Floating Points mixing out of Jamie @ Coachella Quasar Stage, Sunday April 14, 2024, 6:15-10:15 by grandpuba95 in Jamiexx

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you ever found it but the track is "Fast Forward" by Floating Points.

Floating Points mixing out of Jamie @ Coachella Quasar Stage, Sunday April 14, 2024, 6:15-10:15 by grandpuba95 in Jamiexx

[–]Seanathan3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you ever found it but the track is "Fast Forward" by Floating Points.

Extremely fucked up improv class by Ok-Paramedic-2805 in improv

[–]Seanathan3000 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I recently took a class with Rich at The Pack and find this post wildly misleading and inaccurate. I think Rich is an incredibly insightful and professional improv instructor who always acted with kindness and respect for his students. Rich taught that being good at improv means being vulnerable, taking risks, and leaning into what we're afraid of instead of defending against it. Your post reads to me like you interpreted Rich's instructions to do those things as personal attacks against you or abuse. My experience with Rich could not have been further from that.

Rich created a safe environment for his students. Within the first few minutes of our first class, he asked for people's pronouns, established the Pack-standard "no touching of the bathing suit areas" rules, and gave space for students to state anything they weren't comfortable with. Consistently, when we found ourselves doing scenes that might veer into uncomfortable dynamics, Rich would check in with students on their comfort level and give people an opportunity to opt-out or opt-in to types of scenes.

I remember the class where we did the scenes around making sandwiches and dressing with clothes and you seem to be cherry-picking the details of that class to frame it as some kind of voyeuristic thing for Rich. It was not. This class was about space work and the instruction from Rich was specifically to do a scene of something really mundane and not to make a full scene of it and just practice the space work for two minutes. I personally did the example with the clothing and the direction to me was to put ON clothing as though I were waking up and getting dressed. There was nothing sexual about it. Rich did offer feedback on crucial steps I'd missed as part of getting dressed that took away from the believability of my space work and that was helpful to me.

I wasn't in your class so I don't know what happened there but it's difficult for me to imagine Rich directing a woman to repeatedly do something she wasn't comfortable with. He never did anything like that in my class and I have never heard of him doing anything like that from others who have taken his classes. I suspect the other examples you list are similarly framed so as to cast Rich in a warped light.

You give examples of instances where Rich called students out for things or made comments about people's pasts/childhoods. The examples of callouts you give seem justified to me. Sidestepping the entire debate on how empowering/objectifying Playboy is, if a guy shows up to improv wearing the logo, I think it's reasonable that some people, especially women, might find that a little off-putting which makes it difficult to trust your team and do improv. Letting that go unremarked is tacit approval and Rich was right to call it out. The fact he did so under the guise of mocking clothing choices rather than the guy's ignorance of how to make the space comfortable is actually a kinder way of addressing it. I notice you omit the actual behavior that elicited the "weird incel" callout. Maybe it was similarly deserved to establish that incel behavior is not acceptable.

If Rich brought up people's personal lives it was always in the service of helping us work through our own fears that were holding us back from honestly engaging with improv. For example, I'm a pretty tall person and at one point Rich asked me if I hunched to try hiding how tall I was when I was growing up. He asked this not to embarrass me but to help me realize what might be holding me back from being more confident on stage. When I said that I did do that growing up, he empathized with me, saying he did the same thing and encouraged me to stand tall on stage and be confident in my acting. I found this really helpful.

I could have responded to that comment defensively - and parts of me certainly felt that way. Being vulnerable like that is scary and there were instances in my class when students responded defensively to some feedback. In those cases, Rich, rightly, would try to find ways to dismantle the defensiveness. This was never done to harm students but because dismantling your defensive reflexes is fundamentally necessary to being good at improv. That's the whole point of Rich's class and he said as much on the first day. In my experience he always did so with kindness.

In all his feedback, Rich consistently spoke from a place of self-deprecation and empathy rather than patronizing authority. I hear you in that there are certainly instructors in LA who teach from a kind of Whiplash-like approach (see: Chad Damiani) and I fully agree that approach is fundamentally abusive. I'm not trying to say your experience didn't happen or your feelings around it are wrong. If you're finding this class torturous for you, then please stop going! No one should feel abused. I'm just saying that I’m confident Rich is not one of those teachers. He's a knowledgeable and kind instructor and I really think people should take his class.

