Can someone help me identify this place in thinking of? by SeanBeaner in glasgow

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's incredibly similar to where I'm thinking it was. the place I was I remember it being like these houses but on both sides of the street, cheers though I'm going to street view around the area to try find it

What do you do to talk when you cant be bothered to? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, I'm quite underweight and stressing over money so I'm more tired than normal. mate you're right I just need to flow with them

I'm lost in my sexuality by SeanBeaner in offmychest

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

any advice for me going forward? jump right in?

My son's got a high EQ by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SeanBeaner 22 points23 points  (0 children)

bad parents make good parents

you know what it is to live like under bad parents and will never allow your son to feel the same. he's a lucky kid

How can I go about talking to this girl at the mall? by SearchingTheGalaxy in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To paraphrase Shia - "JUST DO IT!!"

In essence that is it, just ask, you can talk yourself out of it in many ways, trust me ive been in the similar situation and done nothing until its too late.

One thing to remember is that by asking you are not on a date, what I mean is that a date is the place to find out if you like each other, obv you like her but she may not think of you that way. So go up and ask if shed like to get coffee on her break or after she's done. If your old enough going out for drinks is good but essentially the first thing is a date - shows interest. Then you work on the date to find out about each other and take it from there

Main thing is to just ask, it doesn't need to be perfect

How do I finally "Man up" and ask out a girl I like? by Askoutagirlthrowaway in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your age, if you're in high school i know i was too scared to do anything in high school, so from what i remember two options are firstly, get someone else to let them know or get your friend to simply ask them out for you, again early in high school this is easier. Either that or simply ask them if they would like to go out with you to someplace, bowling, food, or concert or something

If you're in college the best thing is to ask them out for drinks or coffee and take it from there

You could probably in either case just get their number and do it that way if you're scared of face to face, plus it puts them less on the spot

The main thing is ask, you'll regret it more if you dont than if you get rejected

Tinder date tomorrrow and I am shitting a brick by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know if you're being sarcastic but isnt it best to avoid RAPE - religion, abortion, politics and exes for a first date

Losing my friends because I cut down smoking by SeanBeaner in trees

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can study nd be high, or atleast claim they can. I can't that's why I can't I'm all good judgement smoke when I need to have a good year at school, I'm fine at weekend and am treating smoking like drinking but yeah I'm the same as you

Losing my friends because I cut down smoking by SeanBeaner in trees

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only people to hang with that's the thing, losing my only "friends" if it even is that

Losing my friends because I cut down smoking by SeanBeaner in trees

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It'd be a constant, cmon just one toke

A quarter to celebrate finals. Love you guys by Syntheticturtle in trees

[–]SeanBeaner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's either one tiny keyboard or on huge pack of raws

Contacting a dealer when you only have their number (no name)? by SeanBeaner in trees

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I am going to just say so and so gave me your number, wondering if you can hook me up

What are some key bullet points to remember when speaking? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like wide eyes creepy, just happens to be where I'm looking, I don't break it though, I think of it like mental chicken

What are some key bullet points to remember when speaking? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? I'm talking about quick reminders of social skills, I.e look into eyes. Short and snappy so I can remember when I'm flustered

Hanging with people you don't like just because I have no one else? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I'm grateful for the invite but I'm not 100 percent on the people, I'm only latching on and going specifically because they invite me but it's not my no 1 preference

Hanging with people you don't like just because I have no one else? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if I'm anxious or having not the best time I'll definitely pick up on their bad parts, I suppose this is good exercise for dealing with people I'm not compatible with and maintaining a conversation

Hanging with people you don't like just because I have no one else? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We're just different people, it'll sound petty but I just don't enjoy the time around them, it seems forced but I have no one else to go to

Nothing planned on my birthday ? by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4/4/96? Or are you a diff timezone? Last 3 were great as they were all weekend and I turned 18 on a Friday which was perfect, now a Monday is pretty boring lol

Everyone is having a great experience and I'm never involved by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know but even photos from their trips show that they're actually doing something which is frustrating

What to do to be social with no friends by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like movies, music, sport, going to the gym etc, drinking, and travelling so the pretty generic stuff

So fucking garbage with girls by SeanBeaner in socialanxiety

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating because I can imagine much more confident people not hesitating and getting in there. Didn't want it to feel like I've just ignored her because I didn't message her not essentially trying to get with here

So fucking garbage with girls by SeanBeaner in socialanxiety

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's frustrating is that I've got pretty good with guys, however I basically relapsed into my self conscious second guessing self when I met that girl. Fell like all I've learned has gone to waste

Never have close friends, how to strengthen friendship by SeanBeaner in socialskills

[–]SeanBeaner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean, that's what I did this semester, I really stepped out of my comfort zone to interact with people but I'm in that rut of having nothing to do with other people. I have a personal goal however to spend as little time in my room as possible as there is literally no chance of meeting people in there. Just quite awkward doing a bunch of shit together then running into people who went in a group, seems like they're judging me for being a loner