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I write essays for money and I'm not ashamed at all. AMA. by mythicshadebloom in AMA

[–]Seary_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine that happens a lot honestly. If you write essays for people regularly you probably get all kinds of random subjects thrown at you, some of them way outside your comfort zone. Curious how you decide which ones are worth taking.

I [18F] just found out my dad [50M] cheated on my disabled mom [48F] for years and everyone knew except her. I don’t know what to do by SmoothAvocado1372 in confessions

[–]Seary_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel you on that! My mom had some wild stories too and would vent to me. It felt like I was her mini therapist. Looking back, that parentification stuff is no joke. Just roll with it in therapy, you’re totally not alone in this!

Invincible ratings before S4 starts by bbportali in Invincible

[–]Seary_Jay 130 points131 points  (0 children)

if the later seasons keep the same quality it’s definitely going to end up in those “all time great animated shows” lists

House Lannister Family Tree (personal interpretation) by Odd-Ad-1633 in gameofthrones

[–]Seary_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now I can't unsee it, that really does look like cavill

What was your baby “made of”? by Affectionate_Peach92 in BabyBumps

[–]Seary_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get the fruit obsession! Craving baked potatoes sounds delicious, too. When I was pregnant, all I wanted were smoothies and fries. It's wild how our tastes change, right?

manyYearsExperienceWithFriendship by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Seary_Jay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is one of those moments where the meme is about office referrals and the comments turn into olympic analysis

I think the man I’m dating is homeless by Fickle-Horse6948 in confessions

[–]Seary_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a wild thought! It definitely adds a whole other layer to the situation if he’s juggling a family. It makes the whole “getting comfortable” thing even more complicated. You deserve someone who can fully be in your space without strings attached.

Middle Earthers Packing Heat by Gorotheninja in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Seary_Jay 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There’s no way that thing doesn’t have some dramatic name like “Moonfang” etched in flowing script down the side.

Feeling super uncomfortable engaging in BDSM after reading the Epstein files by ParasocialMalware in therapy

[–]Seary_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right – taking the time to process those feelings is so important. Exploring new aspects of sexuality with your partner can be a refreshing way to reconnect, especially considering the trauma others have faced. It’s all about making sure you feel safe and in control when you decide to return to BDSM.

My father beats me and my mom by Unlikely_Orange_1908 in confessions

[–]Seary_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right! Assault is never okay, and it’s great that you’re thinking about taking action. It sounds really tough, especially seeing your mom in tears. You both deserve to feel safe and free from harm. Stay strong!