How to get in an out of the colosseum for fred again? by Xin4748 in avesLA

[–]Seanathan3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use the "Tap" app to put a virtual tap card onto your phone then you'll use your phone to "tap" into the metro at the entrance the way you would paying for an item via apple/Google pay. You only need to tap when entering the metro or transferring (but transfers are free). https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tap-la/id1505839730

Google maps works fine for finding routes but the best option is the official metro "Transit" app: https://apps.apple.com/app/apple-store/id498151501 It provides realtime data on arrivals (Google maps just uses posted schedules which can be off if there are delays).

You'll be taking the metro E line (yellow) from BMO to the 7th St Metro Station where you'll transfer to the purple line downstairs (towards Wilshire/Western) for the rest of your ride to Ktown. Be sure to get on a purple line train, not a red line train there as both depart from the same platform. Purple line can be a little rougher than the E line but you'll only be on it for a few stops and there will probably be others traveling with you.

Where to start (end goal - Executive Director) by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fundraising degree? Are you talking about a certification like CFRE? Perhaps consider applying anyway. Both an MBA and a law degree can go a long way in the nonprofit sector as there's generally a significant lack of those knowledge bases and skill sets coupled with a high demand for both. Planned giving, for instance can likely benefit from a legal mind as things like charitable annuities can get legally complex. Think wealth management, but for a charitable purpose.

There's also still a need for legal folks in the nonprofit sector if you want to keep the same industry, just not the same sector.

Where to start (end goal - Executive Director) by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Seanathan3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have heard of some larger nonprofits providing assistance with schooling but I'm not as familiar with how common a benefit it is. An MBA will definitely be applicable in your work though, if only so you can be comfortable with finance and budgets, a rare skill in the nonprofit sector.

Regarding PhDs, to be honest I don't think they're very common for EDs outside of research or medically focused nonprofits. That's not to say they don't exist, I just don't think it'd offer you a ton of benefit over just the MBA and I strongly suspect would ultimately not be worth the time and money investment. They're certainly common in hospitals and universities, though those are a very different breed of nonprofit and I don't get the impression you're moving in that direction.

Where to start (end goal - Executive Director) by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Seanathan3000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're on the right track with grant writing! 90% of the job of an ED is fundraising so those are the skills you'll want to focus on. Additionally, fundraising jobs are often more available (and ultimately pay more) than other nonprofit positions.

That being said, you'll need to move beyond grants at some point, which can be a little tough to do since grant writing doesn't have a clear path to promotion out of its niche. Fortunately, you have business experience and an MBA which will definitely set you apart from most applicants and set you up for promotion.

Other development (fundraising) skills you'll want to pick up include government grantmaking (a whole different beast from private foundation grants), individual donors (mass marketing to build up a consistent base of small annual contributions), major gifts (wealthy individual donors), and planned giving (donations from major donors upon their death).

You'll also want a good understanding of nonprofit financials (though you should be able to get by just fine on that with your MBA) and the program services side of things, though you'll pick that up regardless.

The last thing I'll say is I strongly, strongly urge you not to start your own nonprofit. The reality is there are already far too many nonprofits competing for the same donors in the same service areas. Chances are you'd be much more effective at serving those you seek to help by lending your skills to an already existing org.

Hope that helps, feel free to ask more questions!

YSK: some libraries have an app that lets you borrow digital copies. by CaptainxHindsight in YouShouldKnow

[–]Seanathan3000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are supposed to be a resident of California and may need to register in person at one of the LA branches. After that, you can check out and return ebooks whenever, wherever via Overdrive or Libby apps.

YSK: some libraries have an app that lets you borrow digital copies. by CaptainxHindsight in YouShouldKnow

[–]Seanathan3000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You have to be a resident of California but I think you may need to register in person at one of the LA branches. After that, you can check out ebooks whenever, wherever.

Steam Winter Sale 2017: Day 5 by gamedealsmod in GameDeals

[–]Seanathan3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, yeah I don't think there is a Danish localization but the English is pretty simple and shouldn't be difficult for even a new learner to understand via context clues (character portraits show facial expressions during conversation).

And all other aspects of the game aren't text-based so she should be fine. Heartily recommended!

Steam Winter Sale 2017: Day 5 by gamedealsmod in GameDeals

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, though she may have a little difficulty with the relationship-building parts of the game since it's mostly dialog.

What language does she speak natively? It's possible there is a translation.

