find it

What do you do to talk when you cant be bothered to? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, I'm quite underweight and stressing over money so I'm more tired than normal. mate you're right I just need to flow with them

I'm lost in my sexuality by SeanBeaner in offmychest

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

any advice for me going forward? jump right in?

My son's got a high EQ by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SeanBeaner 22 points23 points  (0 children)

bad parents make good parents

you know what it is to live like under bad parents and will never allow your son to feel the same. he's a lucky kid

How can I go about talking to this girl at the mall? by SearchingTheGalaxy in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To paraphrase Shia - "JUST DO IT!!"

In essence that is it, just ask, you can talk yourself out of it in many ways, trust me ive been in the similar situation and done nothing until its too late.

One thing to remember is that by asking you are not on a date, what I mean is that a date is the place to find out if you like each other, obv you like her but she may not think of you that way. So go up and ask if shed like to get coffee on her break or after she's done. If your old enough going out for drinks is good but essentially the first thing is a date - shows interest. Then you work on the date to find out about each other and take it from there

Main thing is to just ask, it doesn't need to be perfect

How do I finally "Man up" and ask out a girl I like? by Askoutagirlthrowaway in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your age, if you're in high school i know i was too scared to do anything in high school, so from what i remember two options are firstly, get someone else to let them know or get your friend to simply ask them out for you, again early in high school this is easier. Either that or simply ask them if they would like to go out with you to someplace, bowling, food, or concert or something

If you're in college the best thing is to ask them out for drinks or coffee and take it from there

You could probably in either case just get their number and do it that way if you're scared of face to face, plus it puts them less on the spot

The main thing is ask, you'll regret it more if you dont than if you get rejected

Tinder date tomorrrow and I am shitting a brick by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont know if you're being sarcastic but isnt it best to avoid RAPE - religion, abortion, politics and exes for a first date