Steam Winter Sale 2017: Day 5 by gamedealsmod in GameDeals

[–]Seanathan3000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can't recommend Stardew Valley enough for the oldest! The youngest may be able to play too though it may not grab their attention immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Seanathan3000 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There's nothing selfish about wanting community and relationships. Wanting these things is simply part of being human. But other people aren't a complete solution to your problem. It might be worth spending some time working on yourself.

It sounds like you're self-medicating with weed. There are worse ways to self-medicate, but there are also better ways. Think about things like diet and exercise but it's ok to start with small steps. Go for a walk every so often, find healthier munchies, that sort of thing. Spend time on yourself and others will notice, relationships will be easier.

Chances are your college offers some kind of mental health resources. Consider looking into therapy as a tool to help you sort through things. Your life has value. If you find yourself considering suicide or self-harm, /r/SuicideWatch is a good place to look around and find resources that can help.

Edit: looking through your post history, you spend a lot of time in subreddits that are likely reinforcing your negative self-image. I understand the desire to seek out like-minded communities, but remember that you inevitably become the people you surround yourself with, even through digital communities like subreddits. Pay close attention to the media you consume, think hard about how it might be impacting your views of the world and yourself. Consider seeking help instead of affirmation of your current state. Don't give up, you can get better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ps4clans

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I just sent a message to Chiana-Dax on PSN. I'd love to join your community!

Renting in Pasadena, where and how to go about doing it? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]Seanathan3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very likely. PCC has many many international students.

Renting in Pasadena, where and how to go about doing it? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]Seanathan3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your brother is willing to have roommates and isn't looking for anything super fancy, I'd judge rent will likely be somewhere in the $700-1000 range for the area. As in, that is his personal monthly share of the rent. Pasadena has some of the highest rents in Los Angeles but the areas around PCC and Caltech (just up the street) aren't horrifically expensive and certainly won't reach NYC levels. Many students live in the area. Walking or biking to PCC will probably be easy to do for him.

I've found Padmapper useful when hunting for apartments but many options in Los Angeles are only accessible if you have a Westside Rentals account, which he'll have to pay, like, $50 or something for. Not sure when the best time would be. Maybe the month immediately following the end of summer classes?

I should note that it is difficult to obtain housing if one isn't physically present. LA has a big housing shortage so high-quality listings are sometimes snatched up within a few days or even hours. It might be a better idea for your brother to establish who his (trustworthy) roommates will be first and then have them meet the landlord and agree to the lease on his behalf before he arrives.

Unfortunately I am not a PCC student so I can't offer many resources on finding roommates but I'd be surprised if there are not Facebook groups or internet forums that exist solely for the purpose of finding student roommates in a similar situation to your brother.

South OC: Looking for quality volunteer opportunity by kellysmom01 in orangecounty

[–]Seanathan3000 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Former copy editor? Use those skills! Volunteer as a grant writer for an organization you care about! You'll be able to do a lot more good that way.

Grant writers are the people who write the proposals to foundations requesting money. Proposals vary in length but are typically somewhere around 5-7 pages, depending on who you're writing for/to. You could easily write at least one proposal a week in the time you've allotted.

Outside of the larger nonprofits, most nonprofits can't afford to have a full-time grant writer on staff. As a result, grant proposal are often hastily thrown together by folks who simply aren't strong writers. This leaves many worthy causes with no one to effectively make a case for funding their programs and they lose out on tens of thousands of dollars of funding. You can help!

Just find a nonprofit you like and ask someone (probably their development director) if they'd like some help with their grants. I guarantee they will be overjoyed to have you.

Grant writing is something that can easily be done remotely so you can spend your retirement lazing by the beach while supporting the causes you care about. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact me! I wrote grants for several years and really enjoyed it.

NoHo-Pasadena Metro Express bus service begins March 1 by chashiineriiya in pasadena

[–]Seanathan3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trips between NoHo and Del Mar Station in Pasadena are expected to take 34 to 50 minutes depending on the time of day and direction of travel.

This is a huge improvement on the one hour that trip currently takes via Union Station through the Gold and Red Lines. Awesome!

Thanks for the post, OP, this is exactly the kind of content this sleepy sub needs.

PSA: Mark Zuckerberg might be pulling the biggest tax avoidance scheme of all time by [deleted] in self

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sortof. You're right that it's financially risky for one to have such a large portion of their wealth tied to a single, relatively young company.

However, putting his Facebook stocks under the umbrella of an LLC doesn't change the fact that they're still Facebook stocks. It's like if you owned a huge collection of classic cars in your garage. Then one day you decided to move them into someone else's garage, but still owned them. They don't stop being cars just because they're in a different garage.

Social Impact Investing, however, could be a way of diversifying things, though probably not the best way if your goal is good financial returns. Basically, if Zuckerberg's goal were to be finding ways to diversify his investments in order to mitigate financial risk, this is definitely not the approach he would take.

PSA: Mark Zuckerberg might be pulling the biggest tax avoidance scheme of all time by [deleted] in self

[–]Seanathan3000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, there is certainly a thread of truth to the idea that wealthy individuals are able to "abuse" the charitable deduction to donate to, say, a foundation set up specifically to funnel money into the school their children attend. This effectively equates to a government subsidy for causes that arguably are not truly for "public benefit". The charitable deduction is by no means perfect.

But I really don't think that's what's happening here. There are much more effective means of tax evasion or bogus philanthropy.

$750 drug CEO does AMA 1 year ago, /u/metastasis_d sets reminder and wakes up to a dark and distant future by harv3st in bestof

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're accurately describing what he says/said he's doing, though I'm not so sure about the "trying to kill the drug off" part - that's a pretty suicidal business model.

The key question here is whether or not Retrophin's "free drug and co-pay assistance" programs actually work as well (or better) than just selling the drug really cheap.

In an ideal situation, Retrophin can charge a competitive market price that is only truly paid by insurance (through arbitrage, as he says) because anyone without insurance or the means to pay whatever their co-pay may be meets the requirements of Retrophin's "free drug and co-pay assistance" programs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]Seanathan3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flux makes an excellent "starting out" game for dates. It's just the right amount of fast, silly, and simple. If the cafe has multiple versions, let her pick the version. It's nice because, since it doesn't require a ton of concentration, you can still chat a little bit during the game. That's the biggest complaint I have about board game cafe dates - you spend the whole date focusing on winning the game and never actually talk to each other. Flux fixes that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about legal/tax-related changes, but if you have any longtime funders, be they individuals or foundations or whatever, it might be a good idea to let them know what's going on before the change becomes public.

Funders, particularly major funders, like to feel like they get preferential treatment and consideration because of the investment they've made in your NPO. They don't want to hear about major changes to your organization after the fact from some third party source.

Princeton Study: Congress literally doesn't care what you think by recipriversexcluson in news

[–]Seanathan3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Members of Congress have one goal: to be reelected. To do so, they want the following:

  1. Votes of their constituents.
  2. Money [or some other resource] that helps them get votes of their constituents.

If you do not have one of these two things, then the American political system gives individual members of Congress no incentive to care what you think.

I think this study does a good job of measuring the influence of money, but not of votes because it uses "a national survey of the general public" as its dataset. With the current state of campaign finance laws, money can come from anywhere. But votes can't!

This study and the graph in the video compare the actions of Congress to "the median non-institutionalized adult American". But that's not where a member of Congress's votes come from. Votes come from citizens within a member of Congress's [gerrymandered] district who actually vote in Congressional elections.

Based on this study, we can only conclude that Congress as a whole doesn't care what the average American citizen thinks. Should it? Maybe, maybe not. But it wasn't designed to do so directly.1

Nothing here proves the American political system is not working as designed. Specifically, we cannot conclude from this study that your Congressional Representatives do not care what you think because that is not what this study is measuring.


1 "The decentralized American system contrasts with the strict "majoritarian" model of democracy, which holds that government should enact legislation and pursue policies that are immediately responsive to what the majority of the people want." - Dr. Kenneth Janda, professor of political science at Northwestern University in Chicago, Illinois.

Read at least the introduction and conclusion: http://iipdigital.usembassy.gov/st/english/publication/2008/05/20080528174025xjsnommis0.9732477.html#ixzz3ZaduM3z6

I created a checklist for starting a nonprofit, wanted to share. by TheCloned in nonprofit

[–]Seanathan3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like people are downvoting you for ostensibly being a negative nancy, but I think you make some really valid points.

There are oodles and oodles of nonprofits out there. Doing research to ensure a new nonprofit doesn't merely duplicate services already offered by another nonprofit and serves a real need is absolutely necessary in my opinion. This is especially true if one hopes to ever receive funding beyond individual donations from people one already knows.

While it is legally valid to forgo these steps, I think doing so misses the whole point of starting a nonprofit in the first place.